Life is not easy, there will always be times when encouragement and comfort are needed, especially in terms of feelings, it seems that it is easier to make people feel emotional, but some one-sided or even misread article content may have side effects. Nowadays, the Internet is full of all kinds of chicken soup for the soul, and it may temporarily resonate with the feeling of being healed and recognized, but in fact, it can only make the situation worse, so that you can't see the essence and truth of the problem.
People live the same life as anyone else
If there is no relevance, a single interpretation of this sentence seems transparent, but in fact, it is full of negative resentment.
It's like a resentful woman cursing a scumbag, and the world is as black as a crow
Marriage is the rebirth and turning point of life, and it is simply impossible to choose whom.
People who often believe in this sentence will usually be people who have encountered emotional trauma, experience, and even confused periods, so it is easy to become, since they are all the same, since it is the norm, then just casually, this kind of broken can mentality, and finally this abandoned cognitive concept, may really lead to their own real lack of good life.
The education, family background, personal ability level, and literacy and character of your lover you choose to determine the ceiling of future days to a certain extent, and even determine the class of contact with your future life.
You talk about ideals with an who doesn't know what to do, and I'm afraid that communication is also chicken and duck, so I don't change myself, and I do marry whoever I am, but people really don't live the same life with anyone.
As long as he or she ***, he or she must not be someone worthy of your love
In order to quickly find resonance in many short videos, they must pay attention to their own works to improve the click rate, rather than simply whether it is really beneficial to your feelings and life.
I think you must have brushed up on videos like this, if a man (a woman) has the following performance characteristics, then it is not worthy of your love. There will even be some very strong guiding hints, that is, don't be too nice to a woman (man), too good, he will look down on you instead.
Many couples who happen to have relationships enter the flat period of the relationship, and even have problems, are most likely to sit in the right seat because of the situation of their relationship, because many of people's inferior roots or small shortcomings are similar, and the other party has such and such similar points, there are inducements, and it is not simply possible to use videos to define whether it is worth being loved and respected.
Such videos don't work for emotionally harmonious people, but the more people need healing help, the more they can backfire and become a booster to the deterioration of relationships.
Lovers need a little sincerity and patience, do not cause their feelings to change because of the misreading of chicken soup.
People have such and such problems and problems, you hear the recognition, in fact, there is a real dissatisfaction, but do not affirm you through a third party, but need to find a way to change the status quo of getting along, live the life you want to live, love the people you want to love.
You're having a bad time, you're not happy, just because you're not willing to let go of a wrong person
In fact, if these chicken soup can really be fully interpreted, it is no problem, because it is true that many people consume their youth in the wrong relationship.
But you have to be clear that having a bad life may indeed because you are entangled in a wrong relationship, but happiness and unhappiness have no absolute correlation with whether or not to let go of this person.
This also leads many people to resolutely decide to divorce and find that it is not as good as the root cause before, because they will feel that the root of their unhappiness lies in the other party, as long as they change people, everything will go well.
If you can't really find your own problems in the relationship, then you will often repeat the same mistakes, and leaving the other party will not help. So how can you make your feelings harmonious and happy? Borrow the idea from "Love Yourself and WhoEver Marries Is The Same".
Only by loving yourself well will there be happiness and beauty
Loving yourself is not easy to say and do, you need to have a mature enough psychology, dare to face and bear the consequences of everything.
That's not selfishness, it's really about focusing more on yourself.
Accepting each other's imperfections, including the chicken and dog fragments of life, will make life more beautiful, do not believe in chicken soup and rush to abandon the relationship, thinking that life can be redeemed.
Happiness is in your own hands, and you can't only achieve happiness by finding the right other half
People must have the ability to withdraw at any time, whether it is emotional or economic, they must take the initiative in their own hands, whether the other party suddenly leaves their own world, they will not be unable to live.
Without changing yourself, the fate of changing partners is still the same
As the book says: a partner is not the root of the problem, but yourself! Even if your partnership seems harmonious now, you will find that the feelings that disappoint you and are eager to get rid of are often caused by you.
We may not grasp the wrong marriage and feelings, but we must grasp the key to the problem to understand why, find our own problems, is the key to open a happy life, rather than relying on substitution to get beautiful. So have you ever trusted such chicken soup?
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Text/Relief Emotional Station
(Author: Xiao Yu, psychological counselor, focusing on the emotional field), good at the restoration of romantic relationships, marital contradictions and differences, and the healing of psychological trauma caused by the original ecological family. The lonely journey of life, listening to your grievances and pressures, helping visitors improve their skills in getting along with the sexes, saving their lovers, managing their feelings, and striving to become happier people.