Author | See three
Source | Poetry World (ID: shicitiandi)
Anchor | Fan Deng Reading · Anthony
Some people say, "To live, you should make yourself happy." ”
Deeply.
The human heart is a container, and the more happiness it contains, the less trouble it naturally has.
I've seen a story:
Once upon a time, two people were on their way, feeling thirsty on the way.
So he went to fetch water, and one of them took out a gold cup, and the other took out a dirt cup.
The person who holds the gold cup feels that he is superior and naturally smiles; the person who holds the cup feels that he is very humiliated and inferior.
Yet they forget that what they really need is water, not a cup of water.
Man, come in red stripes, go in stripes, don't agonize over what you don't need.
Life is your own, you don't have to live for others to see, you don't have to care about other people's opinions.
Pleasing yourself, being loyal to your heart, living for yourself, doing what you like, and living your favorite way is the happiest way to live in life.
As it is said in "No Questions Asked":
"May you remember your preciousness when you are hit.
May you believe in your preciousness when you are confused.
Love what you love, do what you do, listen to your heart, and ask no questions. ”
I've put together 20 tips to make you happy and give them to everyone.
1. Set a small goal and go and complete it
It can be reading a book, it can be making a meal, it can be a walk...
When people have goals, life has a direction.
The joy and sense of accomplishment in accomplishing goals is unparalleled.
2. Keep a childlike heart
The happiness of children is very easy and simple, because they are simple and innocent.
To maintain a childlike heart is to retain a piece of innocence and simplicity, and it will not be too difficult to be happy.
3. Health first, be sure to take care of yourself
A healthy body is our greatest capital, if there is no health, where can happiness begin?
4. Live for yourself
In this life, as children and parents, we have done enough.
In the next time, live for yourself once, so as not to fail yourself.
5. Give yourself a gift
Be kind to yourself, eat what you want, buy what you want, and don't pin your hopes on others.
6. Don't care about other people's eyes and opinions
There's a saying that goes, "You're not in renminbi, you can't make everyone like it." ”
7. Develop a hobby
Planting flowers, practicing words, fishing, dancing... Anything is good, as long as it makes you happy.
With a hobby, life is more fulfilling and the soul is relied upon.
8. Don't suppress negative emotions
Cry when you want to cry, laugh when you want to laugh, suppress it for a long time and be prone to illness, release your sadness, and have room in your heart to accommodate happiness.
9. Make a subtraction to life
If you don't use anything, just throw it away, and make life a little easier. The simpler it is, the easier it is to be happy.
10. Rational consumption, no comparison, no blindness
A lot of unhappiness stems from comparison.
Stay awake so that you don't fall into the trap of desire.
11. Be with someone who is comfortable
Getting along comfortably is the best social state.
Stay away from those who consume you and hurt you, it's not worth it.
12. Always look forward to it
No matter how big things are today, tomorrow is a thing of the past. Be a little looking forward to tomorrow so that you won't be too tired.
13. Give a smile to those around you
Smiling is powerful, can infect the people around you, and make life bright and warm.
14. Take a little time each day to calm yourself down
Jing is the thinking and precipitation of the soul.
Only by calming down can we discover the beauty of life.
15. Rest well and don't get too tired
Only by resting enough can we maintain sufficient energy and maintain a pleasant mood.
16. Treating work:
It should be hard, it should be serious, but it should not be crazy, it is not rigid.
17. Treatment of life:
It should be enjoyed, it should be hard work, it should not be depraved, it should not be dull.
18. Treat friends:
What should go, what should stay, do not have to force, just cherish.
19. Treat money:
The flowers of the flower, the province of the province, are not extravagant and wasteful, nor are they excessively frugal.
20. Treatment of the family:
It is time to be reasonable and reasonable, to talk about feelings and to talk about feelings, not to be rigid, not to indulge.
Happiness can't make you rich, but it can make you live a wonderful life.
Happiness doesn't necessarily make you in the future, but it allows you to enjoy the present.
Happiness should not only be interested, but also have persistence.
Happiness can't make you live forever, but it does make you live a long life, for the sake of longevity, insist on being happy!
Typography | Zheng to the north
Music | Thoughtless