Many years ago, chen Ling gave away her second daughter in order to give birth to her son. Now that his son is seriously ill, he has found his daughter and asked for bone marrow donation. The daughter's adoptive father asked for a deposit of 200,000 yuan, but unexpectedly the mother did something that shocked everyone. Everyone was talking about it: Is this something a mother can do?
Chen Ling of Huai'an, Jiangsu Province, gave birth to two daughters in a row when she was young, and her in-laws preferred sons to daughters, and in order to have a son, she passed on her newborn second daughter to someone else. A year later, pregnant and gave birth to a son, the family smiled happily and had roots.
The day fell against everyone's wishes, and my son fell ill
Who knows if there are storms in the sky. When my son was four years old, he often had a purple patch on his body and often had nosebleeds, and after checking in the hospital, he found that it was thrombocytopenia. Although not a terminal illness, it is difficult to cure.
Platelets are coagulation factors in the body, thrombocytopenia, poor coagulation function, can not exercise vigorously. Because once the injury bleeds, it is difficult to stop. If the trauma is large, it is also life-threatening.
Since the age of four, the son has been taking medicine and injections for many years, and under the careful protection of the family, the condition is well controlled, and in the blink of an eye, his son is 14 years old.
However, bad luck crept in.
On this day, my son was in class, and suddenly he had a nosebleed, and he couldn't stop it. After being rushed to the hospital, the doctor said that the child's condition had deteriorated, and it was best to have a bone marrow transplant quickly, otherwise it would develop into acute leukemia.
This result has plunged the whole family into grief, and after so many years of meticulous care, it has worsened.
But now is not the time to grieve, we must quickly find a suitable match for our son and donate bone marrow.
The doctor said that the brothers and sisters have a higher chance of successful matching, so they can find a suitable bone marrow donor as soon as possible.
Chen Ling's family also has an eldest daughter, 17 years old. So Chen Ling took her eldest daughter to the hospital for matching, who knew that the matching was not successful. In desperation, the couple registered the information in the Chinese bone marrow bank and went home to wait for the news.
Back at home, looking at their son on the hospital bed, the two silently wept. Before he got sick, his son Qing Qingxiu was very handsome. After falling ill, in order to raise platelets, a large number of hormones were used, and now my son's weight is soaring, his face is swollen like bread, and the whole person has changed shape.
The number of normal human platelets is 100,000-300,000 / ml, and the son now has only more than 2,000 platelets / ml, and he does not dare to go to the ground to move, lying in bed all day, eating is sitting on the bed to eat. And the bottom of his son's eyes also began to bleed.
Chen Ling and his wife were anxious, Chen Ling suddenly remembered the little daughter who was sent away, what if she could be successfully matched? Chen Ling thought of this, and immediately set out to find her little daughter.
Her husband advised her not to disturb the child's life, and when we sent her away, the family said not to see each other in the future and not to disturb each other.
Chen Ling was eager to save her son, and she couldn't manage so much at all, so she immediately took the car to find her little daughter's home.
Faced with her daughter who was sent away, Chen Ling's mind was full of bone marrow transplantation
It is said that this little daughter was adopted by her adoptive parents Zhang Jianhong and his wife, and lived a very good life, and her adoptive parents themselves gave birth to three children, but unfortunately they all died of illness when they were young. So after adopting the little daughter, he treated her sincerely and was very kind to her, named Zhang Lina, and the nickname Nana.
The family lives peacefully, and three years ago Zhang Jianhong divorced his wife and lived alone with his daughter.
Zhang Jianhong has a fish pond and is busy in the fish pond every day. On this day, Chen Ling found Zhang Jianhong, explained the reason for her coming, and pleaded with Zhang Jianhong to agree to her daughter to match her son and kill her son.
Zhang Jianhong saw Chen Ling crying bitterly at that time, thinking of the pain of losing his own child, and also considering that it was not necessarily successful to match, he agreed to Chen Ling's request and let his daughter do the matching.
Who knows, it is very coincidental that Nana and her brother are successfully matched and suitable for bone marrow donation.
Hearing that Nana was successfully matched, Chen Ling's family smiled happily, and this time the son was saved. Chen Ling did not delay for a moment, and rushed to Zhang Jianhong's house to tell him the good news.
Unexpectedly, Zhang Jianhong listened, was not happy at all, but instead put forward an unreasonable request, which made Chen Ling jump to her feet.
It turned out that Zhang Jianhong was very pitiful when he saw Chen Ling crying and crying, and he was moved by compassion. Now the matching is successful, let the baby daughter donate bone marrow, in case there is harm to the child's body, he regrets it.
So he said: "Take 200,000 yuan, in case the child donates bone marrow and has any sequelae, so as to treat the child." After my daughter gets married, if there is nothing wrong with it, I will return 200,000 yuan to you one cent at a time. ”
Chen Ling listened, so much money, I can't get it out, aren't you blackmailing? Besides, it is their own child, it is the son's sister, the sister should save the younger brother, and if we want so much money, where do we have it?
The two families broke up unhappily. Chen Ling looked at her poor son lying on the hospital bed, listening to the doctor's incessant urging, and was anxious.
At this time, in order to save her son, Chen Ling came to Zhang Jianhong's house to beg him. Zhang Jianhong relaxed slightly, meaning that now his daughter will take the exam immediately, and now it is a critical moment, waiting for her daughter to finish the exam, and then go to the bone marrow transplant.
And now there is a lot of work in the fish pond at home, and when this period of time is busy, the child is also finished in the middle school entrance examination, and then go again. At the same time, she repeatedly demanded that Chen Ling must not let Nana know that she was not her own child. He was worried that his daughter knew that he was adopted, that there would be a gap in his heart, and that he might leave him.
