As we all know, with the progress of society, parents' educational concepts continue to improve, and more and more investment in education!
Many parents give their children the best material conditions, eating, wearing, living and traveling account for most of the family's expenses!
It can be said that the cost of raising a child now can be raised two or three children in the past!
Therefore, many families have one child who feels a lot of financial pressure, and two children are simply sad for many days!
However, in the past two days, a post-90s girl in Guangdong has posted photos of her 5 children, and she has a child in her belly. Arouse everyone's hot discussion!
Generally speaking, the family already has 5 children, and they still have to continue to have children, so many and half of them want a son to pass on!
But this female student is different, her first five are sons, the reason why she is so obsessed with wanting to have children again is to have a daughter!
She said that as long as she gave birth to a daughter, she would not give birth, and she did not expect to give birth to sons!
The hope of having a daughter next can only be pinned on this child in the belly.
According to the fertility rate of this girl, it is basically one a year, and it has not stopped for 6 consecutive years!
Netizens have sighed: there are five sons in the family, is this a mine in the family?
After all, in another twenty years, the children will be at the age of marriage!
Five sets of wedding rooms, five bride price, I really can't think of it!
Their family went to a feast for friends and family, and the family just sat at a table!
For so many people in the family, netizens are constantly controversial!
Some netizens believe that it is a good thing that the family is thriving, there are many children and many blessings, when the children are young, their parents are hard, but when the children are older, they naturally know that they are filial to their parents!
In a few decades, the sons will have established a family, the children and grandchildren will be full of children, and dozens of relatives will gather together.
This part of the netizens are generally around the age of 50, they think relatively traditionally, feel that money is not the most important, a family together, people thriving than anything!
However, another part of the netizens feel: if there is no mine at home, you must not have so many children!
After all, the cost of raising children in society is relatively high, can the same education funds be spent on one child as it is spent on six children?
If the family is average, then the education funds of 6 children will certainly not keep up!
Maybe in the end the children will not be able to get into college as they wish, and finally they can only do some manual labor, and the children's lives will be very difficult!
And the marriage of five boys is a big deal, in case there are children who can't get married and have children smoothly, then it is the parents' heart disease!
Most of the netizens in this part are post-80s and post-90s, many of them have mortgages and car loans, there are old and small, and the economic pressure is greater!
And this part of the netizens are more concerned about the quality of life, if too many children make their own quality of life decline, they are also unhappy!
In fact, as far as the current operation of society is concerned, it is still relatively rational to have less than 3 children!
This is also the reason why the country has released the three-child fee! With less than 3 children, parents can reasonably allocate education funds, and even care and love can be handled very appropriately!
But too many children, it is true that it will bring greater pressure to parents, and it is difficult to fully take care of children! After all, even children need education, and they cannot be expected to become natural adults!
Like the concept that parents used to teach their children, just like the peasants watching the harvest in the sky, it is not advisable to look at the children's own talents!
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