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I haven't been home for the New Year in seven years, not because I don't want to go back, but because my parents don't welcome it. They said that I went back and lost their old face, I did not listen to advice to marry a man from out of town, or an insurance salesman, he had no house and no deposit in a scooter of tens of thousands of yuan is all the belongings, but I like that he is optimistic about him, I believe he has the potential to be responsible. During the two years I spent with him, I felt romantic and caring, an experience I had never given in the small town I had lived in for many years. Impression of people in small and medium-sized towns and cities worship the civil servants infinitely, within the system, the marriage of our girls has become the capital for parents to show off and compare.
Since I was a child, I was more rebellious and had my own ideas, unwilling to submit to the life arranged by others, my parents hoped that I would enter the hospital after studying medicine, I did not follow the choice of the administrative profession I liked, and after graduation I broke into the developed cities in the south to become a civilian, although the salary was not high, but every day was very fulfilling, I could also meet a variety of friends, my husband met in a party, he was personable and eloquent, and I was five years younger than him and showed a look of worship, and launched a pursuit offensive.
When I told my parents who were 3,000 kilometers away, I thought they would be happy for me to find happiness, but they said coldly: "So poor must break up, don't come back, we break off the relationship." The reason why they say such harsh words is because my sister was educated to be "successful", studied in a health school under their arrangement, is interning in a hospital, and is preparing to find a civil servant family to marry, and then help her find a good hospital through their resources. The future brother-in-law's candidate has been finalized, and he is a person who is zhang luo by his parents, and since the parents of the two families have decided, the marriage has also been decided.
My sister and I had a wedding in the same year, and her wedding was very grand, my parents took out a heavy dowry, and I begged them not to take the high-speed train to witness my wedding, and there was not a penny for me, not even a bed of cotton wool. They also told the truth: pension depends on my sister, I myself is not worth investing! In this way, I was swept out of the house by my parents, who did not want to recognize me as a daughter, and I cried bitterly for days and nights.
My husband comforted me, and he was my family, would not abandon me, would work hard to be the support of me and my children. He is a very enterprising and hard-working person, a transformation in three years, a great leap forward in six years, and in the seventh year of his marriage, he was promoted to vice president of the company, with an annual salary of more than one million. In order to make up for the hardships with which I saved money and did low-end work with him, he asked me to resign and go home to enjoy my happiness. To reassure me, he handed in his pay card and notarized all the property in my name, and in the face of his sincerity, my resentment towards my parents was not as strong as before.
The pattern of men will eventually be bigger, and one day my husband said to me: "The child is five years old, we have not yet been to your house, or we will go back together during the Spring Festival this year!" ”
"Huh? But my parents don't like you? ”
My husband smiled and handed me a bank card, "This is for your parents, thank them for giving birth to a beautiful wife for me." "I checked the account and there was a total of 10W yuan. The next day I contacted my parents to transfer the money, and my mother saw that the number was her four-year pension, and the tone on the other end of the phone changed a lot, saying that I was welcome to come back.
After rushing back with her husband, my parents' attitude was extremely enthusiastic, and they introduced them to each person: "This is my little daughter, my little son-in-law, and my little grandson." Not long after I sat down, my mother told me with tears in her eyes that my sister had a bad life in her in-laws' house, was currently in a state of separation, and was likely to divorce. She has a bad problem--- squeamish, sloppy work always makes mistakes, and her in-laws are furious when she gives birth to two daughters, and if she divorces her in-laws, she will lose the job she is looking for. She is a dou who can't afford it, what can I do about the pension problem?
At this juncture, my mother was still worried about what to do in her old age, and she didn't care about her sister's happiness at all. The affection that had just sprung up in my heart was immediately swept away by her emotions. The husband stood up and said excitedly: "Mom, don't worry, I will go back to buy a suite, take you over, and the pension problem will be wrapped up in me!" ”
I stabbed him, and his big pig's hoof didn't care at all. At night, the mother did not follow the local rules for the first time------ married daughter could not sleep with her husband in the mother's house, she let the family of three sleep in the master bedroom. My husband said next to me, "Don't worry about what your parents think, after all, they are the ones who gave birth to us, and we should be grateful!" ”
Under the strong arrangement of my husband, we bought a small apartment. When my sister got divorced, my parents would bring my sister to live, and my husband had already asked around for a job that suited my sister. There is such a husband, and a group of relatives who will talk about family affection until they are in difficulty, and I have to admire my husband's open-mindedness.
Now my relationship with my husband is very good, and I feel that he is my return for my emotional loyalty. My parents taught me to be inflamed and use marriage to tie up the power of the town, but I did not obey, and now I have harvested their unexpected love and living conditions. I am most grateful to my husband, who influenced me to be a person and let me still have family affection after experiencing the bitter process of becoming rich from poverty to rich.
[Author: Shameful mud, focus on emotional inspiration, marriage interpretation, may my company bring you comfort