I saw such a story on the Internet today and shared it with you. This is a passage from a wife crying to her husband. Here is a passage from the wife to her husband. I listened and cried, and my wife said that I had changed from an ignorant girl to a resentful woman, from a resentful woman to a shrew, and then from a shrew to a dumb person now, and I never laughed and laughed again, and finally I lived a life that even I hated. All along, when there was a problem in our marriage, everyone was advising me to put up with it for the sake of my children. Yeah, it's all for kids. In fact, I don't seek everything as expected, only to encounter disagreements, you can let me three points, but why are you pressing step by step? Sometimes I think about it, when I wake up, my mother is cooking, my father is working, I have not grown up, not for anyone's wife, not for anyone's joy, not for anyone's mother, only for my parents' good daughter, and then listen to them tell me, everything I have encountered now is just a very long dream. Listening to her words, what I want to say to her is that the best state of a woman is whether the marriage is fortunate or unhappy, whether the pillow person is in or out. As a woman, you must always understand one thing, marriage is not the whole of life, the second half of life is not a husband, but a sensible child, a healthy body, and a happy and elegant rest of life.
What I want to tell women is that a better way for a woman to live is not to humbly pray for others to pay attention to you and love you, but to silently be true to yourself in your own world, even if it is difficult, when you go out, you must put on a light makeup every day, wear the clothes you like, do not envy anyone, do not laugh at anyone, do not rely on anyone, quietly work hard, quietly love yourself. To know that people live in this world, we will encounter a lot of people and things, some bring us happiness, some people bring us growth, some people bring us pain, some people are just passers-by in our lives, except for their own parents, no one will care about whether you are happy or unhappy, good or bad, so women must love themselves well, there is no need to be angry about some bad people and things. Swallow the grievances, feed the pattern, can't change others, change yourself.
