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Recently, I reviewed the previous movie "No Questions Asked", which tells the story of four young people in different periods who struggled to move forward in the change of the times and the ups and downs of life, and finally found their true selves.
The most impressive is liu shufen and Xu Bochang's paragraph, in which Liu Shufen said the sentence: "Outsiders only see how I beat you, but they don't know how you beat me."
Regarding marriage, in fact, everyone's marriage will have all kinds of trivial things, some people say that marriage is a chicken feather, but the attitude towards marriage directly affects a person.
It is normal for marriage and feelings to have contradictions, and ultimately it depends on the other party's attitude towards feelings. Sometimes, cold violence can really kill a person.
In the movie, Xu Bochang, who was born in the cold door, and Liu Shufen met at a young age, fell in love, and made a marriage contract.
It is precisely because of this love, Liu Shufen does not hesitate to sacrifice herself, work hard and complain, use her own ability to provide for the other party to read, I thought that a man would be good to her for a lifetime, but the reality is often more cruel.
In the beginning, they got along very well, and the two of them played the piano and sang together, and even the air was sweet at that time.
However, the good times are not long, the days after marriage are not as beautiful as imagined, because of the influence of the environment, their lives are not rich, but Liu Shufen still tries to give each other what she can eat, and the woman's love for men is overflowing.
But the man responded to her sincere love with the coldness of killing people without blood. Men are warm to everyone, and even more enthusiastic about students, but they turn their faces to their wives and are silent.
Regarding the things in the house, he was very clear, never used each other's things, and even slept under the same bed.
Couples who were supposed to comfort each other became the most familiar strangers. Although under the same roof, they are thousands of miles apart.
Later, the woman could not bear such cold violence and began to fight back, evoking the other party's response by scolding.
But no matter how she scolded, the man never had any touch, and I have to say that such an attitude can really kill a person.
Regarding the final outcome, the woman can't stand this attitude and commits suicide by jumping into the well.
In fact, this story is quite realistic, being disliked by the most loved and dearest people is really a fatal blow, which is not as painful as killing yourself.
In this world, the coldest thing is not the iceberg, but the human heart.
Regarding cold violence, many people may not realize its harm.
Some people think that it is good to keep a distance from each other, but it is really easy to hurt a person by living together for a long time and always treating each other with this attitude.
People are needed, choose to be with you, is eager to feel warmth and love, your cold violence is undoubtedly the most fatal blow to her.
People who should have loved you, but avoided you, ignored you, and remained silent with you, without intersection, such marriages and feelings have lost their meaning.
In order to please the other party's attention, you blindly show kindness, pander to, and wronged yourself, which not only hurts yourself, but also makes the other party look down on you more, and makes you fall into a more painful situation.
Cold violence is an invisible knife, killing people without blood, at any time, you should say no to cold violence. When a person deprives you of your needs and does not respect you, there is no point in continuing.
We should feel love and beauty when we are with a person, and when this love disappears, we should leave early and stop the loss in time.
For a person who is accustomed to cold violence, you can't change him.
The reason why a person will carry out cold violence against you is actually to see your mind and know that you love him without him.
The best way to crack cold violence is actually to ignore and not care about the other party's life or death. But at this point, there is no need, don't hurt each other if you don't love.
As a family member, it is best not to hurt your relatives, because what can hurt you is also the person who really loves you and cares about you.
summary:
Regarding cold violence, in fact, if you don't pay attention to it, it will become more and more intense, and finally hurt the person who loves you the most.
When you are aware of your behavior, you should think calmly, do not be silent when you encounter problems, escape, and be brave to face them, so that you can solve the problem.
For those who love, do not love do not hurt, since love is more cherished, because once a person is disappointed, there will be no hope.