Wen | West Window
Communicate with you with words, convey emotional life, pay attention to me, and grow together.
01
Life in the world, no matter who it is, is destined to escape the shackles of love.
By chance, I met a person, had the privilege of knowing him, and later, I couldn't help but feel true feelings for him.
In order to get close to him, painstaking efforts were made; in order to cater to him, change yourself.
Thankfully, he just happens to like you too. As you walk step by step towards his world, he also proves his heart to you with practical actions.
You and he, at the purest age, are talking about the purest love. They do not play tricks with each other, do not play tricks, and rarely think about material and money and other things.
The deep love he gives you makes you feel like you can go on forever. You look forward to being his bride at some point in the future, going with him into the future.
You think of it this way: as long as the object of your marriage is him, you can live an ordinary life, as long as you can have his love, you feel that everything is worth it.
You are so affectionate, it stands to reason that you should be able to come together.
But life is often full of unknown changes, and the road of your love with him suddenly becomes less smooth from one day.
Later, you will always quarrel over some small problems.
Frankly speaking, the love in your heart for him has never changed, but some of his actions make you feel that you can't see the future.
You complain that he doesn't understand you, but from his point of view, he feels that he is no different from before.
In terms of feelings, you have some small gaps; on a realistic level, you have gradually discovered that it is not a simple thing for two people to want to come together.
At first, you only talked about love, and when you really talked about marriage, either there was a contradiction here or there was obstruction over there.
You and he have tried, but there are some problems that you really can't solve.
This love affair, after all, did not end well. The Sea Oath Mountain Alliance has become a cloud of smoke, even if the heart can no longer put down, there is no way to continue to love each other as it was at the beginning.
02
You and he are well aware of the fact that you can't give each other later.
Love is interrupted, but the days go on, and you and he both have their own work to be busy with and have their own days to plan.
Two people are not together, there is less intersection in life, you may go to other cities to develop, he may also leave where you are.
The distance in space will make you more and more distant from each other. Since then, you have rarely seen each other and rarely contacted each other again.
You haven't forgotten him, but now, you seem to be able to drift apart.
You and he are getting older, and you know that your youth cannot be consumed any longer, but there is still a trace of expectation in your heart, waiting for him to come back to you.
After leaving him, there have been several opposite sexes around you, before and after.
People have approached you, but you are not interested in getting acquainted with them.
You are still unwilling to him, and when you think that he may belong to someone else and walk with others for the rest of your life, your heart will not hurt for any reason.
On several occasions, you have inquired about him from elsewhere, but unfortunately your mutual friends have become fewer and fewer, and no matter how much you try, you will not know anything about him.
You have also thought about contacting him yourself, but now, you can say that there is a gap between you.
His current situation, you don't know; your changes, he doesn't know.
You are each other's past tense, even if you have loved deeply, you have all been.
Whether he still has feelings for you, you can't confirm this, it is possible that he has already lived with others, and when you think of this, you don't have the courage to bother him anymore.
03
Your choice is particularly correct.
Today, all of you are old, and you have passed the stage of wayward love.
Even if you find a way to restore contact with him, you still can't go together.
It is difficult for people who love each other to become dependents, to put it bluntly, there is no fate, and the external factors that were originally in your feelings still exist today.
Whether it is the disapproval of society or the opposition of family members, the problems that were not solved at the beginning can still not be solved.
If he has already married someone else, then your interruption will bring unnecessary trouble to his current family, and it is a sign of price drop for you.
Don't use your old love identity to interfere in other people's feelings, then you will not be happy.
If you can't stay together, just let yourself go and let him go, don't suddenly appear in his world, then you and he can't be at ease.
Written to those who have no chance to be husband and wife in this life: if you can't give each other happiness, persuade yourself to let go.
Perhaps on the road of life, there is bound to be such a person, let you love to the bone, but it is difficult to have.
You miss is missing, rather than maintaining an ambiguous relationship, it is better to disappear completely into each other's sight.
Don't contact, don't care, let both sides break off their thoughts, let the years bury this love.
Think about it from another angle, it is actually very good to have loved and not been able to stay together, at least what you leave in each other's memory will always be your most beautiful appearance.
In the future, it is enough to live well, as for the person who has loved, sooner or later someone else will warm him.
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Author: West Window, a post-90s girl who loves to write, if you like my article, welcome to interact with me in the comment area.