When men get along with you, they have a relatively cold attitude towards you, rarely ask about your life situation, he does not care about your affairs, how you live, he does not care at all. When you encounter things, feel afflict, and complain to him, he will appear impatient with you, ask you to make a long story short, and perfunctory to you.
When you are in trouble and ask him for help, men will complain that you take up too many of his resources, will find reasons to avoid you, ask you not to bother her, and men will treat you like this, obviously not taking you to heart.
Men who really love you deeply will definitely not treat you like this, you know, the signs of men after emotion: coaxing you, temptation, bearing, through the man's external performance, you can feel his affection.
1. Coax you.
A man has never said an emotional word to you when dealing with you, and when chatting with you, his words are blunt, impatient, and he seems to have nothing to say to you, which shows that he has no interest in you.
On the contrary, the man has a real feeling for you and wants to hold hands with you, at this time, he will want to get your approval, and for this reason, he will take the initiative to do something to make you happy.
He will talk to you, will give you small gifts, will give you small surprises, he will bother to coax you to be happy, which shows that his heart really values you, don't realize it.
2. Temptation.
When a man gets along with you, he doesn't care about your feelings, he doesn't care about your feelings for him, you're not good enough for him, you're close to other attractions, he doesn't care at all, it doesn't seem to matter, which shows that he hasn't paid attention to you, and he hasn't paid real feelings for you.
The man who really loves you deeply will not only care about your feelings, but also care about your feelings for him, on the one hand, he will take the initiative to do something to please you, on the other hand, he will secretly expect that the relationship between you can have a qualitative leap, and you can stay together forever.
In order to further understand your feelings for him, he will not be able to help but test you, see your reaction, in order to understand your feelings for him, such as he will take the initiative to approach you, call you by a kind title, and repeatedly mix with your things, if you cooperate with him, he may have to go in and out of the way, further close to you; if you reject him and are unwilling to cooperate with him, he will be very disappointed, and the man will behave in this way, indicating that he has given his heart to you.
3. Undertake.
When two people are together, the man has not thought about doing anything for you, has not thought of giving you a better life, has not thought of marrying you, has an irresponsible attitude towards you, he is always going his own way, taking himself as the center of his life, completely disregarding your feelings, when you point out his shortcomings, he can't listen to your opinions and is not willing to correct his mistakes, and the man releases such a signal, indicating that there is no place for you in his heart.
A man who is really emotional about you will have a conspicuous feature, that is, "responsible for you", he will put you in his heart, will be willing to accommodate you in life, tolerate you, and he will continue to improve himself, make himself better, and strive to give you better living conditions.
When you point out his shortcomings, he listens to your opinions, corrects his mistakes, he will take your opinions as important, willing to make changes for you, accommodate you, and get along with you in the way you expect, and the man has such a performance, indicating that he really values you in his heart and pays true feelings for you.