Author | Citrus aurantium is orange
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As the old saying goes:
There is no way out of misfortune, but man calls himself, and the retribution of good and evil follows like a shadow.
In this lifetime, whether a person does good or evil, or whether he or she is blessed or retributed, he has his own cause and effect.
Everything in the world has a law, the wicked will eventually have evil retribution, and the Ji people have their own heavenly appearance.
If a man is good, heaven will bless him, and if he is generous, he will be blessed.
Life is a reincarnation, and what you give will eventually come back to you, and what you get is your own choice.
Emerson once said:
"One of the most beautiful compensations in life is that after people sincerely help others, they also help themselves."
You can never predict what kind of surprise an inadvertent move will bring to your life in the future
enjoy.
I never know how a goodwill gifted will return.
But there is always one thing that will prove it: he who is good is also good.
Some time ago, there was a short film on the Internet that was quite popular.
In the cake shop, grandma took the little girl to choose a cake, but when she paid, she found that the money she brought was not enough, so she had to return it.
When he reached the door, a man caught up and gave the cake to the little girl, and Grandma wanted to refuse, and then the man told a story.
"On his eighth birthday, he wanted to eat cake, but his family was too poor to afford it, and a well-meaning person saw this and bought a cake for him."
After listening to the story, Grandma gladly accepted the cake and asked him to leave contact information for later in return.
Subsequently, the little girl ran home with the cake, happily preparing to celebrate Grandpa's birthday, and showed Grandpa the note left by the man.
There was no contact information on the paper, only one sentence written:
"A little bit of kindness, endless ripples, helping others can make love pass on, but also help you." 」
The past slowly emerged, it turned out that the kind person who delivered the cake many years ago was the girl's grandfather, and now the words on the note are also written down by him to give to the boy.
It is so-called: those who love to go out love to return, and those who are blessed to come are blessed.
While treating others well, it is the process of accumulating blessings for oneself.
There's a passage that's right:
Life is a sea of seas, who are not staggering and going alone.
But in this world, the beauty lies in the fact that some people are the light that shines on others, and some people are waiting for the night of dawn.
Loneliness does not disappear, but souls can embrace each other.
When you see someone sad, don't say a cold word, a word of comfort, because everyone has a sad day.
When you see someone falling, you are unfortunate and happy, and you can help it, because everyone has a moment of bad luck.
When you see someone in distress, don't fall into the well, a little more warmth, because no one's life is smooth.
Today others have difficulties and need your help, and tomorrow you may also have shortcomings that need to be carried.
Accumulate good deeds, keep good thoughts, get good results, and the love you give will one day come back to you.
How to judge a person's character?
I've seen a very apt explanation:
"Treat the world with respect, do things in a measured manner, be a person without a sense of identity, and treat others without depreciation."
Thinking about it carefully, in fact, these are the thoughtfulness of treating people in the world, and they are also the cultivation that goes deep into the bones.
Chen Huaihai, the tavern manager in the TV series "The Old Tavern", is such a person, and he can be called a "model" for people and businessmen.
There was an old man who begged for food and used to drink in his tavern.
When beggars are seen in other shops, they are generally not allowed to enter the shop, and even the door is not allowed to stay.
But Chen Huaihai not only did not dislike the old man, but also often taught the guys in the store:
"Entering the door of the old tavern, all the guests come, a dollar of wine is friendship, a pound of wine is also a friendship, no matter how thick or thin, the old tavern does not pick up guests, and never leave guests without wine and morality."
He did not feel superior because of his status as a "treasurer", nor did he ever treat him half slowly because of his status as an old man "begging".
Chen Huaihai gave the old man the most basic respect, and the old man also let Chen Huaihai see the highest realm of being a man.
The old man begged for food, but he did not miss a penny of wine, which was wine morality.
Someone poured water into his wine jug, and he tasted it but did not move, it was atmospheric.
Every time the old man goes to play two or two drinks, when there are many guests, in order not to disturb others, but also afraid of delaying the business of the tavern, he will stand in the corner to drink, which is respect.
No matter where they stand, they should look at others, look at themselves, and look at everything in the world with humility.
There is a profound point of view:
"I thought that others respected me because I was excellent, and slowly I understood that others respected me because others were excellent.
Excellent people know how to respect others, and respecting people is actually solemnizing yourself. ”
What is respect?
Don't stare at the shortcomings of others:
Don't talk about height in front of short people, don't talk about body shape in front of fat people, don't talk about skin color in front of people with dark skin...
Don't look down on the people at the top of the mountain: talk to the poor without showing off money, communicate with widows and old people without showing off your children and grandchildren, talk to the unfortunate people without showing off your happiness.....
As a person, only by respecting others will you be respected.
Writer Lu Xiansheng said:
"Anger is to punish oneself with the mistakes of others, annoyance is to torture oneself with one's own faults, regret is to destroy oneself with helpless past events, and worry is to frighten oneself with virtual risks."
Deeply.
How many moments in life, because a person is angry, because one thing is confused.
Thinking too much about other people's faults is often just torturing yourself.
In 2012, After winning the Nobel Prize in Literature, Mo Yan delivered a speech that touched many people present, and the audience collectively stood up and applauded for a minute.
In that speech, Mo Yan talked about one of the most painful things in his memory.
When he was young, he had followed his mother to the collective field to pick ears of wheat, and the people who guarded the wheat fields came, and the people who picked the ears of wheat fled.
Since his mother was small-footed, she ran slowly and was quickly caught by the guards.
The man confiscated the ears of wheat they had picked, slapped his mother, and then whistled and flew away.
His mother was bleeding from the corners of her beaten mouth, and her eyes were filled with despair.
Many years later, Mo Yan and his mother went to the market and met the caretaker again, who had become white-haired.
He wanted to rush up to avenge his old revenge, but his mother pulled him aside and said calmly and firmly:
"Son, the man who hit me, and this old man, are not alone."
A word from his mother made Mo Yan wake up like a dream.
People, indeed, are the people of that year, but the times have passed, and it is no longer meaningful to investigate right and wrong.
Instead of worrying about it in his heart all the time, it is better to let go of his mistakes and free his heart.
No longer counting, not to suffer losses, but to find a way to live for yourself.
To forgive mistakes is not to have no bottom line, but to let the heart regain its freedom.
To be tolerant of others is not to be cowardly, but to let yourself go.
Many things have two sides, and the people who make you miserable are also here to cross you.
The things that make you sad, in fact, another way out, will become a good thing.
Never punish yourself with the mistakes of others, and walk out of resentment in order to see the beauty of life.
The most transparent way of life should be like zuo Zongtang said:
Choose a high place to stand, sit flat, and walk wide.
Lin Yutang wrote in "Jinghua Smoke and Clouds":
"In a person's life, there are some subtle things that are meaningless in themselves, but have great importance. After the passage of time, looking back at its causal relationship, it is found that the impact is amazing. ”
After middle age, I gradually realized:
What makes a person better and better is not wealth, but his own virtue.
Your good deeds in one thought may save yourself from fire and water in the coming day.
The umbrella you have held for others will one day turn into a roof to shelter from the rain.
The people you have passed will become their own way of walking on earth.
Virtue can only carry things. Character can stand for a lifetime.
Although the accumulation of virtue is not seen, it is known to do good.
Click "Watching", may you cultivate good virtues, sit on good feng shui, and always remember:
But do good deeds, don't ask about the future.
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