Wen | West Window
Communicate with you with words, convey emotional life, pay attention to me, and grow together.
01
Life is an encounter, the more roads traveled, the more people you come into contact with.
From strangers to familiarity with many people, some of them are related to you, talking and doing things; there are also people who are not related to you, you look down on him, and he can't look at you.
Logically, people who do not have a good feeling for each other should avoid contact in life.
However, there is a saying that "people in the rivers and lakes cannot help themselves." Sometimes you have to deal with people you don't like.
For example: you are colleagues, you usually look up and don't look down, you can't hide at all;
Another example: you are a neighbor, you can meet him as soon as you go out, and he is dangling in front of your eyes.
Dealing with people you don't like, your mood will definitely be affected, and when you encounter this situation, you must persuade yourself not to be too real, and you must have the wisdom to make a scene.
If you are too sensitive and too impulsive, it is easy to be unhappy because of small things, so that your normal life is difficult.
People who love to be angry lack a "non-calculating" wisdom.
No matter who you get along with, the other person's words and deeds, you really care too much.
You can't stand other people's jokes, you can't stand other people's sloppiness, and a casual sentence from others can make you sullen for a long time, and then you want to argue with people and make trouble with people.
You think that if you don't let others go, you will appear to be very powerful, but in fact, you hurt yourself the most.
You have too much qi in your heart, and you live depressed and tangled every day, and this state lasts for a long time, and you will find that your body begins to become bad.
As a person, we must take more care of ourselves, and it is the most important to cultivate a good mood.
In the days to come, learn to "not be angry", let go of the knot, live out the temperament, and you will win.
02
Some people, don't take it too seriously
One of the most infuriating situations in life is being chewed on the root of one's tongue behind one's back.
Those who are bored like to pay attention to other people's lives, and if there is a little wind in your world, they will get together to talk about you.
How your feelings and marriage are, have become a point of curiosity for them. They'll go around digging up your privacy and then preaching your "ugly things."
When you are down for a certain period of time, they will look at you with a "joke" mentality, unveiling your short and cool words behind your back, in order to show their sense of superiority.
Of course, there is a saying that "there is no fire in the paper", and the gossip about you will one day reach your ears.
How would you choose to face it? Do you run to confront them in person, or do you go alone and sullen?
Neither of these practices is smart enough to compete with brazen people, and you can't win, because what they're best at is breaking jars.
You're in a bad mood, they don't care, they don't care how much hurt they'll bring you, and even when you argue, people are more reasonable than you.
What you really should do is filter their words, be honest and be yourself, and don't be unhappy because of bad people and bad things.
Those who don't see you well, don't deserve you to waste any emotion for them, you shouldn't even take them care of, don't give them a sense of existence.
03
Love to calculate, the days get worse and worse
Man, the temperament is too small, and I always feel pain.
In the face of the big things and small things that happen in life, you can't open it, you can't put it down, you can think about it for a long time with a look from others, who are you tired of?
People who love to calculate can't eat any losses, and can't swallow any breath, but let me ask: Who doesn't have to be wronged in life?
You have not lived to the point where everyone looks up to you, as long as you deal with people, there will always be contradictions and disputes.
In fact, there are some small things that can't have any impact on you, because you have been grumpy and whimsical, which has led to that thing not being able to pass on you.
Day after day you are depressed and tangled, and the knots in your heart become bigger and bigger, and over time, the whole person becomes angry and negative.
Why live? Those negative emotions, you can actually get rid of.
Tell yourself not to be too real, in the face of what has happened, you can put it down, don't let today's unhappiness affect tomorrow's mood.
At any time, don't add baggage to yourself, you must learn to dust your soul in order to live easily.
04
In the future, let yourself go and be less angry
I often hear people say: To be a person, you must relax your mind.
Sometimes, there is no heart and no lungs, but to live happily.
Do not put the words of others to the heart, do not be indignant because of small things, people who can do so, seemingly simple, but in fact have great wisdom.
They understand that whether people compete with themselves or with others, they can only exchange pain in the end. The more angry you are, the more happiness you have.
Come to this world to live your own style, but not to oppose others. Instead of worrying about entanglement, it is better to persuade yourself to want to open up and look down.
If the heart is relieved, everywhere is sunny; if the heart is calculated, everywhere is resentment.
In the old days, I fought with people all the way to get angry, and I ate the pain and endured the suffering. From now on, be nice to yourself.
Be kind to yourself, start with no anger, and live your life calmly.
Some people, some things, don't take it too seriously when you see it. May you do more happy things in the years to come, see more beautiful scenery, not be angry, and be happy.
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Author: West Window, a post-90s girl who loves to write, if you like my article, welcome to interact with me in the comment area.