Before giving birth, doctors will conduct intrauterine examinations on women, although this is a prenatal process that every pregnant woman has to go through, but the psychological and physical discomfort caused by the internal examination makes many women grumpy and reluctant to be mentioned again. The arrival of small life has witnessed the greatness and magic of pregnancy, but in the face of childbirth, the last threshold of pregnancy, women have to put away their inner helplessness and embarrassment. "Women are weak, but mothers are strong", this sentence is not just talk, and the heartache hidden behind it is only understood by mothers.
Not long ago, her girlfriend Liang Liang experienced the first smooth delivery in her life, and when sharing her childbirth experience with her friends, she said bluntly, "Compared with the pain of giving birth to a child, the intrauterine examination of the prenatal examination is really embarrassing." After hearing her say this, several friends who had given birth nodded in agreement. Friend Liya said, "When I gave birth to a child, I was more embarrassed than you, and I met a male doctor who examined me internally, and I was so old and red that I didn't even want to have a child!" ”
"I didn't expect that as soon as I arrived at the clinic, the doctor would let me take off my pants and dislike my slow hands and feet. I had 4 internal examinations before going to bed, and it was really embarrassing each time, and if it wasn't for the pain of giving birth to a child that distracted me, I would have collapsed on the spot. Hearing that her friend had a similar experience with herself, Liang Liang suddenly opened the conversation box.
"Although my husband said that it was nothing, this is the normal operation of the doctor, but I always feel awkward. It seems that once a woman becomes a mother, her physical dignity is not worth mentioning! And I was completely unprepared before, when the doctor examined internally, my nerves were particularly nervous, so my body felt particularly painful, which was really embarrassing and painful. ”
His friend Hehe, who had been silent on the side, said at this time, "In fact, the internal inspection is just the beginning, and there are more embarrassing things in the back!" The process of giving birth to a child is really both helpless and sad, which is a challenge to the mother's psychology and body, and it is really necessary to show the spirit of not being facetious. ”
01 Why do women reject the prenatal "internal examination"? It's not just embarrassing
After a woman is admitted to the hospital for delivery, the doctor needs to make a judgment about the woman's cervical canal regression and the opening of the uterine opening. So although the internal examination is embarrassing, it is something that every pregnant woman must go through. During the internal examination, the doctor will ask the woman to take off her pants, and then extend two fingers to detect the opening of the vaginal cervical opening of the mother, and as the labor progresses, the doctor will check about 3-4 times before the opening of the mother's uterine mouth with ten fingers.
Obviously, the internal examination operation will involve the private parts of the mother's body, which will inevitably make the mother with no fertility experience feel embarrassed and collapsed. In addition, during the internal examination, the mother will also feel a certain degree of pain, especially if the mother who is more sensitive to the pain, the pain of the internal examination will be more intense. In addition, the mother's mental tension will also lead to excessive tension of the skin muscles, which will also aggravate the pain of the internal examination and affect the mother's childbirth experience.
02 Compared with the "internal examination", these few things experienced during childbirth will also make people "reluctant to recall"
After going to the delivery bed, the doctor will prepare the woman's skin. The so-called skin preparation is to remove the hair near the private part of the mother's lower body, which can avoid the fetus from being infected by bacteria, and also facilitate the doctor to carry out delivery operations. For pregnant women, the experience of preparing a skin is naturally very embarrassing. Some pregnant women ask if their husbands can help prepare the skin, but such requests are usually rejected. Because the operation of skin preparation is carried out more carefully, if you lack experience, it is easy to cause scratches and even induce wound infection.
During childbirth, the doctor will ask the woman to breathe and exert force, and as the fetus descends, the mother is likely to be excreted on the delivery bed under the stimulation of excessive force. As an adult, it is naturally unimaginable to excrete in the delivery bed, and although doctors and nurses do not have much mood swings about it, it is very embarrassing for the mother herself.
Giving birth to a child is a relatively private matter, and if you encounter a male doctor during childbirth, it is naturally a very embarrassing thing for the mother. Although for doctors, this is their job, but as far as maternity is concerned, the situation of opposite-sex delivery will still make people feel a little badly accepted.
In fact, although the process of childbirth is painful and embarrassing, when they see the soft baby in front of them, the mothers will find that all the experiences are worth it. In addition, during childbirth, women do not have to be too entangled in these "embarrassing" experiences, relax their mood, and properly divert their attention will be more conducive to the smooth birth of the fetal treasure.
Conclusion: Inexperienced new women can learn more about the relevant matters and details of childbirth before giving birth, which can not only make themselves more mentally prepared, but also better cooperate with the doctor.