Wen | Kobayashi Society said
The crystallization and hope of children as a family has always been loved by their families, especially for grandparents, grandparents and grandmothers, and the blood relationship of "generational relatives" has made them doting on their grandchildren incomparably.
However, excessive coddling will have a negative impact on the child's future behavior habits and personality development, so parents with a little sense of responsibility will strictly control their children.
Having said that, today's children are no better than before, the children of the past are disobedient, when the parents pick up the broom is a beating, after the beating of the child does not cry or make trouble, and even dare not be naughty.
And now the child is just the opposite, don't say hit, even scold to think about whether the child can bear it, after all, there are too many children because of the parents scolded and run away from home.
Recently, in a community park in Henan, a little girl was lying on the ground making trouble, and she almost buried her head in the ground, and she couldn't get up no matter how her mother called.
This kind of scene is very familiar to a post-90s mother, because these tricks have been used all over the place when she was a child, nothing more than spoiling, fake crying, and starting all kinds of tantrums without use, with only one purpose: to make their parents soft, and then to coax themselves, at this time they make any request, parents can unconditionally meet.
Obviously, the little girl's tricks have long been seen through by her own mother, only to see that the girl's mother is crouching at the steps, brushing her mobile phone happily, pity this little girl, the "plan" did not succeed, can only dig the nostrils on the ground.
Then it entered a state of stalemate between the two sides, and if there was no accident, the little girl finally got up obediently and went to her mother's side to apologize, and her mother would choose to forgive her.
Subsequently, the woman's approach attracted many netizens to discuss, some netizens feel that the woman's approach is not considered, let the child lie on the ground is a very dangerous thing, and it is just a turn, in case there are pedestrians riding over will be very dangerous.
Some netizens said: This mother is really unworthy of motherhood, playing mobile phones is more important than watching children, which makes her in-laws see it, and the result is afraid that it will break up.
Netizens who support the woman's approach said: Some children you can't get used to her, at this time, choosing to run over and coax is the wrong practice, which will only deepen the child's wrong style.
Author's Point of View:
The nature of a child is innocent, nothing more than the love of the family, feeling that they can do whatever they want, what they want to buy, as long as they spill on the ground can easily get, why not do it?
In fact, most of the children's practices come from the excessive doting of the elders, as a standard post-90s, now all the tricks of children are used repeatedly when they are young, so they know very well what is going on in the child's mind.
At this time, it is very wise to choose not to compromise, some things are not habitual, with the first time there will be a second time, and continuing will cause serious extremism in the child's thinking, which is not good for the child's future growth.
Although the idea is not a problem, it is obvious that there is a problem with the practice, after all, this is on a road, there are many people coming and going, in case someone drives or rides over, the corner position is just a blind spot, which will pose a threat to the child's body.
I hope that after the mother takes the child home, she can recognize her mistakes from her own point of view, and at the same time, she should not be too extreme when educating the child, so as not to have a bad impact on the child's psychology.