There is a famous saying on the Internet: "Halfway couples are not out of liking, but feel that there is a lack of someone around them, and most of the states are in the process." ”
It turns out that not everyone is willing to go to a state of divorce, after all, marriage is the most important thing in life for both men and women, which is about happiness.
But when it comes to happy marriages, not everyone has good luck, and some will only be more tragic.
The wife hates her husband for talking too little, and the husband hates it too much
Ms. Shen and Xiao Liu walk together, both parties are remarried, which is equivalent to a combined family, and Ms. Shen with her ex-husband's 10-year-old son, Xiao Liu with her ex-wife's 8-year-old daughter, the two in these years, not too good, the days can be lived.
However, In recent days, Ms. Shen suddenly wanted to leave with her daughter, and she wanted to divorce Xiao Shen, and Ms. Shen's reason was very simple:
Say anything to your husband, he will not reply to you for half a day, this day is not like a family, even strangers are not as good, think that this is a waste of time.
There are many places where wives are dissatisfied with their husbands
The husband's job is a cook, often come home very late, and the wife feels that the husband is not industrious enough, not enough to take care of the family, even if he goes home at night, the child does not take care of it, sometimes he takes a bath and sleeps, in the face of his wife's accusations, the husband said that he is also very wronged.
Xiao Liu feels that sometimes he does do a little thing wrong, and his wife likes to scold, originally he was very busy as a cook for a day.
The mood is good and bad, coupled with the wife scolding, his head has become bigger, so that the cooking dish can not burn the taste.
In the end, the hotel run by the husband and wife faced failure, which was also a knot between the husband and wife, but from this, it can be seen that the two did not think about how to run into each other, but they were just looking for excuses.
The wife complains that the husband is not considerate enough and does not know how to take care of the family, so this contradiction is not strange.
This is as Teacher Lejia said: "As long as one of the husband and wife starts to complain in the middle of the road, this marriage will be cold nine times out of ten." ”
In marriage, what do halfway couples do, will it be better?
Don't hate each other
If you are a combined family, you should recognize the reality, do not dislike each other, two people have a history of marriage before the marriage there are always some problems, at this time, if the two can confess to each other, the problem is better to explain the problem directly.
Even if you can't understand each other, don't hate each other, only in this way can we get along with a normal mindset, if you are already a halfway couple, then you must learn to be kind to each other, learn the lessons of the previous marriage, and work for a common goal.
Honest
As long as you treat each other with sincerity, even if you are a halfway couple, your marriage will be smooth and good, as long as you respect each other more, consider each other's feelings, don't cheat on each other, your marriage will not go to divorce again, which can refer to the frankness you should have when you are in love, and treat each other as your new love object, you can do better.
The remarried partner must have the ability to love the child
The problem of children is the most difficult contradiction between halfway couples, and it is also a thorn that many halfway couples have been stuck in the throat, and it is difficult to remove smoothly.
Being a good stepfather is a very difficult job, if strict, I am afraid it will be regarded as disliked, anyway, it is easy to be called irresponsible, it is really difficult to consider the appropriate management methods.
If both parties are with their own children, then in selfish situations, they only consider their own feelings,
Only concerned about protecting the shortcomings of your own children, wronging each other's children, indirectly hurting each other's hearts, just like this, how do you look forward to a happy ending in your old age?
Therefore, if a halfway couple wants to be happy, they must have the ability to love.
Emotional Message:
Halfway couples must need trust, this is the balance of love lever, only to achieve mutual trust, to treat each other with sincerity, in order to better maintain the marriage, otherwise there is no trust, then how can there be love?
Just like between Ms. Shen and Xiao Liu, it is the best case, one is complaining, one feels that it is better, so it loses communication, this feeling will have problems sooner or later, if it is not made up in time, divorce is also sooner or later.
Love is not a simple two love words can impress each other, sometimes really open your heart and communicate with each other, as long as in life, reduce the frequency of interaction, the emotional line will definitely go downhill, do you believe?