Guo Biting revealed that she "lives in a wealthy family", and she really doesn't pretend at all~

Mommy OK

2024-05-06 13:52Posted in Zhejiang Parenting Creators

Riding the wind and waves this year, the sisters will continue to fight for talent, appearance, popularity, and hard work, but what surprised me was that Guo Biting actually came to participate in the competition! Although there was no splash on the stage, a lot of wonderful quotations broke out.

A program that pays attention to "success theory" and "hard work" was forced by her to open up an "alternative relaxation" track.

Introducing herself, she did not mention the classics, but shared with great interest the ordinary life of raising pets, accompanying children, and raising flowers and plants at home.

On the first stage, other sisters dressed up to attend and racked their brains to show their talents, Guo Biting appeared in a simple off-the-shoulder dress and sang a quiet song "Little Happiness", "There is no big wish, there is nothing to rush, there is no need to rush to say an answer", what is hummed in the lyrics is a portrayal of her life.

When it came to the team selection process, the other sisters were either actively grabbing people, or they were self-recommending themselves, only she said to the sister next to her indifferently, "Let's sit slowly and Buddha all the way to the end." ”

There is no desire to "win", obey the arrangement of fate, and be safe when it comes.

Although it is incompatible with Sister Lang's painting style, to be honest, after watching Guo Biting's performance in the show, I have a great impression of her.

I have only watched a little bit of her film and television dramas sporadically before, and I may not have the desire to understand this person in depth, so I will subjectively believe that she is very beautiful and empty, married very sloppily, and is a tool person for her mother-in-law to "inherit the lineage" selected too strictly.

But now I feel that in the environment of exaggerating tension and pressure, she can still be so relaxed and comfortable, emotionally stable and self-consistent, clear in thinking, not arrogant or impatient, and her spiritual core can be said to be quite stable.

Don't compare yourself to others, live your life and focus on the present...... It is the words that we middle-aged women often put on our lips to comfort ourselves. However, it is difficult for most people to achieve the "unity of knowledge and action", and they will always be coerced to compare, envy, and envy.

So at this stage of life, I also want to tell you that life is too tiring and too tiring, and you should also allow yourself to "let go" appropriately, stop and walk to see the scenery, and tell yourself "Actually, I don't have to live so tired".

01

Beauty is Guo Biting's biggest highlight, Cai Wenjing and Qi Wei's evaluation of her is: she is so beautiful and relaxed, but her beauty is very complicated.

It is said that beauty should be her proudest feather, but it seems that she does not have so much obsession with beauty, not only is she slightly plain on the camera, and her pretense is very simple, but she also has a double chin and layered hair that is not afraid of jokes.

Guo Biting also blew up the dead end of her appearance, that is, her cheekbones that show her big face, black and straight are not what she loves, but the hairstyle that is always required, and the director also asked her to get face slimming injections or do medical beauty during filming before, accusing her of gaining weight and having no professionalism, in fact, she has always been thin when she was young, and the big one of 170 is only 84 pounds.

However, she didn't pay too much attention to the anxiety of appearance in the industry, and she only took some ugly words as a "deaf ear", she bluntly said that she was a bone problem and would not lose her face if she was injected with injections, and she was not in a hurry to lose weight after giving birth, but was accustomed to a slightly chubby body and loose style, and became more and more aware of it.

Life is also very casual, just the image of a full-time mother.

She also has her own set of logic.

In the face of the large-scale social celebrity scene of 36 sisters, He Jie was busy distributing snail noodles, Cai Wenjing was desperately close, Guo Biting greeted everyone from a distance and sat down alone, and the psychological monologue was "I told everyone in my heart that you are okay from afar".

Some netizens said that she was impolite and detached from society, in fact, she was just as withdrawn when she didn't marry into a wealthy family, and even had a language barrier when she was a child, and she was always curious why girls like to go to the toilet together, so she liked to stay alone quietly.

Inexplicably voted as the captain by other sisters, Guo Biting has no confidence in her talent, but in the face of everyone's doubts, she did not hesitate, saying: "Actually, I usually do a lot of management, I still have dozens of dogs at home, and I have to manage them", she couldn't help but laugh after speaking.

When her team was unattended and asked if she was sad, Guo Biting said very calmly that she knew that everyone either chose someone who was very powerful and liked very much, or she chose someone she was familiar with, and her mood was very calm at the moment.

Finally, a sister came to join her team, and the director asked her if she had a feeling of being rescued, and her thinking was different, saying, "No, I can do it alone...... On the contrary, the sisters who have a lot of queues to choose for the captains will have a little harder...... Rejecting others is a problem for everyone. ”

In the PK of the first public primary test, the three of them in the team have three big white voices, which cannot be compared with other groups at all, Jin Mengjia's mentality collapsed directly, and she was so anxious that she shed tears, Guo Biting was not too affected by the emotions of her teammates, and was calm and enlightened:

"It's stressful, and you've grown into a different kind of person after you get through it step by step...... There is no shame in the last place, what is this, this is not a process of life. ”

Yigong performed, and when she saw the wonderful stage presentation of other powerful factions, the director was asking what to do, and she still said lightly: "What's this, who has never seen the wind and waves, and I have survived step by step." ”

It can be seen that her "Buddhist" speech is not to save her dignity, or to find a step down, but she really has no ambition and desire from the bottom of her heart.

