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After a woman gets married, there is always some involuntariness and helplessness.
But some women can be lucky enough to get out of the cocoon and regain a new life. Some go deeper into despair.
The heroine in the next case, because of the difference between her husband and her girlfriend's thoughts, invisibly exchanged her life with her girlfriend.
Cui Yan's relationship with her husband has recently begun to become more strained, because her macho husband has to resign.
Her husband, Li Gang, forced her to quit her accounting job on the grounds that she was trying to conceive and have a child at home.
But Cui Yan did not want to resign in her bones, seeing that she hesitated, her husband said impatiently: "What's the matter with you, I earn money is not enough to spend, it is so fixed!"
Seeing that her husband was going to be angry with her again, she could only rest in peace, and it didn't take long to go to the unit and quit her job.
After quitting, her heart was empty, thinking that she had quit her job just after getting married, she always felt strange.
Although the husband was still very happy at the beginning, he would give part of his salary to Cui Yan on time in the first few months.
But in less than half a year, the situation at home has changed significantly.
It turned out that the husband gave less and less money over time, resulting in Cui Yan only being able to come up with her own dowry money.
The most terrible thing is that the plan to have children for two people has been shirked by the husband for various reasons.
Seeing that the job was gone, and she couldn't have children, Cui Yan didn't have much regret in her heart.
But she did not know the arrival of her girlfriend next, which broke her status quo.
Her best friend Nana is Cui Yan's college classmate and has kept in touch until after work.
Recently, Nana's work unit was not in a recession, and she was laid off and unemployed.
She originally wanted to play in Cui Yan's city and relax her mood.
The moment she saw Cui Yan's husband, Nana was moved.
It turned out that Li Gang was called by his wife to pick up the wind for her girlfriend that day, so he wore a more formal suit.
Coupled with the height of one meter and eight, the image instantly looks tall and handsome.
Between meals, the three of them chatted happily, and Nana begged Li Gang to help her find a job.
Cui Yan's mind is simple, where do you know that this kung fu husband has been looked at by girlfriends.
For her girlfriend's proposal, she also felt that there was no problem, and she was busy urging her husband to agree to it.
Li Gang is a person with a direct personality, and he accepted it without saying a word.
Cui Yan was happy to help her girlfriend, and also let her girlfriend add her husband's contact information to facilitate the situation.
Unbeknownst to her, the two of them came out privately to make an appointment under the pretext of finding a job.
It wasn't until a relative's mouth was so loud that this stupid woman woke up like a dream.
That day she was called home by her mother, and she didn't think much about it on the way, but she felt that her mother's tone was a little serious.
When she got home, her mother's face was not very good-looking, and then she opened her mobile phone to show her a photo.
Suddenly, Cui Yan's eyes widened, and it was no one else on the picture, it was her husband who was holding his girlfriend Nana.
The mother said that the photo was taken by the aunt of the family by chance, and she was afraid that Cui Yan would be bullied and suffered losses before showing it to her.
When the mother saw that Cui Yan did not say anything for half a day, she said: "Swallow, I felt bad that you resigned before." Look at you, lure the wolf into the room. Now you're ready to do what. ”
Cui Yan was very dazed in her mind, and she didn't know what to do at the moment.
She stayed at her mother's house for several days, and her tears flowed for several days, and finally she decided to divorce.
When the mother heard that her daughter was going to divorce, she did not object. It was only suggested that she take the photos as evidence and take more in the distribution of property.
But Cui Yan did not want to do this, she did not say anything, on the grounds of personality incompatibility quickly divorced.
After the divorce, Cui Yan got a part of the property, saw the opportunity and decisively bought a small house, ready to face life again.
After returning to a person's life, Cui Yan's heart was quiet.
At the same time, in order to divert her attention, she is preparing to take the CPA exam.
After two years of continuous persistence, I finally lived up to my efforts and bet on the meeting.
