The opposite sex gets along, you have a good feeling for a member of the opposite sex, you want to be with each other, you pay sincerely to each other, look forward to having a deep development with each other, so you get close to her, do something to please her, you always think that paying enough can impress her.
Maybe the result is not satisfactory to you, the reason is that what you give to the woman may not be what she really wants. Just as a woman does not like to eat candy, it is useless for you to give her more candy, on the contrary, she makes her feel bored, she will feel that you are self-righteous, do not understand her, too domineering, always in the name of love to force her to eat something she does not like to eat, she will feel disgusted in her heart, and finally make the distance between you more and more distant.
If you don't want to see such a result, you must understand: let a woman give you true feelings, you must be kind to her, at the very least, you have to use the way the other party expects to hurt her and love her, so that you will get a good result.
1. Love her the way the other person expects.
When two people are together, men do not know how to think in empathy, always treat women in a way that they treat people in a way that women dislike, and when women express dissatisfaction and put forward opinions, men still can't listen.
Just as when women do things, men will point fingers, impose their will on women, and completely ignore women's opinions, at this time, even if men have good motives and are sincerely thinking about women, women cannot feel men's respect and understanding of themselves, and finally they will often leave this man in a negative mood.
If men do not want to see such results, if they want to be closer to the two people, men should think more about women from the perspective of women, when men have women in their hearts, treat women in the way women expect in their hearts, and the relationship between the two people will often slowly heat up and become better and better in the end.
2. Listen to her opinion and continue to improve yourself.
When two people are together, men are stubborn and can't listen to women's opinions, which often affects the development of the relationship between two people, women will feel that men don't care about her, and finally two people will be suspicious.
Just as men do something wrong, women point it out, women express their opinions in the hope that men will give her an explanation, while men only defend themselves, and do not think for women's sake, nor listen to women's opinions.
At this time, women will feel sad, feel that men do not value her, it is not rare for her, and the psychological distance between the two people will be pulled farther and farther.
On the contrary, when a man is in contact with women, if he can ask more about women's opinions, think more for women, continue to improve himself, and make women look at him, he will naturally win women's favor.
3. Tolerate her little temper, be gentle with her, and take care of her.
In fact, emotionally, women will really want to meet a man who can tolerate her and accept her goodness to her, if a man ignores this, when dealing with women, he lacks patience with women, is not gentle enough, and does not take good care of women, even if men say "I love you" to women, it is difficult for women to feel the love of men, and finally the two people will become angry.
On the contrary, when two people are together, men can be generous to women, tolerate women's small nature, accept women's deficiencies, be gentle with women in their daily lives, care more about women's affairs, and be more attentive to women's affairs, and the relationship between the two people will become better and better, and finally stay together, which is a natural thing.