In order to force Nana to donate bone marrow, Chen Ling did incredible things one after another
But Chen Ling was not willing to wait for a minute, she was afraid that if she delayed for a long time, her son would be in danger of life, and her daughter's middle school examination was not important at all in her eyes, and she only had her son in her heart. At this time, she thought of a method, and it was her approach that completely angered Zhang Jianhong.
When Chen Ling saw that Zhang Jianhong did not want her daughter to donate bone marrow in her heart, she wanted to tell her daughter the truth directly and take her home. So the family went directly to Nana's school, and Chen Ling told Nana all the truth, crying and begging Nana to save her brother.
Nana, who was only 15 years old, was frightened by Chen Ling's words. She couldn't imagine that the father who had loved her since childhood was the adoptive father, and the strange woman in front of her was her own mother, and she couldn't accept this reality anyway.
Chen Ling's family wanted to pull Nana to the car, Nana cried and ran out of the car, the security guard at the school gate saw it, quickly called the police, and called Zhang Jianhong.
When Zhang Jianhong arrived at the police station, Nana saw him, hugged him and cried bitterly, and her whole body was trembling. Chen Ling said, "I am your mother, you must donate bone marrow to save your brother, otherwise your brother will die." We're going to get you back. ”
Nana cried, "I don't know you, I don't donate." ”
Zhang Jianhong was angry, quarreled with Chen Ling, and took his daughter home. When Nana returned home, she was in a very low mood and cried all night.
Chen Ling watched the father and daughter leave at the police station and scolded angrily: "You are not kind, don't blame me for being unjust." In order to save her son, Chen Ling did not care about her daughter's feelings at all and did something even more excessive.
The next night, Chen Ling posted large posters in the streets and alleys slandering Zhang Jianhong, not only telling Nana's origins, but also saying that they were ruthless and unjust, and did not save their seriously ill brother.
Suddenly, Zhang Jianhong and his daughter were pushed to the cusp of the storm. Classmates who did not know the truth also pointed out Nana. During that time, Nana was in a trance all day, absent-minded, and did not dare to walk up, nor to go to crowded places.
Zhang Jianhong looked in his eyes and hurt in his heart, but he didn't know how to comfort the child. He was worried about the children he had worked so hard to raise, knew that he was adopted, had a gap in his heart, and never recognized himself again.
A week later, Nana was in a better mood, and she said to Zhang Jianhong: "Dad, fight with her." ”
Just this sentence made Zhang Jianhong happy in his heart, and a long-lost smile appeared on his face.
Zhang Jianhong laughed and said, "Hearing her call out to her father, knowing that she still recognizes herself, the stone in her heart will fall to the ground." Zhang Jianhong said this sentence now, and he couldn't help but smile.
Later, Zhang Jianhong let Nana make her own choice, donate or not donate, Nana decided for herself. Zhang Jianhong said to his daughter: "No matter which choice you make, I will support you unconditionally." In the end, Nana chose not to donate.
After such a toss, the persuasion of relatives and friends, Chen Ling also realized her mistake, and she respected her daughter's choice. I hope my daughter will grow up to understand her actions and forgive herself.
Finally, while Chen Ling's family was anxiously waiting, good news came from the China Bone Marrow Bank, saying that the bone marrow matching type of two donors was found to match the blood sample. I hope my son can successfully complete the bone marrow transplant.
In the story of "The Unforeseen Price", although Nana was abandoned by her biological parents since she was a child, it is also a blessing in misfortune to meet Zhang Jianhong's family. It is often said that the grace of nurturing is greater than the grace of procreation. Indeed, it is better to be born without raising than to not being born.
In the eyes of her biological parents, Nana is a loss of money, is a burden, in the adoptive parents' home, she is a baby, is the sustenance of her parents, but all the good things are left to her, send her to school, accompany her to grow, is really put in her heart and love. Nana is 15 years old, she can tell right from wrong, know who is really good for her, so she firmly chooses to stay with her adoptive father.
On the other hand, chen ling, the biological mother, in order to save her son, really took pains and desperately. But in order to save his son, regardless of his daughter's feelings, he not only violated the contract to say his daughter's origins, but also posted a big poster to slander his daughter and adoptive father.
I hope that after this incident, Chen Ling can reflect on her own behavior, and in the days to come, learn to truly love her children and be a qualified mother.
In the traditional Chinese concept, giving birth to a boy is the glory of the family, the foundation of the continuation of the family, the son can pass on the family name, the wealth and honor in the family can be inherited, and it is the person who can be relied on in the future. That is to say, as the saying goes: raising children to prevent old age.
The daughter is "the water spilled by the girl who marries out", and she is a person from someone else's family. It is a money-losing commodity, and when you are raised, you marry into someone else's family, work for others, and become an outsider. In the future, I can't count on my own pension.
In fact, think carefully about what this son of Chen Ling's family brought to them? Sick from childhood, the family is worried about life. Now that the condition is deteriorating, it not only requires huge treatment costs, but also requires more careful care from the family. It can be said that for this son Chen Ling's family to do everything, I don't know if my son can be cured. Whether or not we will be able to pass on the family in the future is unknown.
In fact, in today's society, boys and girls are the same, and the older the older they are, the more envious they are of families with daughters. The daughter is more intimate and delicate, will often go home to visit, and is willing to accompany her parents to nag the family, help clean up the housework, etc. Most of the parents in the hospital are now daughters.
Sons are relatively more independent, extensive feelings, generally treat parents is to give money, let parents go out to travel, etc., rarely have patience to accompany parents to chat and eat.
Society is changing, our concepts must also change, and we can no longer live with the old yellow calendar. Regardless of the birth of boys and girls, as long as the children can grow up healthy and happy, it is the greatest happiness of parents. What do you think?