Wen | West Window
Communicate with you with words, convey emotional life, pay attention to me, and grow together.
In the world of feelings, people with different personalities express their love in different ways.
Some people like one person to be able to say it, but others can't be so brave.
On the one hand, I don't want the other party to feel very abrupt; on the other hand, I am worried that I will be rejected by others.
In most cases, once a woman has a heart for someone, the first thing they will do is to test whether the other person has a good feeling for them.
See if men are willing to contact themselves, help themselves, and care about themselves.
Through the man's attitude toward himself, judge whether he can enter his heart and get close to his side, if he feels sure, there will be further actions.
As a man, in the process of getting along with women, you must not only care about the other party, but also be good at capturing women's thoughts and ideas.
You know, if a woman has affection for you, she will tempt you frequently. Whether it's the ambiguous tone of the chat or asking you for help every few days, this is a sign that she wants to get close to you, don't ignore it.
When chatting, the tone is particularly ambiguous
From acquaintance to acquaintance, there must be a process of mutual understanding, and at this stage, you and she will inevitably chat often.
In fact, through the tone and reaction of her speech and communication with you, you can see whether she has you in her heart or not.
Women who are "not interesting" to you are usually cold in front of you, and have no interest in pandering to you or making some cross-line jokes with you.
However, the woman who has a good feeling for you is different, because she wants to develop a relationship with you, so she will definitely give you preferential treatment beyond others.
She likes you, she feels sweet and joyful when she talks to you, and this emotion will be integrated into the messages she sends you, and her every word will seem very emotional.
When chatting with you, she will not only not maintain boundaries, but also deliberately ambiguous with you, one will spoil you, one will provoke you.
She is sending a signal to you that she doesn't want to be just your ordinary friend, she wants to talk to you about some topics between men and women.
When you get along, deliberately show weakness to you
There is a kind of woman, who is particularly intelligent, and once she likes someone, she will deliberately create opportunities for two people to have contact.
She wants to see if you have a good feeling for her, so she will deliberately show weakness in front of you to see if you are willing to help her.
For example, if your relationship is a colleague, then she will ask you some questions that she does not understand, and in the process of teaching her, you will naturally intersect.
For example, if your relationship is ordinary friends, she will deliberately tell you about her recent troubles during the chat, suggesting that you take the initiative to find her to help her solve her problems.
She is particularly aware that men must be willing to pay for each other when facing the women they like.
If you really understand her and help her, then she will inevitably show more dependence on you in the future.
In front of you, she will deliberately show her own little woman's side, she wants you to get used to taking care of her, so that she will gradually be put in your heart.
When in private contact, care about everything about you
Two people get along, accompanied by frequent chats and mutual help in life, your relationship will naturally become closer.
Gradually, you began to meet in private, although you had not yet broken through the window paper, but in fact, you were trying to date.
Every time you ask her to come out, she always readily agrees, whether it is day or night, she is willing to meet you.
She's not your girlfriend, but she cares about everything about you.
When she is alone with you, she will greet you warmly, asking you if you have any problems at work and worrying about your chores.
In fact, it's not just you, even your family that she has always put in mind. You've seen all your relatives and friends, and she's been very nice to those people.
Obviously, as long as it is someone or thing with whom you are related, she will not slack off, and her treatment has long exceeded the way friends get along.
She is telling you one thing with her own efforts, and that is that her heart has long belonged to you, and she wants to be with you.
Women often have their own careful machines for dealing with feelings.
Obviously, she liked you first, but she just couldn't bear not to say it, that is, to deliberately be ambiguous with you, to care about you, and then wait for you to have the courage to seduce her.
If you're smart, you should see that she's been giving you signs of love.
If it weren't for liking you, how could she talk to you every day until you fell asleep, how could she keep asking for your love, and how could she care about your life?
It is a fact that she has you in her heart, and you should take the initiative to confess to her and tell her that you have already been emotional about her.
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Author: West Window, a post-90s girl who loves to write, if you like my article, welcome to interact with me in the comment area.