Text/Flying Fish
If a man is truly in love with a person, he will become silent, introverted, nervous, and want to show, all with practical actions but express their love.
The writer Yi Shu said, it turns out that if you really love a person, your heart is sour, but you will not be able to speak, sweet words, most of them to irrelevant people.
Once a man has real feelings, he will actually become suffering from gain and loss, afraid of losing each other, thus worrying about each other, and wanting to seize the opportunity to be with each other as soon as possible.
On the contrary, instead of truly loving a person, you will make a scene, exercise regularly, and don't care.
A man who has real feelings will pay for each other wholeheartedly, will silently guard each other, accompany each other, respect each other, and let the other party feel cared for and considerate.
If a man is always cold to you and doesn't know how to respect you at all, then there should be no you in his heart and he won't care about you.
Men who have real feelings for you will put themselves in your shoes and be willing to spend time with you, even if there is no sweet word, but it is very sincere, this is true love.
Usually, once a man has real feelings, he tends to have these obvious characteristics.
First, he will seriously explain things to you.
Once a man has real feelings, he will firmly grasp your gaze, eager to get your attention, for your things, will not be perfunctory, will take seriously.
Remembering Zhou Shengchen in "One Life and One Life", after he had real feelings for Shi Yi, every time Shi Yi asked him to do something, he was particularly attentive.
When Shi Yi attended an award ceremony, he prepared a dress for Shi Yi in advance, and it was a surprise, and he also knew Shi Yi's heart and knew her favorite color.
Then attend the timely awards ceremony on time, don't want to miss it, want to stand in the stands and accept her award.
Even if there were some periods when Shi Yi did not tell him, he was very measured and did a good job.
Just like when he visited Shiyi's parents, Shiyi was worried that he didn't know how to bring a gift, and he was embarrassed to remind him that when Zhou Shengchen came to the house, the gifts he brought were not only decent, but also very polite to the elders, which made Shiyi very satisfied.
In fact, after a man has real feelings, he will take the initiative to study and learn some people's sophistication, and will put the other party's things in his heart, will do a good job, and think that he can make a good impression on the other party, so as to heat up the feelings and promote the distance between the two people.
Second, he will take the initiative to contact you and seize the opportunity to get along with you.
If a man has real feelings, he will become particularly active.
Will take the initiative to contact you, will take the initiative to go to your unit or home to find you, will take the initiative to care for you, advise you, give you meticulous consideration in life, let you feel his warmth.
When Zhou Shengchen first met Shi Yi, almost all of them were taking the initiative to contact him, and it was also Shi Yi who was looking for an opportunity to ask him out to meet.
However, one day, he finally found that he liked Shiyi, and he also felt that Shiyi was very suitable for him, so he moved his true feelings and became active.
When he knew that Shi Yi was back to his hometown, he happened to be there, so he confessed to Shi Yi, even visiting her teacher's parents, and also took Shi Yi to see his parents.
He will also drive a remote car to find her alone for the sake of time, instead of letting the driver send her, just to strive for the opportunity to be alone with her.
He also made some changes for the sake of shiyi, he did not like to drink Chinese medicine, but Shiyi did not know, in order not to disappoint Shiyi, he drank it immediately.
A man's initiative on you can actually see his intentions and sincerity for you, and only a man who has real feelings has changed so much.
Third, he will pay attention to some of the other party's living habits.
Men fall in love with a person, have real feelings, and want to be with each other. Then they will pay attention to some of the other party's living habits and habits, so as to better respect her and find a way to get along with her.
Every time Zhou Shengchen came to the downstairs of Shiyi, he did not leave for a long time, watching from a distance when the lights in Shiyi's room would be turned off. It looks quite boring, but it shows a man's intentions for women.
Because Zhou Shengchen is observing the habits of the appropriate schedule, thinking that in the future, when living with her, when living together, I will take better care of her.
And Zhou Shengchen will remember what Shiyi loves to eat, does not love to eat, will remember that she does not love to wash dishes, then he is responsible for washing dishes, and Shiyi likes to cook, respect her choice, other, Zhou Shengchen is willing to pay, will not complain.
Truly love a person, will respect, will tolerate, will be perfect, so that two people in life, will tolerate each other, respect each other, support each other, will live a very happy life.
Fourth, it will defend her feelings and will not let her be wronged.
A man who is sincere with a woman will know how to maintain her feelings, especially in front of others, will care about her in particular, if he knows that others have said bad things to her, then he will actively stand up for her and not let her be wronged.
If you love someone, you will feel sorry for her, you will not want her to be hurt, and you will not let her be wronged because of yourself.
Zhou Shengchen knew that his mother was not easy to get along with, and he also knew that his mother was actually not in good time, because Zhou Shengchen did not choose a partner according to his mother's ideas, so his mother did not agree with the two of them together.
When Zhou Shengchen brought Shi Yi back to see his mother, his mother's attitude was not good, but Zhou Shengchen would stand up to defend Shi Yi, preferring to confront his mother and protect Shi Yi from being wronged.
Even later, something happened to the Zhou family, and even let Shi Yi fall into it, Zhou Shengchen would go out for her and not let anyone hurt her.
Such a man, only when he has moved his true feelings, will he love so deeply like the sea.
Loving someone will be afraid, afraid that you will not be able to protect her, afraid that you will lose her, afraid that she will be wronged and hurt, so that you will cherish her more and never give up on her.
In short, after a man has real feelings, there will be some obvious characteristics, which are the power of love and make a man willing to change.
Men are also encountering true love, will become active, will care about a person from the heart, want to get each other's love, will also sincerely take care of each other, pay close attention to each other's dynamics, let themselves understand each other's ideas, and will fully respect each other's wishes and opinions.
Good feelings are both going in both directions, and I hope that for the rest of your life, you can meet someone you love and love you.
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