Now more and more parents began to pay attention to the cultivation of children's learning ability, although the beginning of the child is lively and active, the class can not concentrate on listening to the lecture, but after the parents use the correct method to guide and encourage, the child is not half-hearted in class, the score of the test is also rising in a straight line, and eventually the child becomes a good child and a good student in the hearts of parents and teachers.
Watching the students work so hard, even if the children are only six or seven years old, they are not far behind, they will catch up and strive to be the last one to catch up.
Today's case sharing is a first-grade child who scored 99 points in his Chinese test paper and only missed one question. How disciplined is this little friend? Not only is the score of the test very high, but his paper is neatly arranged, and the handwriting is as neat as a letter, no wonder even the grading teacher said that he was reluctant to deduct points for the child, and really wanted to give the child a full score of 100 points.
As we all know, the Chinese examination paper is the subject that can test students' self-discipline the most. Watching the child hand in the neat and tidy test paper, there is basically no wrong question, and the teacher's heart is naturally happy to blossom.
Even if this Language test paper only scored 99 points and did not achieve a good score of full marks, then from this set of test papers, you can clearly see the efforts made by the child behind the scenes and how disciplined the child is.
The word self-discipline is not only applicable to the adult world, but also for children who are only a few years old, if children can develop good habits of self-discipline at a young age, then they will certainly surpass their peers and become the best in their industries and fields when they grow up.
Not all children are born with the ability to self-discipline, most children need parental guidance, in order to make their children more and more self-disciplined, what should parents do in their daily lives?
First: guidance and rewards, so that children understand that one point of hard work is one point of harvest
Even if the child is still young, parents should set rules for their children, and let their children have strict standards and requirements for themselves. When the child has a goal in mind, even if there will be many setbacks and obstacles in the process of action, parents can not let the child give up halfway, but to guide the child, encourage the child, let the child know that as long as they insist on paying, then they will be closer and closer to the dream.
When the child has finally completed the goal with great efforts, then the parents should also reward the child appropriately, which can be some verbal reward or material reward, so that the child knows that there will be a reward for paying.
Second: Success is not achieved overnight, but gradually
When parents set goals for their children, they should not think of eating fat in one breath, but should set staged goals for their children, so that children can complete the ultimate goal step by step.
Third: Parents at home should set a good example
Children have a strong imitation behavior, if the parents themselves are not self-disciplined, then how to guide children to develop good habits of self-discipline through their own words and deeds?
If parents come home after work every day and lie on the sofa to play with their mobile phones, may the child sit in the study and read seriously? Therefore, parents should lead by example and become a good example for their children.
Fourth: Show your children more celebrity biographies
What younger children need most is the guidance of parents and teachers, and they can show children more picture books of celebrity biographies on weekdays. Let children enter the world of celebrities through reading and learning, and truly understand how important self-discipline is to success.
Self-discipline is very important for both adults and children, if we have never been self-disciplined since we were young, then how can we expect to have a different bright future? Every parent hopes that their children can become a pillar of strength when they grow up, and it is indispensable to cultivate various good habits for their children from an early age, especially a sense of self-discipline.