Wen | West Window
Communicate with you with words, convey emotional life, pay attention to me, and grow together.
Love is a kind of heartbeat, but also a kind of desire to stop.
When someone lives in my heart, I can no longer control my own thoughts, and I spend most of the day thinking about the other party, trying to find all possible ways to get closer to the other party.
When getting along with others, you can be cold and perfunctory, but as long as the opposite is the person you like, you will repeatedly overturn your own bottom line.
Obviously, he doesn't like to take the initiative, but he can't help but want to send him a message; he is obviously not good at pandering, but he will rack his brains to think about topics that interest him.
Emotion is like this, which will make an originally reserved woman become impulsive, become crazy, become expectant, and want to have all the attention and care of the other party.
As a man, don't be too wooden in your feelings, and don't ignore the signals women give you.
In the process of getting along with her, don't just express your heart, but also look at what the woman's attitude is towards you, and see what she says to you and does.
You know, women are best at showing love in a euphemistic way, such as only being gentle with you, loving to you, and so on, which are actually signs that she likes you.
A woman who wants to be "good" with you from the bottom of her heart will usually give the following hints, don't be stupid and can't see it.
It is a kind of luck to meet a lover, don't wait for 100% certainty to dare to get close. Now that she has given you a signal of love, don't hesitate, be brave, and your story with her begins.
Respond to your messages in a timely manner and take the initiative to cater to you
If you like a person, you always want to get close to each other, first asking people around you about you, and then wanting to contact you personally.
Of course, a woman who takes the initiative to approach a man will be more or less embarrassed, especially the kind of woman with a passive personality, who is actually more accustomed to others going to her world.
She may not initiate a conversation with you, but as long as you message her, she will be able to respond in time.
When she has nothing else to do, she is almost second-to-second, and as long as your chat starts, she will not take the initiative to end.
No matter what you say, she is willing to take the stubble, accompany you to talk about any topic you want to talk about, will not be annoyed with you, and never say that she has other things to do.
In fact, if you think about it, who can idle until she has been chatting with people from morning to night, the real situation is that she attaches too much importance to you, no matter what she does, her eyes are staring at the phone, for fear of missing your message.
You are her pinnacle, someone she is willing to spend time and energy to understand and please. Listening to your trivial daily routine, comforting you and encouraging you, this is the manifestation of having you in your heart.
Always gentle and considerate to you, and care about caring about you
Once a woman meets someone she loves deeply, she will exude a "femininity".
Femininity is a feeling, she may still be in front of others still have no heart, no lungs, big grin, but as long as you get along, she will become shy, gentle and considerate.
Her attitude towards you, as sweet as her love for you, is soft-spoken when she talks to you, and always likes to care about your life.
You occasionally complain about your current situation in the circle of friends, and she will immediately ask you what is happening, unabashedly showing her concern for you, you should be able to detect.
You have encountered difficulties in your life, as long as she is in front of you, she will inevitably understand the situation in detail, and then try to find a way to help you get through the difficulties.
Frankly speaking, you have many friends around you, but no one really knows how to take care of you like she does.
The kindness and preferential treatment she gives you make you gradually become dependent on her, and you like her gentleness to you and infatuate yourself with her femininity.
Slowly get used to pampering you and asking you to love her
Love will make a person feel emotional at the same time, but also have expectations and desires.
She takes pains to get close to you and please you, not just because she wants to love you, but because she wants to be put in your heart.
She wants you to appreciate her, to favor her, to care for her, to take care of her, to care for her.
Maybe when she first got along with you, she would be embarrassed to express her demands, but later after your relationship slowly matured, you will find that she always likes to ask of you.
If you want to talk to her every day, if you want to report her whereabouts, as soon as you snub her, her emotions start to be wrong.
In a tone of blame, complaining that you don't care enough about her is actually a woman's way of coddling a man.
Spoiled, you can understand as "flirting", to put it bluntly, she just wants to exchange your love and obedience to her in this way, of course, this is also a precursor to the beginning of love.
I have heard such a saying: we have all had those years, desperate when we love, and unconscious when we are loved.
In the face of love, don't be too stupid, when a woman is used to treating you in the same way as above, you are probably already in her heart.
She has given you the initiative and enthusiasm, the understanding and dedication to you, and the side of her most eager to be loved in front of your eyes, her intention has been obvious.
She has been waiting for you to say that sentence, if you have the heart, do not live up to this fate.
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Author: West Window, a post-90s girl who loves to write, if you like my article, welcome to interact with me in the comment area.