Compared with external success and fame, the peace and stability of the inner small world can bring her more satisfaction.

Of course, many netizens complained about her on social platforms: If I can have a beautiful face and a strong in-law like her, and don't worry about life and the future, I can also live her chic and comfortable.

But in fact, it's not the case, for example, her husband Xiang Zuo, as the son of the landlord's family, lives a laborious life and doesn't please the public.

02

mentioned Xiang Zuo, netizens gave an appropriate summary: capable father, strong mother, beautiful wife and useless him.

He also recently appeared on a variety show "Wireless Transcendence Version 2.0", which not only did not earn much face, but made the melon-eating masses see enough jokes.

In the interview test, he prepared his own performance program "The Death of Mozart", and the result was sparse, I wanted to highlight Mozart's complex feelings of not meeting his talents and struggling painfully in the face of unfair fate, but the expression of the performance was indescribable.

In many things, he seems to be a little too forceful.

participated in a variety show, and he put 7 family photos on the table, the reason being that he missed his family very much and hoped to be surrounded by them;

During the interview, when asked about the relationship between husband and wife with Guo Biting, he replied very confidently: "We are very affectionate with Biting, reaching 10,000%, which can be said to be extremely affectionate." ”

However, Guo Biting also had a cheating scandal during her pregnancy, and he was rumored to have just appeared in a hurry to take a group photo at the child's birthday banquet.

"Since I was 18 years old, no one has ever given me the space to act, including all the directors and producers in Hong Kong, China, so I feel like a wasted person," he said. "It's as if your parents have become an obstacle to your own development.

But he didn't say that his debut work was Jet Li's version of "Huo Yuanjia", and then starred in "Casting Names", "Winning the Handsome" and "Su Qier", although they are all supporting roles, but the directors and leading actors are the top partners in the entertainment industry, not to mention that Dad invested hundreds of millions of dollars, gathered big names, and customized the movie "Legend of the Gods" for him.

In fact, Xiang Zuo's visible efforts can really endure the hardships of martial arts actors, you say that I am not professional enough, I will be in retreat for seven years (at the age of 26-32) to concentrate on cultivation, do not look at my mobile phone at all, and insist on 10 to 12 hours of high-intensity training every day, you say that I am a rich boy "does not eat fireworks in the world", and I will wander penniless for half a year.

Regarding his efforts, Wu Zhenyu said: "Those are all life experiences that are detached from life." ”

03

So I have to say that when faced with a middle-aged son who is still looking for a goal in life, Xiang Tai is also a little big, but fortunately, she has an excellent vision for choosing a daughter-in-law, and finally found an "emotional stabilizer" for her son.

Although Guo Biting now looks like a quiet Buddha, likes to raise flowers and dogs, and walks her baby quietly, she was not born like this.

When Guo Biting was a child, she even had a tomboy side. But on the contrary, like her husband Xiang Zuo, she has a strong and dictatorial father.

She is very athletic, likes to play football and plays well, and was finally forcibly dissuaded by her father on the grounds that "I gave you a beautiful life, and you play football for me." She was also obsessed with painting, and was stopped by her father.

In her father's plan, Guo Biting's beauty is God's appreciation of food, so let's film well, shoot advertisements, and find a wealthy family to marry when you are old, and you don't need to develop other hobbies and interests.

This made Guo Biting fall into confusion and despair, and she began to experience that sometimes the control of life was not in her own hands.

Therefore, in the face of Xiang Tai's "selection", Guo Biting accepted it by pushing the boat. It seems a bit incredible to the outside world, a beautiful woman with a beast, stepping into the "cage" of a wealthy family, but it is the best decision that 36-year-old Guo Biting can make for herself at that time.

She knows what she wants, she understands her personality and hole cards, and she prefers a quiet life surrounded by small animals, children, flowers and plants than the colorful showbiz.

Thinking about work, love, marriage and life at the age of 36 is the same as thinking about the same issues at the age of 26, people may have completely different perspectives and decisions, Guo Biting may be planning the next step of her life with the thinking when her father forcibly persuaded her to quit.

There are also many unsatisfactory after marriage, for example, Guo Biting obviously feels the difference between a man before and after marriage, she does not explain or argue in the face of public opinion on marriage changes, her stable small universe is still running, and it has little to do with the outside world.

It can only be said that God is fair, it gave Guo Biting some good cards, and this beautiful girl also made good use of the weight in her hand in exchange for what she wanted the most. It's certainly not perfect or perfect, but it's enough for her.

On the other hand, Xiang Zuo, who is also 40 years old, obviously didn't see his hole cards clearly, he was still fighting, and he was still refusing to admit defeat......

Therefore, the public mood will always be biased towards Guo Biting, one is no longer confused, and the other is still confused.

If Guo Biting can provide ordinary people with emotional value, it may be that she dares to respect her personality and listen to her heart.

View original image 83K

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

• 

Personal opinion, for reference only