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Born in a patriarchal family, girls can come out of the original family, is the greatest happiness, even if they come out of the original family, as long as they are not decisive enough, they will still have an unclear relationship with the original family, and the injured person is still the girl herself.
Just like Fan Shengmei in "Ode to Joy", what about going to Shanghai and having a decent job? In the end, he was still angry with his brother and parents to the point of silent tears.
Stories come from life, and life is more exciting than stories.
The baby girl was abandoned at birth, and 16 years later, her birth mother came to her door
Nana, 16, was pulled by a woman at the school gate, and this woman pulled her and asked the girl to come home with her, shouting: You are my daughter! Don't go! Save your brother!
The girl was so angry that her face was full of fear, and then the girl's father rushed to fight with the woman and took Nana home.
This is a real scene in real life, which happened in Jiangsu.
The woman who claimed to let Nana save her brother was indeed Nana's birth mother, but she had never raised her.
Nana is the second daughter of the family, from birth has not been welcomed, Chen Ling and her mother are bent on having a son, Chen Ling's mother said: "We don't have a son in our family, you must have a son." ”
Together, the family sent Nana, who was born 96 days ago, a hundred miles away.
The two sides verbally promised: the biological parents could not bother the girl until they died.
Although Nana was not welcomed by her biological parents, she was welcomed by her adoptive parents, and later her adoptive parents divorced, and her adoptive father raised Nana alone, giving Nana a warm growth environment and allowing the children to grow up healthily.
The second year after sending away the second daughter, Chen Ling became pregnant, this time they conceived the boy as they wished, and the next year gave birth to a son, the whole family was satisfied, and the son was carefully cared for and raised.
It's just that the son often had nosebleeds when he was a child, and the body was blue and purple, and the doctor told Chen Ling that the child was born with weak blood clotting ability, he could not do strenuous exercise, could not be injured, and a small injury did not matter to other children, but it was fatal to him, as long as it was protected, life was worry-free.
When the boy was 14 years old, he had a sudden situation at school and was urgently sent to the hospital, and Chen Ling was told that the child must undergo a bone marrow transplant, otherwise his life would be in danger.
The whole family tried to pair, but the pairing failed, and they could only go to the bone marrow bank to register.
At this time, Chen Ling suddenly remembered the child abandoned 16 years ago.
She rekindled hope.
"Will it hurt Nana, not so much"
When Chen Ling first found Nana's adoptive father, her adoptive father did not know the truth about bone marrow transplantation, but only saw Chen Ling crying a handful of snot and tears, so he agreed to her request, but the condition put forward was that Nana could not know the truth, and if Nana knew her origin, she would be sad.
Chen Ling agreed with Nana's adoptive father's suggestion.
Nana's adoptive father, Zhang Hongjian, took Nana to do a match, and the result was an exact match.
Chen Ling's first reaction was to smile: "My son is quite lucky." ”
After Zhang Hongjian learned about bone marrow transplantation with the doctor, he knew that this was a very dangerous thing, and it could also endanger Nana's life safety and even life.
Zhang Hongjian put forward new conditions: if you want to give Nana bone marrow transplantation, you must first provide a guarantee fund, if Nana is okay, he will return the original number, if Nana has an accident, this will also be guaranteed.
This made Chen Ling very angry, and she thought that the other party was taking advantage of the opportunity to blackmail.
Chen Ling could not come up with the money, and later found the local village committee, and after several consultations, Zhang Hongjian gave in.
In February, new problems appeared, because Zhang Hongjian is a crab farmer, this season is very busy, there is no time to accompany Nana to a hundred kilometers away to do bone marrow transplantation, he proposed that it is best in Suzhou, Suzhou hospital has high medical skills, more security.
This completely angered Chen Ling.
Only then did she have the opening scene, she went directly to the school to find Nana and tell Nana the truth, which was a very big blow to Nana.
When asked if she had taken into account her daughter's feelings, Chen Ling said: Whether it will hurt Nana, she did not think so much.
Write an open letter to denigrate Nana's adoptive father
After making a big fuss at the school, it was not over, and Chen Ling was not completely dead hearted.
The next day, an open letter appeared in the streets and alleys, this letter wrote Zhang Hongjian's father and daughter as extortion, only recognized money and did not recognize people, saying that Zhang Hongjian's personality was distorted, and he could not see human nature...
Everyone in the local area was talking about Nana and Zhang Hongjian, and after Nana saw this letter, she was even more angry and speechless, and she excitedly told her father: We are going to sue her, she is violating our right to reputation!
Later, as Chen Ling's son's condition deteriorated, Chen Ling asked the hospital to find Zhang Hongjian again, and Zhang Hongjian's reply was: The last incident hurt the child a lot, and the school did psychological dredging for the child, hoping that you will not bother her again.
Chen Ling later found the media and cried on the TV show. One side wants to protect Nana from being hurt, but Nana's birth mother is afraid that people all over the world will not know.
However, it was later said that there was a pair of bone marrow in the bone marrow bank, and After that, Chen Ling never looked for Nana again.
The preference for sons over daughters, to this point, makes people outrageous
There have been many cases of son preference, but to this point there are also a few, the same is the biological, the daughter will be abandoned, and the son will show great love.
If there is no contrast, the mother's love for her son can touch the world, but after the contrast, the mother's face is exposed, eating is really too ugly, just thinking about saving her son, completely ignoring the safety of her daughter.
Even at all costs to make her daughter's reputation stink, but completely ignored that her daughter is just a 16-year-old child facing the college entrance examination.
I hope that there are fewer and fewer parents in life, boys and girls are the same, and do not use inherent concepts to hurt children's feelings.