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In "The Lover of The Carla", it is said: "The tree can stop looking up at the sky, but it cannot leave the soil." ”
We can live alone, but we can never forget the people we love.
Because you love him, you always have him in your heart, and you always think of him. Thinking about chatting with him, eating together, sleeping together. Live a life of "one room, two people, three meals and four seasons" together.
Therefore, two people can talk together, eat together, sleep together, is really in love, really have each other, and care for each other.
However, there are many people who do not know whether it is appropriate for two people to live together and are not sure whether their feelings for each other should continue.
In fact, whether the husband and wife can go to the end, three criteria, to help you make a judgment.
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First: there are common topics that can be talked about together
Sun Yanzi said: "The boy who attracts me, it is good to look good." I wish he knew something I didn't know, and I didn't necessarily know what he was talking about while listening to him, but I wanted to learn in love. ”
A good heterosexual relationship can always attract two people together because of commonalities. Through audible communication and exchange, break each other's loneliness and work together for common goals.
Zhao Youting and Gao Yuanyuan are a model couple in the entertainment industry, and in "Venus Show", Venus asks them how much they chat at home? They replied that chatting at home was binge chatting.
Good feelings must have endless words, endless days, and endless hearts. Chatting will enhance the feelings of two people, if there is negligence in communication, it is bound to affect the feelings of two people.
In the TV series "An Jia", Xu Wenchang was busy with his career and ignored the feelings of his wife Zhang Chengcheng.
Even when he was getting married, Xu Wenchang threw Zhang Chengcheng alone because of his customers, and he didn't even drink the banquet, which caused Zhang Chengcheng's sadness. In the end, Zhang Chengcheng's sadness broke through the emotional and betrayed the marriage.
When looking for a lover, be sure to find someone who likes to talk to you. Although it is a simple and common thing, there is also concern for you in it, and such feelings will flow for a long time.
Liu Tong said: "The comfortable feeling is that you talk about any topic, and the other party can talk about it, not because the other party is knowledgeable, but the other party is interested." ”
Between people who love each other, you are willing to say, I am willing to listen, and interact with each other tacitly. Over time, life will be full of happiness.
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Second: with common eating habits, be able to eat together
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Love comes from the table and disappears from the table. ”
Food has been the innate foundation of human beings since ancient times, and people can only survive by relying on food.
In the love of food, there is a person's quality. If two people have commonalities in the food they like each other, then they must have a very good relationship and be very close.
The Internet saw that in a weight loss institution, there were two young people who lost weight, a boy and a girl, and their weight had exceeded 200 pounds.
Because the two people share a common eating hobby, they often eat together, chat together, and play together. Later, the two became good friends who talked about everything, and then became lovers.
Until the day the two people got married, they had always been grateful that the two people's eating habits were the same, and they were able to eat together, so that the two people became husband and wife.
In fact, eating together is not only eating, but also all the friendship in the meal. Serving each other soup and vegetables for each other, and accommodating each other's dietary preferences, will gradually communicate with each other.
There is such a line in the "Biography of Zhen Huan": "In the time to come, I am still waiting for a person to come, allow me rough tea and light rice, and allow me a hug that does not go." ”
Love does not lie in the daily moisturization of mountain treasures and seafood, if it is true love, even coarse tea and light rice are the same for a long time. True love is hidden in the daily meal, and the warmth of love ripples in your chewing and swallowing.
Spend time on the other half, accompany each other to eat well, and then live a good life. Love can only bloom in the wind and snow moon only when it is rooted in chai rice oil and salt.
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Third: Love each other and be able to sleep together
Good feelings are to be able to sleep together, rather than sleeping in separate rooms, sleeping in separate beds, and sleeping in layers. Because they know that they are husband and wife, not brothers on bunk beds.
As Si Wen once said on the show: "Who said that there is no pure friendship between men and women? My husband and I are. Replacing the double bed in the house with a bunk bed, he became a brother who slept on my top bunk. ”
Not long after she said this, the two divorced. A large part of the reason is because they sleep in separate beds, the time is short, and after a long time, they will cause a gap in each other's hearts and affect the feelings of the two people.
In the movie "No East Asks West", Xu Bochang and Liu Shufen have no feelings, and in the years that the two people have lived together, there is no language, no communication, and no temperature.
When sleeping, two single beds were placed in a small room and slept separately from each other, all of which Liu Shufen was reluctant to do.
In order to be able to live a good life with Xu Bochang, she chased Xu Bochang all over the yard and asked him why he was so kind to her? Always cold and violent?
However, Xu Bochang is often indifferent. Finally, in the end, Liu Shufen was forced by Xu Bochang to jump into the well and commit suicide. A relationship ended tragically in a separate bed.
It is not advisable for husband and wife to sleep separately, because this will lack a bridge of communication and there will be no glue. The husband and wife will only become more and more strange, and finally the contradictions will gather more and more, resulting in divorce.
Loving couples know that even if there is a big contradiction, both people must sleep together. Because if love is far away from sleeping, dressing, and eating, it is not love.
Marriage is not a one-man show, nor is it a logical reasoning of 1 + 1 = 2, but a way of life in which love is superimposed. Here, only love makes no sense.
If it is a love that is pleasing to each other, it will not be willing to separate, but will polish life together.
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As mentioned above, the "three aspects" of harmonious couples, no matter how long it takes, the feelings can be as sweet as ever.
Life is only once, and we expect marriage only once, not many times. But if you can't talk together, eat together, and sleep together in life, feelings will definitely have problems.
Chatting, eating, sleeping, it seems like a small thing the size of a grain of rice, but if you don't handle such a small thing well, it will definitely bring disaster to your feelings.
Love is not necessarily a vigorous confession, but it must be a bland mutual. Listen to thunder in the silent place, and see the prosperity in the colorless place. Carry one person with a white head, and guard one person to grow old.
May you find the most ideal love and the most beautiful destination in your life, and live a happy life of "talking together, eating together, and sleeping together" together.