In 2018, the young Guo Yanyang was diagnosed with a rare frostbite, lost the ability to take care of himself, and could only lie in bed and need 24-hour care.
Guo Yanyang was once the head nurse of a hospital in Hunan, very excellent during his work, won numerous awards, or the basketball captain of the hospital, such an excellent person but because of the joke of fate suffered from a terminal illness, it is really regrettable.
After her sister Guo Chunling learned the news, she immediately quit her job in Shenzhen and came to her brother's side to take care of her. She guarded her brother 24 hours a day.
Guo Chunling admitted that since her brother's condition worsened in March this year, she was more tired, and her brother had to eat once every two hours, and could only eat liquid food, so she also joined the patient group to learn recipes, did not sleep a good night, and from time to time to help her brother turn over.
Although she was tired to pay this, as long as she could prolong her brother's life, everything was worth it.
What makes Guo Chunling dissatisfied is the practice of her sister-in-law Liang Ming, after her brother's condition deteriorated, her sister-in-law did not care, preferring to spend time in the beauty salon rather than take care of her, going out very early and coming back late, taking the child at home on the weekend, not eating a meal at home.
The husband is sick, as a wife should have borne the burden of care, but this burden fell on the body of the eldest sister, is it really in response to the sentence "Husband and wife are the same forest bird, and the great disaster is coming to fly separately"?
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Sister-in-law Liang Ning denied the statement of the eldest sister, and she did not ignore her husband's illness, although she did not take care of her personal care, but paid in another way.
Liang Ning is a pharmaceutical salesman, usually busy at work, early out and late home. After her husband fell ill, the family's economic income plummeted, and she was the only one who went to work, while the family spent at least 10,000 yuan a month, and she had to work hard to make money to maintain the family's expenses.
Liang Liang said that after her husband's condition deteriorated, the amount of paper towels used increased every month, and the cost of paper towels alone was 400 yuan per month. Liang Liang opened the cabinet, full of paper towels she bought, in addition, in order to make her husband more comfortable, she also bought more than three thousand nursing beds, wheelchairs, and colleagues borrowed a machine to do atomization, and also bought related drugs.
However, these efforts were not seen by the eldest sister, and often accused her of having no conscience, which made her more or less chill.
Guo Chunling said that the sister-in-law does not care about her brother, usually you are busy with work can be understood, but on the weekend she does not care about her brother, but only pays in money, and does not show her wife's humanistic care for her brother.
Seeing this, readers will wonder, why is Liang Liang unwilling to take care of her husband closely? What's the hidden story?
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Liang Liang and her husband Guo Yanyang are college classmates, both are medical majors, at that time Liang Ning was very fond of the excellent Guo Yanyang, and took the initiative to pursue, in this way, Guo Yanyang became Liang Liang's first love. In 2009, the two entered the palace of marriage, and after marriage, they had a son, but the happy married life lasted only four years.
At the end of 2013, Liang Lemon found that her husband was cheating, until 2017, which made Liang Lemon furious, during which her husband repeatedly filed for divorce, perhaps reluctant to this relationship, Liang Lemon has been wavering, when she made up her mind to divorce, her husband found out frostbite.
Liang Ning said that if her husband did not have this disease, she could divorce her with a straight face, she was studying medicine, she knew very well what it meant to have this disease, and she did not want to leave at this time. She tried to persuade herself to tolerate her husband's faults and use money to fulfill a wife's obligations.
Liang Ning said that although she did not take care of her closely, she was already kind to her husband.
Liang Liang came to her husband's bedside and asked him if he had any emotional betrayal, he shook his head slightly in denial, and after seeing her husband's reaction, Liang Liang no longer asked anything, but took out a chat record.
The records show that after the diagnosis, Guo Yanyang was unusual, no longer insisting on divorce as before, but saying sorry to Liang Ming and feeling guilty about her.
