Yuna, a senior in high school, was sitting on the roof on the top floor of the school in tears, silently dialing a phone, crying, and saying, "I want to kill myself!" ”
The phone was answered by the Psychological Counseling Center, and Horton, counselor No. 81, answered her call.
First, why does a good child have world-weary thoughts?
What does it mean to be a senior in high school?
The pressure of approaching the college entrance examination, the endless books to read, the homework that cannot be written, the persecution of teachers who hate iron and steel, the nagging of parents who hope to become jackie chan, and the boring life day after day, year after year.
This kind of life will last for three years.
Under careful consideration, this kind of pressure may not be able to be borne by adults, let alone underage children!
Children focus on learning, need a strong and stable rear support, this big rear, naturally is the family.
Yuna's family, however, had an accident at this time.
In the year of her sophomore year of high school, Yuna's parents divorced.
Two middle-aged people who think they are smart discussed to hide Yuna, planning to wait until Yuna's college entrance examination is over, and then tell Yuna the news of divorce.
They were still eating at a table, living in a room, and sleeping in a bed, as usual.
They think they've had a successful role-play.
But a relationship breaks down, and no matter what, there will always be a flaw.
Yuna overhears their quarrel and learns that her parents have divorced.
Yuna then realized that her father's business trip was not a business trip at all, but only an attempt to avoid her aggressive mother for a while.
In a family of three, two adults often hate each other and accuse each other, you don't let me, I don't let you, make a lot of noise, chickens and dogs jump, and shout every day to divorce and break up.
Children are often the ones who most want a complete family.
Yuna did everything she could to keep her father.
In a family of two or three, the child is the one who most hopes for family harmony
As soon as her parents quarrel, Yuna will do something to shift their focus to herself.
For example, going to the supermarket to steal something, deliberately being caught; helping her father cut kiwi fruit, deliberately cutting her fingers, Yuna found that as long as she had an accident, her father would never ask for anything bad, nor would she argue with her mother, and the two of them would stay with her together to care for her and take care of her.
The helpless Yuna, who does not want the family to be broken, can only take these extreme actions on her own to maintain the superficial peace of a family of three.
This situation lasted until Yuna bumped into her father with her classmate Xiao Zhe's mother, who not only drove Xiao Zhe's mother, but also bought a very expensive suit for Xiao Zhe.
Yuna naturally believes in her heart that it is Xiao Zhe's mother who has destroyed her family.
From that moment on, Yuna pointed her anger at Xiao Zhe.
She began to oppose Xiao Zhe consciously or unconsciously.
The two performed on the same stage, Yuna deliberately fell off the stage, and then blamed Xiao Zhe for pushing herself; Yuna saw Xiao Zhe wearing the suit given by her father, and deliberately sprinkled a large amount of red ink on her suit.
The contradiction between Yuna and Xiao Zhe rose to an irreconcilable state in a short period of time.
Xiao Zhe is not a weak and deceitful child, and when he saw that his suit was covered with red ink, he slapped Yuna angrily.
The teacher trusted Xiao Zhe, the students sympathized with Xiao Zhe, and even the father who rushed to the scene, inside and outside the words were big things, small things, and did not want to hold Xiao Zhe responsible.
At that moment, Yuna felt abandoned by the whole world.
Third, unstable family relations are the biggest culprits that cause children to lose confidence in survival
Why are people all over the world biased towards Xiao Zhe?
Yuna couldn't figure it out, couldn't figure out what she had done wrong.
So she climbed to the roof of the building with tears in her eyes and called the psychological hotline with tears.
Fortunately, she made this call at the moment of her heart breakdown, and the counselor Horton succeeded in calming her emotions and coaxing her to safety.
Otherwise, the consequences are unimaginable.
But Yuna's soul was not redeemed.
Because Xiao Zhe is still there, Xiao Zhe's mother is still there, and his parents cannot be reconciled.
Xiao Zhe's mother is a thorn that is deep and deep in Yuna's heart.
Through some guidance, Horton finally understood the reason why Yuna kept targeting Xiao Zhe.
So she called Yuna's parents, knocked on the side, knew the stakes, and finally made Yuna's parents begin to seriously face their marital status and reflect on their unreliable behavior in marriage.
It turns out that unstable family relations are the biggest culprits that cause children to lose confidence in survival.
The reason for the breakdown of family relations is that there is no affair, no betrayal, only the obstacle to communication.
Yuna's father loved art, and in Yuna's sophomore year of high school, he was busy with sculpture exhibitions.
Art is always poor, and Yuna's father is too busy to take care of the family, but he still has nothing.
Yuna's mother could not understand her husband's love of art and scolded him for not making money and being incompetent.
In Yuna's father's view, his wife is simply a street shrew, and on impulse, the two went through divorce procedures.
And Yuna's father helped Xiaozhe's mother only because Xiaozhe's father had helped Yuna's parents when they were laid off when they were alive.
Fourth, children do everything for the sake of family harmony, as parents, what can we do?
The ending of the story is heartwarming, and Yuna's parents, when they learn the reason for Yuna's abnormal behavior, begin to try to re-accept each other and try to recreate a harmonious family relationship.
Yuna, also under the guidance of Horton, finally understood that the family could not protect herself for a lifetime, and everyone had to learn to grow up.
In this world, there is no perfect family.
Every family has its own problems.
Sooner or later, every child will have to leave the protective shell of the family and grow up strongly.
But Yuna's story is just a story.
In real life, where are there so many happy endings?
Especially in today's society, people are impetuous and pursue fame and profit, and how many parents have calmly reflected on their own problems and carefully pondered the psychological needs of their children?
Love children, pay more attention to children, pay more attention to children's psychological states, understand the real needs of children's hearts, strive to create a warm and loving rear for children, and encourage children to bravely meet their own storms and grow strongly.
This is the strongest and most powerful support for them.