Because her parents are divorced, Yuna, who is in high school, uses extreme behaviors such as stealing things and hurting herself to attract the attention of her parents, and he hopes to keep his father and not let his family be broken!
Why?
In fact, Yuna's heart is worried that her parents' divorce is because of herself, and since this matter is caused by herself, she must make measures to save!
The main reason is that parents divorce and do not tell the child directly, but hide the child to cause the child to think wildly!
Kids are smarter and more sensitive than we think!
The child's thinking is relatively simple, there is a problem, she likes to find the reason in herself first, if the parents do not tell her, he will feel that it is his own reason!
First, as a parent, you must avoid quarreling in front of your children
Parents in front of the child is best not to quarrel, if you can't help arguing, you must tell the child what the reason for the parents quarrel, it has nothing to do with you, we must let the child clearly understand, the contradiction between parents, not because of the child!
Second, avoid sprinkling anger on your child
I can't say in front of the child, it's all because of you, I will be how, this will really cause the child's psychological unbearable weight!
Fourth, avoid hiding your child
For example, if the parents are divorced, then you can clearly and clearly tell the children why the parents divorced, and it is the parents who want to pass on to the children, and the divorce has nothing to do with you! Your parents are divorced, but they are still mom and dad who love you, but we may not live together, but our hearts are still together.
If the child has a problem, we need to find the reason from the parents, rather than blindly criticizing and blaming the child.