Wen | West Window
Communicate with you with words, convey emotional people, pay attention to me, and grow together.
When it comes to feelings between the opposite sex, we can always think of things that are above love and friendship.
Perhaps at first you just think that this person is very special, like a former friend of yours, and like someone you have seen in your dreams, you can't help but be curious and can't help but approach.
Obviously, the two people are not so familiar, but they feel inexplicably in love, always like to listen to each other, like to circle around each other, and prefer to find various reasons to talk to each other.
You can't say why, you always want him to be happy, even if there are only a few things you can give him, you still want to try to lift the other party through your own ability, as long as he is willing to accept your kindness, you also become happy.
From the initial heartbeat to the later silent liking, he has become your soul's dream, and has become the person you most want to cater to and please.
Once the opposite sex begins to get along like this, most of them are moved by real feelings, and you hide yourself, and your care and concern for him is getting deeper and deeper every day.
Love is love, there is a chance to meet is Providence, instead of calling his name in the heart, it is better to say love, perhaps he is also like you love him, has long been moved by you.
Pay special attention to each other's joys and sorrows
Every day is so busy, where is the time to pay attention to other people's lives? Each of us is racing to our own future, but some of us are always holding you back.
Can't see each other, you always find various opportunities to deliberately contact him, after contact there is a kind of want to understand his situation, if the other party is not in a good mood, you will be sullen.
You will reflect on your own behavior, is it that you have done something wrong to make the other person unhappy? You will find a way to please the other party, and only by making the other party smile can you be relieved.
You don't want to miss the other person's smile, like to talk to each other, even if it is just to talk about the situation of the day, you can be happy to fly.
You will find that your mood has been uncontrollable, you are completely affected by the other party, this must be a distraction, if it is just play, how can he easily influence his emotions?
Watching him laugh happily, you will even fantasize about the moment you are together, imposing all the beauty on your future life, although you are still only friends, but you have already thought of a long, far future.
Look for opportunities to be alone
Friends get along with each other, often have a close relationship, the relationship is not deep enough, will not always be in private contact.
However, he is different, from the beginning of knowing him you especially want to get close to him, you can't help but want to be alone with him, in a place where there are only two of you.
Maybe there's no secret to the chat between you, just a homely thing, but you like to see him alone with you, and you like to see the obsession of looking at you and smiling.
Be alone with him as if you already have him.
You know that there is still a long distance between you, but you just like to find opportunities to be with him, you can't suppress the impulse to him, only close to him, you will feel happy.
Even if this relationship is fruitless after all, you have no regrets, you are willing to burn all your enthusiasm for the other party, only look forward to one day when you look back on the past, you can proudly tell yourself that I have tried.
For him, he put down the so-called face and dignity, often took the initiative to find excuses to meet him, was not afraid of being seen through his own thoughts, and hoped that he would know what you liked about him.
Remember each other's preferences and ask the other person about their mate selection criteria
Love means caring, the other person inadvertently said something, you can always quietly remember.
Quietly remembering his occasional habits of life, quietly remembering every word he said, is obviously a trivial matter that is insignificant, but it is so precious to you.
Because you care, you gradually become the person who knows him best. When two people are together, you will take the initiative to help him arrange everything, hoping that he can feel comfortable.
Sometimes you yourself will be very surprised, how to remember the other party's words so clearly, obviously just an ordinary sentence, why after so long still remember it, this is the look of true feelings.
The other party inadvertently mentioned his idea of the other half, you take his standard to yourself, if you find something that is not in line with the standard, you will take the initiative to correct, to put it bluntly, you want to move closer to the type he likes.
Grow long hair for him, change the habit of not trimming for him, because of his appearance, you become a completely different version of yourself.
The fate between people is wonderful, it is possible that one second you are still saying that you will not be moved by anyone, and the next second you have met the person who makes you feel uncontrollable.
I admire him, obsess over him, and my heart becomes ups and downs because of him, looking forward to one day being able to come together with him in a generous way.
Affectionate details are always revealed in daily relationships, you don't believe it, in fact, he fully understands your heart.
If he also has you in his heart, he will definitely rush to you, as long as you are braver, people who like each other will not easily miss it.
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Author: West Window, a post-90s girl who loves to write, if you like my article, welcome to interact with me in the comment area.