"Female Psychologist" is very highly discussed, not because of the lines, acting, and costumes, but because of the social problems it reflects. The social significance of this drama is to remind people to pay attention to the growth of teenagers, to pay attention to empty nesters, to pay attention to mothers who are depressed after childbirth. These people are extremely close to the real life of society, pay attention to the people around them, and pay attention to the psychological problems they may encounter.
Some people say that this is to create social panic, but this is really a social panic or social reality, a while ago suicide of the internet red deer Dawson is a good example, if the people around him in time to find, timely injection, timely to seek help, perhaps he will not choose to end his life like this.
What many people want is not to end their lives, but to be understood, talked about and redeemed, at this time as long as people pull a hand, they may be able to save a life. If someone says that he wants to commit suicide, it is actually the subconscious mind that asks you for help: save me.
Yuna, a high school student, knew her parents were divorced, and in order to save her parents' marriage, she chose to hurt herself again and again. As she watched her parents hand over suits to her classmates, she felt extremely unbalanced, and she kept her father from living at home through self-harm again and again.
Of course, people who harm themselves are afraid of pain, and the pain of the body cannot cover up the pain in the heart. She first stole things to prevent her father from traveling, then cut her hand to prevent her father from moving out, then soaked in ice water, broke her foot, hoped that her father would come back to live at home soon, and finally evolved into jumping off the building. She burned herself like a match to save her parents' marriage.
Ironically, Yuna was happiest because her parents had to go to counseling together. Some people think that psychological problems stem from their own vulnerability, but in fact, they are not, that is, you have not experienced it so you do not understand.
Yuna's parents are also a model of widowed parenting, Yuna's father focuses on art, staying in the art museum all day for the art exhibition, Yuna's mother is responsible for earning money to support the family, the two began to quarrel again and again because of Yuna's affair, and finally divorced Yuna.
The two men discussed hiding from Yuna, but the father could not stand the strong mother and wanted to move out again and again. Their husband and wife are typical of the "chase and escape mode", one complains about taking, one avoids rejection, one is emotionally intense, and the other is indifferent. Over time, Mom became hysterical and aggressive, and Dad coldly refused to communicate and was coldly violent.
Dad's avoidance did lead to a brief period of peace, but the problem was not solved, and Mom's emotions were not relieved, and it intensified. In fact, many times, sadness is not because the other party is wrong, but feel that the other party hurts themselves, and hurts the people who love themselves the most with the most cruel language.
Why did Yuna become like this? Yuna has always been compared with Xiao Zhe, and finally even hurt herself to wrongfully accuse Xiao Zhe, in fact, Yuna's father really has a reason, dad has always been a resigned attitude towards Yuna, but bought Xiao Zhe thousands of suits. The behavior of adults leads to the psychological imbalance of children, and I think that this matter cannot be calmed in the hearts of any person who does not know the inside story.
Half of the psychological problems come from the original family, family education is worth paying attention to, and when Horton wants to discuss Yuna's problems with Yuna's parents, Yuna's eyes are full of expectation and smile. Does Yuna really want to die? In fact, no, when she chose to jump off the building, she chose a place with monitoring, she deliberately looked at the surveillance camera, she hurt herself in order to attract the attention of her parents, want to get the attention of her parents, and even retain the feelings of her parents.
Many parents divorce or decide to divorce their children after the college entrance examination, they like to hide their children, in fact, children know everything, and it hurts much more to hide than to be open and honest. At present, there are not many parents who pay attention to their children's psychological problems, and many of them are a posture that I know about my children, and I will not regret it until things happen.
Originally, I was three points hot for this drama, and I saw that I liked it very much in the end, and human beings could not escape the law of true incense. The case is close to real life, and every classic case can arouse my strong resonance. Today's children are under great pressure to learn, and sometimes they also need a breakthrough to alleviate, and the psychological problems of adolescent growth are worthy of attention.
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