Wen | West Window
Communicate with you with words, convey emotional life, pay attention to me, and grow together.
There is such a thing as love, there are true and false, and what kind of person you meet depends on your creation.
If you are lucky enough to meet someone who truly loves you, then in the subsequent love, you can get the love and affection he gives you;
If you are not lucky enough to meet someone who is hypocritical, then you are with him, and there is no doubt that it is the beginning of a bitter love.
He obviously doesn't like you that much, but he wants to seduce you, to be with you, and it is obvious that he is running for other purposes.
Men choose a woman they don't love to fall in love, which is nothing more than two aspects:
First, he is bored and wants you to be his short-term girlfriend to relieve loneliness;
Second, I think you are good at coaxing and cheating, so I want to get something from you under the guise of love.
Whatever reason he's with you, it's a hurt for you.
You've never been on his heart, and that means you'll never be treated well by him.
He was always selfish when he was with you, never did anything for you, and always made all kinds of demands on you.
Compared to your generosity and tolerance for him, he is stingy and mean to you, and he has never given you anything except sweet words that do not require cost.
A man who never gives you these three "things" shows that he is just pretending to love you, and you stop deceiving yourself.
Seeing through his hypocrisy, he told himself to wake up early and leave him as soon as possible, so as not to be delayed by him.
Don't give you, just fool you with love words
The more hypocritical men are, the better at sweet words.
When I first met you, I obviously didn't know you very well, but he was already very affectionate with you. One will call you "wife", the other will call you "dear", in fact, it is to use a sweet attack to take you down.
Later, when you are together, you think he will give you some realistic contributions, and as a result, people will only care about you with their mouths, and there is no other expression.
When you encounter difficulties, he will tell you to take care of yourself, but never carefully ask what happened to you;
When you're short of money, he'll tell you he's on hand and can't come up with a dime to help you solve your pressing needs.
Logically, he is so stingy with you, he should have no confidence in asking for it from you. But the strange thing is that he especially likes to make you pay for him, either asking you to give him a gift or letting you bear his living expenses.
Fall in love with him, you can say that you are getting poorer and poorer, and the money in your hand is completely plundered by him, but he has no guilt about it.
With a man like this, what do you picture? The more generous you are, the more he thinks you're stupid, and really don't be stupid anymore.
Don't give you care, play disappear as soon as something happens
Women in the relationship, more or less will have a dependence on the other half.
When you have been wronged in life, you will confide in him, expecting him to comfort you or come to your side to accompany you;
When something happens to your family, you will tell him the situation as soon as possible, and you think he will treat your affairs as his own, but the result will disappoint you.
He, whom you care about very much, not only does not understand your hardships, but also always annoys you.
Usually when you have nothing to trouble him, he smiles at you; once you have something to ask him for help, he will always find an excuse to play disappear.
Either he said he didn't see your news, or he said he couldn't come to see you lately, and to put it bluntly, he just didn't want to help you.
As the saying goes, "Afflictions See The Truth," so it can be seen that he doesn't really want to do anything for you.
He is always selfish and affectionate in front of you, and it doesn't matter if you have a good life or not.
Don't give you approval, sneak around with you
There is a kind of man who says he is in a relationship with you, but never introduces you to his friends or relatives.
From the time you started falling in love until later, you always met and dated in private, and even you just met in the evening.
What he's doing during the day, you don't know who he's interacting with, and he never takes you into his circle.
You're eager to get his approval, so several times you offer to visit his house and where he works, but he comes back to the perfunctory past.
You foolishly think that you don't have enough time to interact, so he is reluctant to confess your relationship to others.
The real reason is that he doesn't identify with you at all, he just wants to play with you, so he doesn't want to admit your identity.
It is sad that you love him so much that you can't get on the table, but you are still fantasizing about your future.
Since he won't give you a legitimate qualification to be with him anyway, forget it, don't follow him in a vacuum, it will make you more and more cheap.
On the road of feelings, there are always wrong encounters, and all that is given is heartache.
You think he will be your destination, but you don't know that you are just a passer-by to him, and he has never paid real affection from the beginning of being close to you to being with you.
His selfishness, his stinginess, his avoidance, and his perfunctory behavior for you all show that he's just pretending to love you.
Affectionate to the wrong person, you must stop the loss in time, don't care what will happen in the future, leaving him is your blessing.
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Author: West Window, a post-90s girl who loves to write, if you like my article, welcome to interact with me in the comment area.