Wen | West Window
Communicate with you with words, convey emotional life, pay attention to me, and grow together.
Love is the joy of seeing each other, and it is also the thought of separation.
If you are emotional about a person, even if you have not told the other party about the love in your heart, the whole world will begin to be filled by the other party.
On the days when they can meet, they deliberately show good feelings to each other; on the days when they can't meet, they want to keep in touch with him.
As a woman, once you have someone you like, you will uncontrollably become active and affectionate.
Take the initiative to contact you, take the initiative to approach you, take the initiative to ask about your life, in order to have a place in your world, want to be your other half.
The message she sends to you will be very special, seemingly ordinary words, but hidden in her careful machine, hidden in her care for you.
You are her concern, her expectation, and when facing you, she can no longer pretend to be reserved.
In front of you, she is both gentle and delicate.
Not only will she show you that she cares about you extraordinarily, but she will also complain about you when you ignore her, and tell you how lonely her life is. All this, she only gives you.
Between the opposite sex, women take the initiative to say the following words to you, nine times out of ten they miss you, don't understand.
The arrival of love, sometimes it is so unexpected, don't miss a woman you actually like because of your own negligence, it will be a pity.
01 "How have you been doing lately", this is a kind of concern
People who have you in their hearts always care more about you than they do about others.
Someone else was out of her sight, and she didn't care; but if you weren't in front of her eyes, she would worry that you wouldn't take good care of yourself.
Deep down in her heart, she wants you to be all right, and if you haven't been in touch with her for too long, she can't help but ask you about your recent situation.
She will use the phrase "how have you been lately" as the opening statement of your chat, which is both to care about you and to open up your topic.
She's eager to hear the details of your life, whether it's good or bad, and she wants you to share it with her because that's the only way you can get closer to each other.
You will find that even if you are not together now, she is really very attentive, you have troubles and she will find a way to enlighten you, and if you are bored, she will always talk to you.
Between you, every few days she would contact you like this, and over time, you also became dependent on her.
If she didn't want to be with you, how could she always care about greeting your life? Her affection for you is obvious, don't say you don't understand.
02 "You didn't even pay attention to me", this is a kind of complaint
When you miss someone, you also want the other person to remember yourself in your heart.
She's been waiting for you to contact her again since the last chat, reminding her every time a new message arrives to remind her that she's impatient to quickly confirm that the message is not from you.
You really haven't spoken to her for a long time, maybe you're busy at work and neglected her, or maybe you're embarrassed to bother her again.
She waited for you for a long time, but she never received a message from you, she began to lose her breath, and after much deliberation, she plucked up the courage to contact you.
After she restored contact with you, she would ask you in a slightly complaining tone: After all this long, why haven't you paid attention to me?
Obviously, she was telling you that you didn't contact her, which made her feel very uncomfortable.
She needs your care, your attention, and your time to talk to her.
Unabashedly revealing to you that she cares about you is a confession, and the reason why she wants you to always remember her existence is that she wants to be noticed by you and loved by you.
03 "I'm not interested alone", which is a hint
In the midst of feelings, women sometimes play a little "little clever".
When I talk to you, I deliberately tell you that she has nothing to do and is having a particularly boring time, and then I will see your reaction.
"I'm not interesting alone", this sentence actually has two meanings:
One, she is telling you that she is currently single and convenient to be pampered;
Second, she's telling you she wants to go out and play around, and you can try asking her out to play together.
As a man, after seeing such words, don't be foolish to think that she is simply confiding in you about her recent situation.
You must know that women will never give each other any illusion when they face the opposite sex that they are not interested in.
She said this to you over and over again, the purpose is obvious, she just wants you to take the initiative to enter her world, to bring her color, and the taste of love.
It is often said that loving someone cannot be hidden no matter what.
Indeed, when a woman is truly affectionate with you, then her whole heart will only think about you.
If you don't take the initiative to contact her, she will repeatedly disturb you, while paying attention to your life, while chatting with you about various topics, looking for opportunities to hint at your own intentions.
I don't know if such a woman, will you choose, will you cherish?
If you also have a good feeling for her, you may wish to take the initiative, after all, love wants someone to say it, you take a step forward, maybe your story can begin.
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Author: West Window, a post-90s girl who loves to write, if you like my article, welcome to interact with me in the comment area.