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Men's attitudes towards extramarital feelings are different, some men only seek temporary pleasure in extramarital feelings, and have not paid the heart at all, while some men will invest their feelings.
Men who have invested their feelings in extramarital relationships will of course be very sincere with women outside of marriage. He will care about the feelings of women outside of marriage and do his best to be nice to her. As long as he promised something to a woman outside of marriage, he would definitely do it.
He will also act particularly clingy, because he really likes each other, so every moment, he will want to see each other, and he will want to give each other the best. As long as it is within his own ability, he will definitely get it for women outside of marriage.
And men who don't invest in feelings outside of marriage, but just want to have fun for a while, can't do this. Because he is not sincere about women outside of marriage, he does not have so much patience and not so much thoughtfulness with women outside of marriage, although he will pay something to keep each other, but definitely not a lot.
Whether a man is sincere or not to a woman, as long as you look closely, you can find the clues, love and non-love are really obvious. So women also don't blindly believe in a man outside of marriage feelings for you, men in extramarital feelings, if there are three manifestations, women can not blame others if they do not leave.
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The first manifestation: if you are separated.
In the relationship between men outside marriage, if they behave like divorce to women outside of marriage, it is because the feelings are not in place, men do not really like women outside marriage, and women outside marriage are the spices of life for him, not a necessity at all.
Men will behave like they are divorced, mainly because they are afraid that women outside marriage will rely on him completely. Because he never wanted to be with a woman outside of marriage for a long time, he just wanted to have a short and indulgent relationship with a woman outside of marriage, and he didn't want to be responsible at all, nor did he want to be entangled with this woman all the time.
So, a man will show some enthusiasm when he needs a woman outside of marriage, and when he doesn't need a woman outside of marriage, he hopes that women outside of marriage can contact him less.
The man wants the woman outside the marriage to be available on call, and without his call, he wants the woman outside the marriage to be able to contact him less intellectually.
This is why a man will divorce a woman outside of marriage, and he will divorce a woman outside of marriage, not because he wants to have a romantic love affair with a woman outside of marriage. He simply didn't take women outside of marriage seriously.
He liked the days when the red flag at home did not fall and the bunting flag fluttered outside, but he also did not take women outside marriage seriously, just as in ancient times, men did not take concubines seriously. In ancient times, concubines could be sold at will, while in modern times, although men could not sell women outside marriage at will, they could discard them at will.
So, if a woman meets a man who is about to leave you, don't be self-righteous and think that she is attractive and can take down the other party, all you have to do is leave the other person. With this kind of man who treats you like a plaything, you don't have to waste your time.
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The second manifestation: only promises are not fulfilled.
Women generally like men with sweet mouths, and some women are even coaxed around by men with sweet mouths. In extramarital feelings, men with sweet mouths are also very marketable. But some men have sweet mouths that are really sweet, and when he says it, it will be done. But some men have sweet mouths, that is false sweetness, that is industrial saccharin, and he only promises not to fulfill it.
Some men really have that ability, in extramarital feelings, just use their mouths to coax women outside of marriage, make a bunch of promises, as if they want to dedicate all of them to women outside of marriage, but the real situation is that he is only talking about it, purely to coax women outside of marriage, so that women outside marriage are willing to talk to him about extramarital feelings, and can coax him as long as they want. Free, how affordable.
When women face this kind of man, some women will quickly wake up, see the true face of the other party, and decisively end the relationship. But some women, do not know whether to be embarrassed or stupid, just can't see each other's tricks, what others promise, she takes it seriously, and firmly believes that the other party will do it for her.
Then I waited year after year, watching the years grow old, and willingly waited. Just like this, I was tricked by a man's mouth into putting my whole life into it.
People can only promise not to keep, that is because men do not have real feelings for women outside of marriage, if there are real feelings, how can they do this. People are willing to coax women outside of marriage all the time, that is because women are coaxing, cheating, and coaxing casually, and the other party can be willing to stay by their side.
Therefore, this kind of man who only promises not to keep, get rid of it as soon as possible, this kind of man will also coax people's kung fu to be strong, and keeping it will only make you suffer all the grievances. Is it bad to find a reliable person to marry? Why give such a person an extramarital woman?
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The third manifestation: only give time or only money.
If a man is sincere in his feelings outside of marriage, he will definitely give time and money. He wants to be with a woman outside of marriage, then he will find ways to see each other more. Because he likes each other and is sincere to each other, he definitely wants to give the other party the best, so he will certainly not let the other party be wronged materially.
Only men who treat women outside of marriage as playthings will only give each other time or only money. But this point, women always do not understand, she will always find a bunch of reasons for the other party to convince themselves, and then tell themselves to be sensible, to wait, not to add trouble to men. This kind of woman is just stupid.
The kind of man who only gives time, the kind of man who is miserly, thinks that his property can only be kept to his own children, and his money is only worth spending by the wife and children of the family. Women outside of marriage? In his heart, it is the relationship between you and me, mutual entertainment, or, in his heart, the woman outside of marriage, that is a plaything, so she does not deserve to spend his money.
So, he will only give the other person time. Because when he is with women outside of marriage, some of them are only happy, so he also likes it, and he likes to see as much as possible.
In addition to men who only give time, there are also men who only give money, and this kind of man is much better than those who only give time, at least women will not lose too much. But this kind of man also has no sincerity for women outside marriage, he is using money to buy time for women outside marriage, he only hopes that the other party will appear when he needs to provide him with emotional value. There is nothing sincere at all.
Therefore, whether it is a man who only gives time or a man who only gives money, if a woman encounters it, she will quickly withdraw. You will not have results, and the other party will not really take you seriously.
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In extramarital relationships, women are often naïve, always feel that men will betray the family to be with her, that is, because they like, or even love. When someone contradicts her and says that men don't have any sincerity about her, she will find a bunch of reasons to excuse men.
They will say how it is not easy for men, so far they have not divorced and married themselves, it is because of the children in the family, afraid of affecting the children, some will even say that it is because the man's wife is too messy and unreasonable, forced to die, the man can not divorce and marry himself.
But these statements are often excuses, and this excuse is estimated that only they themselves will believe. Many times, when judging whether a person is sincere or not, we don't have to look at anything else at all, just look at the performance of the other party.
It doesn't matter what the other person says, it doesn't matter what you think, what matters is the performance of the other person.
When a man falls in love with a woman, the man's performance is not deceiving, and you will see from his performance whether he loves a woman or not.
In extramarital relationships, when a man is divorced from a woman outside marriage, only promises not to be fulfilled, only gives time or only gives money, it means that the man does not love this woman outside of marriage at all, and he is not sincere with her at all.
At this time, the woman should decisively end the relationship and leave automatically, which is the wisest choice.
Text/Fenghua