I heard that there was a girl, many people joked that it is another China Merchants Bank, although this is a joke, but some parents really use their daughters as a tool to accumulate wealth, especially in terms of bride price, if you can't give yourself the number you want, then you won't let your daughter get married, and you don't put your daughter's happiness in your eyes at all.
In some places, the bride price is ridiculously high, many boys' families are overwhelmed, and some boys with poor conditions will often take out loans to let them get married, but for boys with slightly better conditions, they all feel that marrying a girl with a high bride price is equivalent to degrading themselves, but they do not accept a high bride price.
Chen Ling's local dowry is about 200,000, but the parents say that you have two younger brothers, 200,000 is not enough, at least 500,000, so when Chen Ling brought her boyfriend Wang Tao home, her parents proposed a sky-high dowry of 500,000. At first, Chen Ling was very opposed, but her parents said, we have inquired, your boyfriend's family has money and does not lack this money.
When the boyfriend's parents heard that Chen Ling's family wanted a dowry of 500,000 yuan, they instantly changed their faces, Chen Ling went to her boyfriend's house to play, and the boyfriend's parents have been lukewarm, which makes Chen Ling feel particularly awkward. The boyfriend is very enthusiastic, but he has been asking Chen Ling if he can lower the bride price.
Chen Ling's parents could not bear to let the cooked duck fly, so they said with great momentum that 500,000 points could not be less, and when Wang Tao's family learned of Chen Ling's parents' attitude, they were completely cold.
Wang Tao also stopped contacting Chen Ling, and even if Chen Ling sent him a message, Wang Tao would no longer reply. Chen Ling thought that Wang Tao was angry with himself, but he had not yet married, his family had treated himself like this too much, Chen Ling was also a little displeased, and the two families had been deadlocked for half a month.
Suddenly, Wang Tao sent a message to Chen Ling, let's break up, Chen Ling was a little flustered, hurried to consult with her parents, her parents heard the news, some disappointment, they were also afraid that this family affair was really yellow, and said to Chen Ling fiercely: "The bride price has dropped to three hundred thousand, and it cannot be lowered anymore." ”
Chen Ling sent a message to Wang Tao: "The bride price is 300,000 yuan, the last chance!" "I spent a hundred thousand and found someone better than you!" Wang Tao replied to Chen Ling in this way.
Chen Ling was momentarily confused after seeing this news, and she hurried to Wang Tao's house to find him, but he saw that there was a girl in Wang Tao's room, and the two of them talked and laughed, like a little couple.
At this time, Wang Tao's mother came over to Chen Ling and said, "You two are not suitable, besides, your bride price is so high, we can't afford to climb high, you go back!" And Wang Tao said in a blunt tone, "We have broken up, you don't come again!" Chen Ling felt that her face was hot, and she didn't know how to get out of Wang Tao's house, so she returned home confused.
Chen Ling's family sighed, the matter has come to this point, can only accept the reality, the family began to arrange a new round of blind dates for Chen Ling, but this time the parents decided to reduce the bride price.
Many women's families believe that the bride price is the only opportunity to squeeze the interests of the in-laws, so they do not want to miss it. They are more popular with their daughters, often lions open their mouths, in fact, whether it is a woman's family or a man's family should have a correct attitude, since the children have become relatives, then the two families have become relatives, must not be hurt and angry because of money, after all, the bride price is only a custom, if it is used as a means of accumulating wealth, then the relationship between each other is also easy to be frozen.