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Guo Chunling said that the younger brother did not cheat, and the woman surnamed Liu is now only a partner of the younger brother, so the two have financial exchanges, not the ambiguous transfer that the sister-in-law said.
Guo Chunling also broke a shocking news, when the younger brother was going to marry the woman surnamed Liu, but Liang Liang violently pursued his brother, and also used the despicable means of one cry, two troubles and three jumps to force the marriage, and finally, under the persecution of his father, the younger brother had no choice but to marry Liang Lemon.
Liang Ning said that at that time, after three years of falling in love with her husband, she only met the woman surnamed Liu when she was interning, and she was also known as a boyfriend and girlfriend, and at that time, the two sides had already met their parents to establish a relationship.
She and her husband fell in love first, and there was no such thing as robbery.
At this time, Guo Chunling took out a notebook with a few words written by her brother's feet after he fell ill: I want a divorce, and I raise children.
Liang Liang asked dismissively, "Have you been raised?" Have you raised them all these years? ”
Guo Chunling said that she had never interfered with her brother's divorce before, and this time she must realize her brother's wish.
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Guo Chunling told her dissatisfaction with her sister-in-law, indulged in beauty and completely disregarded the family, spending lavishly, and spending as much as fifty or sixty thousand yuan on beauty costs every year
In order to prove that what she said was true, Guo Chunling took the reporter to the study, the cabinet was filled with bottles and cans of various skin care, the refrigerator was full of masks, and even many expired.
Guo Chunling said that everyone has a heart for beauty, but her sister-in-law has no degree at all, and in her view, she is a loser.
In this regard, Liang Ning explained that the busyness of work has put her body in a sub-healthy state, and she admits that she does do beauty skin care, do regular shoulder and neck and body care, and face masks are also cross-border e-commerce products with friends at that time.
"The money is my own salary and is within the scope of my affordability"
For divorce, Liang Ning has his own insistence on returning the custody of the children. She said that due to family conflicts caused by her son's psychological problems, under the advice of the psychological counselor, she will take her son outdoors for two days on the weekend, and under her care, the child's condition has been significantly improved.
If the child returns to her husband's home, and the child lives in such a family environment, she is really not at ease.
Guo Chunling said that if the sister-in-law agreed to give up the custody of the child, they were willing to give her both houses, and Liang Ning refused to negotiate, Guo Chunling saw the attitude of the sister-in-law and said to take legal procedures to solve the problem.
Write at the end
Guo Chunling is undoubtedly a good sister who cherishes love and righteousness, in order to take care of her brother, she has no time to take care of her small family, and her husband complains about her. She had been tired enough to cry and lament the injustice of fate, but even if it was difficult, she would guard her brother's side to prolong his life.
She and her younger brothers and sisters have a deep affection, and the two have agreed since they were young that no matter how big the difficulties they encounter when they grow up, they must help each other, and they should not desert the soldiers.
Guo Chunling paid so much for her brother, and hoped that her sister-in-law would also be like her, to give her brother more care, to make her brother feel comfortable in her limited life, and to share the mental pressure for her, but Liang Liang had been unable to cut through her heart because of her husband's previous betrayal, coupled with the pressure of life, and did not have too much energy to take care of her husband.
Guo Chunling's expectations for her sister-in-law are too high, and she hopes that her sister-in-law can put aside the past and take full care of her brother, but it backfires, coupled with differences in consumption concepts, resulting in deeper and deeper contradictions between her and her sister-in-law.
Liang Lemon is also not easy, from her point of view, once hurt by her husband, she has every reason to leave, but she did not divorce after learning that her husband was terminally ill, but in another way to pay, even if it is done with benevolence and righteousness, as the eldest sister Of Guo Chunling, should have more understanding and tolerance, why ask so much for her sister-in-law.
The most pitiful was Guo Yanyang, watching his life enter the countdown. I hope that Guo Chunling and Liang Ming can put aside their personal grievances, focus on patients, and accompany Guo Yanyang on the last journey.