With this certificate, Cui Yan quickly found a job with a good salary in the investment bank.
Slowly Cui Yan became different from before, she could buy expensive clothes and food, and even her temperament was full of confidence and elegance.
In this way, she naturally attracts some high-quality bachelors.
There are more men and fewer women in investment banks, and smart and beautiful women like Cui Yan are naturally very sought-after.
The suitors around her have extended olive branches, and the conditions are very good.
Eventually, she fell in love with an executive at another investment bank, and on the day of the engagement, Cui Yan brought a larger diamond ring.
This time, Cui Yan felt that she had ushered in a happy time that belonged to her.
Because at this moment, what she holds in her hand is not only her own career and the lover next to her, but also a self-confidence from the heart.
Cui Yan's second marriage was both fulfilling and happy, and a chance encounter allowed her to meet her girlfriend and ex-husband again.
She accidentally bumped into her girlfriend at an imported supermarket that day, and her ex-husband was impatiently reprimanding her.
Cui Yan carefully observed and found that it turned out that the girlfriend wanted to buy a box of strawberries, but the ex-husband was too expensive, not only did not buy it but also satirized her like the next person.
Looking at her girlfriend again, Cui Yan found that Nana had aged a lot. Not only is there no brilliance in the eyes, but the whole person also reveals haggardness.
She knew that her ex-husband and girlfriend did not recognize her and left with doubts.
Afterwards, she still paid attention to inquire, it turned out that the girlfriend and her ex-husband had found a job before marriage, but after marriage, they were also asked to resign.
It is said that he has always looked at people's faces to pay for living expenses, and recently seems to have become pregnant.
Hearing this, Cui Yan finally completely released her heart.
It turned out that the girlfriend had taken her old path, and now this fate can also be regarded as repaying the hatred of the husband of the year.
She only told her mother about this, and finally sighed: "Mom, you said that fate is sometimes not very magical." She stole my husband, but she suffered what I should have suffered, which is also karma..."
The heroine in the case is undoubtedly a blessing in disguise, not only finding a career but also finding true happiness.
This tells us that women should not be discouraged when they encounter the difficulties of life, but also remember the following two truths.
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One: Giving up work is the beginning of a woman's "tragedy".
We often say that raising a family is a man's responsibility and obligation.
Therefore, some women fantasize about getting married without going to work, and only hope that their husbands will be able to support the family.
As everyone knows, this kind of wrong thinking will make women deeply mired in the quagmire and difficult to save themselves.
It is necessary to know that the status and right to speak in the family are determined by the economic foundation.
Therefore, the matter of hard work is not a distinction between men and women.
In order to go on an equal and harmonious path in marriage, women must be financially independent.
And giving up work is not only the beginning of a woman's tragedy, but also the beginning of your husband's indulgence.
Sometimes even a minimum-paid job can show your husband your determination to work hard to live.
Who would disrespect a woman who can love herself and love life?
So avoiding work is not a matter of laziness, but a question of whether you are smart or not.
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Two: Make yourself better in order to meet a better life.
Every girl who has a first encounter will have a vision and fantasy about the future.
And the most powerful person must also be the one who can resolutely not fall in the face of adversity.
In the midst of blows and decadence, the mentally strong have a strong capacity for self-healing.
They are able to repair wounds quickly and turn to the next goal in life.
Such personality charm, even if it is embodied in men, is so charming, let alone a woman.
So the heroine's rebirth after marriage in the case makes her meet a better life and partner.
This is not God's mercy on her, but her own hard work.
In fact, strong and beautiful people know that hope can only be obtained by themselves.
Only by becoming better can we get a better future.
At the same time, I hope that all people, no matter where they are, can try to raise their heads and find their own sunshine.
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The great changes in life may appear in the next second.
But the weather vane of fate is always in our own hands.
When encountering setbacks and blows, don't give up and fall down easily.
Maybe when you survive, the god of destiny will be on your side.
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