Nowadays, everyone is lamenting that there are too many divorces, and the divorce window of the Civil Affairs Bureau is not enough, in stark contrast to the few who register marriages.
The growing divorce rate makes people no longer believe in love, dare not enter the marriage hall, and begin to miss the previous slow time, the previous white head and old age.
But are the couples who used to have white heads worthy of envy? Is it really beautiful from the inside out?
Not necessarily!
The old principal of the primary school died last month, and he began to teach until his retirement after graduating from the normal school, which can be described as peach and plum all over the world and is very respected. I heard that before he died, he did not regret staying in his hometown and teaching for a lifetime, but regretted that his attitude towards divorce was not resolute.
He and his wife were introduced by matchmakers, and he was not satisfied at the time, and his parents scolded him for reading books for two more years and looking down on people. Listening to my parents and getting married, getting along for two years felt really inappropriate, filed for divorce, and began to live apart, and my parents and relatives took turns to persuade.
In that era, divorce was a big rebellion, it was nothing to find, it was a shame, the woman did not be a demon, live a good life, you can't say a word together, there is no common language to want to divorce, it is simply high enough to go to heaven! In the future, where will the family's face go, and how will the villagers talk behind their backs!
These people said not to move, and the old father moved out of Teacher Zhang, who was the teacher of the old principal and had a high prestige.
He said that these ten miles and eight townships have not heard of divorce, the two are going to run into each other together, it will be good after a long time, everyone has come this way.
The old principal respected Teacher Zhang and listened to him.
In later days, however, the couple barely spoke, and he often lived in the school.
Everyone watched his unhappiness, but did not let him be relieved.
A distant aunt, after marrying her uncle, found that he was lazy and lazy to make love and play cards, and beat people when he played drunk. The aunt can't stand to get a divorce, the mother's family will never agree, divorced there is no home, how can a woman have no home? And the mother's family can't tolerate the girl who loves to do it.
Just endure it like this, bear it and become numb, get used to it, get old, admit your fate, and don't want to divorce this thing.
I think the high divorce rate looks terrible, but it's not entirely a bad thing.
Divorce is not unusual, no one cares so much, the psychological burden is light, it is not appropriate to separate, more trial and error to find out who is the right person, it is better than a lifetime of repression and unwillingness.
Life is short, and it is better to choose wrong than not to choose.