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A family, whether it is a strong man or a strong woman, is generally an unfortunate family, today I will talk about the strong woman in the family, a woman in the family if she can not be a good wife and mother, but also must not be a strong woman.
No matter what the reason is that women can not be strong at home, women are strong, then this family is a bloody family, the noise of the family will never be peaceful, both hurt themselves, but also hurt their children, such a day is better than directly leaving.
Strong women in the family are better to say that they are strong, and what is not good to say is that the shrew complains about the woman, which is similar to the man in the family, the only difference is that the man in the family will sometimes beat the wife and the child, and the strong woman in the family is to scold the husband and scold the child. Both of these mentalities are not good, grumpy and easy to be provoked, once provoked, it is endless, as if how much grievance, the whole family will be stirred up forever!
Normal people don't want to see the strong appearance of women in the family, and a family woman is always strong, which shows that the family is very bad.
01 Strong women on the inside can easily lead to family misfortune
The two words "strong" are both "positive" and "pejorative", external strength is "heroic", and internal strength is "nest horizontal". We always say that some men are in the nest, and don't strong women at home also nest horizontal?
I have seen some women in the countryside who are very polite to people outside, but as soon as they get home, their temper rises, scolding their husbands and scolding their children and in-laws, and when they are grumpy, they pick up small branches and greet their children!
Such a woman always complains that she is married poor, but never thinks about her own problems, so why do you want to marry a family that you hate? Did he marry blindfolded? If you are married poor, why would you rather complain about the world than divorce? For the sake of the child is not necessarily, really for the sake of the child will not always scold their own children, make the family restless day children inferior, have the kung fu of complaining is not as good as living their own life.
An internally strong woman leads to the misfortune of the whole family, such a woman is suitable for marrying a strong man, a normal man or a man without temper is not suitable for marriage.
02 The strong use of a woman may make her a strong woman on the outside, but it will harm the whole family when used in the family
Women's strength may be used in the outside to help them to fight the courage, relying on the strong temper may make them become business strong women, but this is not only relying on the strong line, but also have the mind and head, so strong women can become strong women outside the family is only a very small minority.
But once the woman's strength is used in the family, then the family is likely to be destroyed by them, because the family is not a workplace, the family is a place of education and love, and the strong woman will not do this, they will be in their own opinion to the family to specify rules and conditions, so that the people in the family unconditionally obey their own requirements!
If someone doesn't listen to what they say and do, they will be furious, the husband is a man, they can't fight, beat the child and scold the child, let the child be inferior and cowardly, this is the future of the family!
A good family has become a place for the resentful woman to vent her temper, can there be happiness at all?
03 Family is a place of love, not the Colosseum
Strong women in the family grumpy really do not know tired, they can endlessly calculate, the whole family no one dares to provoke them, even respect them, if the husband is also a strong person, then the family is like a Colosseum, quarreling endless ghostly! The child cowered in a corner listening to their quarrels, a shadow that the child might remember for the rest of his life.
Why now we all have each other's personality and mentality when we get married, because we don't want a family to become a Colosseum. A strong man in the family cannot marry, a strong woman in the family cannot marry, a strong man who marries a strong man destroys the family, and a strong woman can still destroy the whole family.
Family is not a place to be reasonable, if you want to be reasonable, you can't convince everyone for a lifetime, just like the Colosseum, those fighting beasts are ultimately lose-lose, but those who watch are happy.
The family is a place of love, and only love will make the people in the whole family understand each other and live in harmony.
04 Conclusion
A woman must not allow herself to become a strong resentful woman in the family, and it is not good for her to become a resentful woman in her family and children. Even if you really encounter the hurt of men, you have to be rational, divorce is a big deal, always complaining is useless, and it will make people see jokes, and live your own life ten thousand times better than with people you hate.