Wen | West Window
Communicate with you with words, convey emotional life, pay attention to me, and grow together.
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Opening Remarks:
The years are hurried, it is another year, I don't know if the arrival of the new year, does it make your mood become better for a long time?
Looking at the lights of thousands of homes outside the window and listening to the firecrackers in your ears, no matter who it is, you will be unconsciously driven by the atmosphere of this New Year.
At this moment, suddenly do not want to regret or grieve for what has been experienced in the past year, good things and bad things have become a thing of the past, people always have to look forward.
In the new year, I just want to make myself better and make my life better.
What should be put down, what should be forgotten, all the troubles and entanglements should be thrown away, and the next days should be greeted with a new face.
In the new year, don't forget to love yourself well, stay away from the people and relationships that make you uncomfortable, and your mood will be full of sunshine.
02
Be kind to yourself and don't think about unhappy things
Have you ever encountered anything in your life in the past year that made you unhappy?
For example: being deliberately targeted by someone, picking thorns and finding stubble everywhere; or the work career is not going well, resulting in your life being stretched?
Such big things and small things are really inevitable, if you want to open it, it is fine, if you don't want to open it, you will always be painful and depressed.
Remembering those troubles every day makes your mood particularly bad, you are always sad, you will lose your temper, and even your family will be tortured by you.
Starting today, please tell yourself not to do that in the future, and be sure to get rid of your problem of loving to drill the horns.
As a person, sometimes you don't have to be too real and stubborn, and when you should be confused, you should be confused, don't put too many things into your heart.
The more you think about it, the more you worry about it, and some things you think about are in vain, and you can't turn the situation around.
Since you are powerless to change, it is better to look down on it, try to focus only on your own life and family, and don't care about other things.
03
Be kind to yourself and don't please people who don't deserve it
Man, with the increase of age, suddenly becomes "awake".
If you think about the old days, you always paid too much attention to the thoughts and feelings of the people around you, and it can be said that you were particularly tired.
Worried that friends will be dissatisfied with themselves, so they accommodate each other everywhere;
Afraid that his other half will dislike him, he always tries to humble himself.
I care about others more than I care about myself, and in order not to hurt each other's feelings, some grievances and patience have passed. You thought that others would understand you, but in the end you found that no one actually took you seriously.
Someone keeps giving you a look, someone bullies you as much as they want, and someone keeps asking for you.
Such a life, you have lived enough, to this day, really do not want to be consumed by rotten people and rotten things.
In the new year, may you learn to "break away", not to be too soft when encountering people, and to dare to invite some people out of your life.
Those who will only hurt you and fail you, don't be nice to them anymore, it's really not worth it.
If you stay away from them, you are loving yourself and learning to quit low-quality social and emotional life, and your life will be better in the future.
04
In the new year, the past zero clearance begins again
The road of life, every step forward, it seems that there are always regrets.
But, whether your past days were good or bad, since it happened, you have to know how to clear yourself.
Completely forget some unhappy things in the past, or you can choose to let go from your heart. No longer waste today's mood for yesterday's regrets, and put all your energy into the next few days.
Many people, many things, what they did not get, what they did not force, now let go.
Don't dwell on it, it's only going to make you miserable day after day; don't regret it, the choices you've made can't be changed.
There are many things in life that require you and me to walk and give up, and a person who carries baggage will inevitably walk heavily.
The previous love and hate, should be put down, put the heart empty, the future road will be better.
You have to believe that bad luck will always pass, give yourself a chance to start over, live hard, and pursue the happiness you want.
05
West Window Message:
2022 is coming, stand at the beginning of the new year, start again.
In the following days, less with yourself, less with your family, not only to be kind to yourself, but also to take good care of your family.
If the previous way of living made you feel tired and painful, then start to change from this moment on, and do what you like according to your preferences.
Care less about other people's opinions and evaluations, ask more about your own heart and feelings, happiness is the most important.
Raising the mood well and taking good care of the body is the most meaningful thing.
Don't live up to every time in life, cherish every day, live every day, and enjoy every day.
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Author: West Window, a post-90s girl who loves to write, if you like my article, welcome to interact with me in the comment area.