Text/Su Xiaomei
In the TV series "One Life and One Life", Zhou Shengchen, played by Ren Jialun, is the absolute male protagonist, and he and Shi Yi, played by Bailu, continue the story of the previous "Zhou Sheng As It Was". As a rich second generation + scientist, Zhou Shengchen is the object of envy of many people in the family, and many family women want to marry him to further expand the family power. Of course, there are no shortage of people who really like him, not his wealth, such as Tong Jiaren.
In Qin Wan's words, Tong Jiaren should be the most suitable marriage partner for Zhou Shengchen. First of all, the two people have good family backgrounds, and the others are scientists and colleagues, which can be said to have a common topic. In addition, Tong Jiaren has a lot of management talent and is an heir cultivated according to the requirements of the family, so it is very suitable for being the hostess of the Zhou family.
Xiao Su has always felt that Tong Jiaren is very similar to Qin Wan, so she has also won her heart and wants her to be her daughter-in-law. In the end, Tong Jiaren married Zhou Shengchen's younger brother Zhou Wenchuan. Of course, people who are not suitable are ultimately inappropriate. Tong Jia and Zhou Wenchuan do not love each other, and their wedding is just a transaction, so it ends in divorce. (Su Xiaomei/Wen)
Zhou Shengchen has lacked love since he was a child, and he also desperately desires the warmth of his family. The great Zhou family, he is the real master, but there is no close relative here. For example, his grandmother is not Zhou Shengchen's own grandmother; for example, the nominal mother Qin Wan, is just a stepmother who does not like him; for example, the nominal brother Zhou Wenchuan and his sister Zhou Wenxing are not his own sisters, they are the children of his stepmother and uncle.
If the Zhou family is the only elder who will really think about him, it is only Uncle Lin. Uncle Lin really treats Zhou Shengchen as if he were his own son, and when he is old, he says he will leave in the middle of the night, driving him to and from Shanghai, and often going hungry. A young man can't stand such a toss, if he doesn't really care about Zhou Shengchen, he doesn't have to do so. (Text/SuSu)
However, such a loveless Zhou Shengchen did not blindly pursue love, but calmly and restrained. Zhou Shengchen knows too well what he wants, so he will not choose Tong Jia because he is very good, and he also ignores the various blind dates that his mother chooses for him. If Zhou Shengchen had not been for the revitalization of the national industry, he probably would not have returned to the Zhou family. When he finishes what he wants to do, he will eventually leave.
Even if everyone thinks that Tong Jiaren is the most suitable person for Zhou Shengchen, they don't know that Zhou Shengchen does not want to stay in the Zhou family. Zhou Shengchen wanted a person who had nothing to do with the Zhou family at all, and Shi Yi was the best candidate. Therefore, Zhou Shengchen didn't care that Qin Wan said that shiyi was not suitable for being the hostess of a big family, and those socializing, shiyi, could all be left alone. (Su Su/Wen)
In addition to shiyi having nothing to do with the Zhou family, there is also a very important reason, Zhou Shengchen likes her. In addition, Shiyi was really good, and Both Uncle Lin and Zhou Shengren felt that Zhou Shengchen was very blessed to meet her. Yes, even Zhou Shengchen himself admitted that the timing was very suitable for him. At the end of the TV series "One Life", Zhou Shengchen, who lacks love, and his heart is full of his time.
He was no longer alone, he had a home that was entirely his own, a warm and loving place. And all this happiness is given to him at the right time. Imagine if Zhou Shengchen had chosen Tong Jiaren that year, what would have happened? Probably not so happy, but also trapped in the Zhou family for a lifetime.
So, no matter how much you lack love and long for love, don't blindly choose. If you don't wait for true love to come, you may no longer be the best version of yourself.