Gorky once said: "Marriage is the spiritual union of two people, and the purpose is to overcome all the difficulties and hardships of the world together." ”
If after marriage, husband and wife cannot share weal and woe, cannot share hardships and hardships, and cannot support and understand each other, then such a marriage is not as good as being single.
The wife gave birth to a daughter, the in-laws preferred sons to daughters, and left their daughters-in-law in the hospital. Ma Baonan's husband was also pinched to death, such a marriage, it is better to stop the loss in time for divorce.
01, the wife gave birth to a daughter, the husband was pulled away by the in-laws
Jiang Ting and her husband are free in love, and when they meet for the first time, they have a good feeling for each other. Under the active pursuit of her husband, Jiang Ting was finally captured. During the love affair, her husband took good care of her, obeyed her, and made a vow with her, saying that he would respond to her needs in the future and not let her suffer any grievances.
Jiang Ting would be very simple and naïve, believing her husband's words, ignoring her parents' objections, and not abandoning her in-laws' poor family and insisting on marrying her husband. Looking at the dowry of the house where Jiang Ting was married, the mother-in-law smiled and closed her mouth, directly praising Jiang Ting's virtuousness and understanding.
After three months of happy new marriage, Jiang Ting became pregnant as she wished. During the pregnancy, the in-laws were very good to her, and the mother-in-law treated her as a biological daughter, doing whatever she wanted to eat, eating three meals a day and drinking well, and the housework did not let Jiang Ting do it.
Jiang Ting was also secretly happy, feeling that she had married a good man and met a good mother-in-law. But with such a realization, after giving birth to her daughter, Jiang Ting completely slapped herself.
After Jiang Ting gave birth to her daughter, her mother-in-law came to the hospital to take a look, then turned around and left. Before leaving, he also pulled his son away, saying that Jiang Ting, a woman who could not give birth to a son, let her mother's family take care of it. My family is going to hold my eldest grandson.
Jiang Ting did not expect that her mother-in-law would be so patriarchal, she was very cold, during the pregnancy, her in-laws were so good to her, but she did not expect that because she gave birth to a daughter, her attitude towards her came to a big change of three hundred and sixty degrees. They all seem to have forgotten that this child is also born to their husbands and their own granddaughters.
02, the daughter was left in the hospital, and the parents took the divorce agreement
Jiang Ting had never been treated so coldly, and while being aggrieved, she cried and called her parents. When her parents learned that she had been abandoned in the hospital by her in-laws, she rushed from her hometown without saying a word. Seeing Jiang Ting alone holding a baby waiting to be fed, alone in the hospital, without a family member around, her mother hugged her and cried.
After venting her emotions, her mother called her husband and heard that her parents-in-law had come, and her husband came to the hospital with a hard scalp. Just as soon as he walked into the ward, his mother directly slapped him and took out a piece of paper.
When my husband saw this piece of paper, he sat paralyzed on the ground and said that I was wrong and begged you to give me another chance. But the mother did not sympathize with him, but said very firmly: This is the divorce agreement I prepared for you, you signed it, divorce immediately, my daughter does not want anything, but the dowry and dowry given by the mother's family, as well as the custody of the child, we must take it back together. I'll give you two wives a day to move, and if the time hasn't moved, I'll see you in court.
Mother's words, not only Jiang Ting was stunned, even her husband was an unbelievable look, but also a strong look to Jiang Ting, begging her to say good things to her mother-in-law and ask for forgiveness. Jiang Ting was disheartened, ignored him, and simply closed her eyes and lay on the bed. She had long been disappointed in this man and never wanted to compromise again.
Seeing his mother-in-law's strong attitude, the husband immediately panicked. He begged his mother-in-law for forgiveness, begged Jiang Ting for forgiveness, and said that he was also taken astray by his mother, and the ghost was obsessed with leaving his wife and daughter in the hospital, and said that he begged his parents-in-law and wife to see that their daughter was still young, and give him another chance, and he would definitely be good to the mother-in-law in the future.
03, the husband is a wall head grass, foolish filial piety
The husband slapped himself while assuring. Seeing this, the mother is a little soft-hearted, after all, as a parent, no one wants the daughter to have a child on the front foot, and the back foot will fall out with the in-laws and have no husband. But she still let Jiang Ting make her own decisions.
Seeing that the decision was handed over to Jiang Ting, her husband was like a drowning man who caught a life-saving straw, and he began to coax Jiang Ting again. But Jiang Ting saw through this man and never forgave him.
Because she has already seen that her husband is a soft persimmon, a complete mother-in-law man. He simply could not be the master of his mother-in-law, nor could he change his mother-in-law's idea of preferring sons to daughters. Now he refuses to sign the divorce, but he just doesn't want to move away. Because they moved away, the two of them were homeless and could only rent a house or return to their hometown.
But at the beginning of marriage, the mother-in-law showed off in front of relatives and friends in her hometown. Now that Ash has slipped back, how will others laugh at them? A good-looking mother-in-law would never slap herself in the face like this.
Her husband was still there pleading, but Jiang Ting thought that her husband was a wall grass, a foolish filial piety man, and her mother-in-law pointed to the east and he did not dare to go west. As soon as his mother-in-law made a slight statement, he changed his attitude again. There were too many such things, and every time It was Jiang Ting who silently endured it.
Looking at her daughter who was still so small in her arms, Jiang Ting was embarrassed. Such a patriarchal family, she did not want to stay for a moment. But if the divorce, the daughter is born without a father, and will live in a single-parent family in the future, will she resent her cruel mother?
Today's Topic:
Do you support Jiang Ting's divorce and stay away from her patriarchal in-laws?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!