Gonzal said: Mother's love never runs out.
Maternal love is the most selfless love in the world.
Fang Yinuo in the TV series "Dear Child" is such a selfless mother. At the same time, she is just an ordinary woman with her own small selfishness.
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Fang Yinuo (played by Ren Suxi) finally had a smile on his face, because someone was willing to donate bone marrow to his daughter, and Hehe was saved.
To this end, Fang Yinuo also went to the supermarket to buy the in-laws' favorite meals and made a delicious meal to treat the family.
Unexpectedly, happiness is so short-lived. The doctor said the donor repented and did not donate.
After learning this news, Fang Yinuo still did not give up and found the bone marrow bank. Later, she also followed director Wen of the bone marrow bank, and when she arrived at the family's house, she directly knelt down.
Director Wen couldn't look at it either and told the real reason. It turned out that the donor was a 34-year-old expectant mother who was trying to get pregnant, and she temporarily repented. Because if after donating bone marrow, she has to wait until 3 years to get pregnant, she can't afford to wait.
Fang Yinuo was still reasonable, and she could understand it.
At this point, it is over. No one can underestimate the sincerity of parents who love their daughters, Xiao Lu (played by Qin Hao), Xie Tianhua (played by Nie Yuan) is not dead hearted, still a road to the black, let Director Wen say the donor's personal information.
Fang Yinuo, the people's teacher, was able to track Director Wen's wife and children, which was really incomprehensible. After all, donors do have the right to repent.
At this point, Fang Yinuo was a little selfish. Although maternal love is great, it cannot be a reason for moral kidnapping. Even if you can do anything for the sake of your children, you still have to have a bottom line, don't you?
Give birth to a second child
In order to save his daughter Hehe, Fang Yinuo really can do anything.
The doctor said that he could have another child to save hehe.
Fang Yinuo immediately decided to have a second child with her ex-husband Xiao Lu. After all, this is the fastest way to save my daughter at present.
However, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu were already married. If you want to have a second child, you will inevitably destroy the marriage relationship between the two families. Isn't it necessary to seriously consider the feasibility of things?
Fang Yinuo quickly decided to divorce Xie Tianhua. Xie Tianhua has been silently drinking beer and has been holding back. No one knew that he was the saddest at the moment, and after marriage, he also left the marriage room to Fang Yinuo, and regarded Hehe as his own. Especially the scene of shaving the head is really touching.
Xie Tianhua was the one who knew Fang Yinuo best, and he knew that once Fang Yinuo made a decision, he would not change.
Having a second child, how will Xiao Lu's current wife Dong Fan (played by Xie Keyin) react?
Dong Fan, who has always been gentle, stoic and considerate, finally collapsed and smashed xiao lu with a pillow.
Dong Fan is actually very angry and sensible. In order to treat her husband's daughter, she even withdrew the marriage room, and she did not complain. The first time she went to the hospital to see Hehe, she was still thrown in the face by Xiao Lu, and she was still not angry.
What makes Dong Fan most sad is that she was accused by her colleagues of being Xiao San in the company, and Xiao Lu did not comfort her. The smile on Dong Fan's face was getting less and less. She was not happy in this marriage.
Dong Fan was once an angel, she was a small sun, enough to warm Xiao Lu.
But he didn't think that Dong Fan was about to be pulled into the black hole by Xiao Lu.
The biggest winner
The question is, if you are Fang Yinuo, will you choose to lie flat?
I believe that 99% of mothers will choose to save their children.
Returning to the play, assuming that Fang Yinuo successfully conceived a second child, will Hehe be able to save Hehe?
The probability of hematopoietic stem cell matching between relatives is high, but the probability of full matching is only 25%, does it mean that the success of matching is not 100%?
Even if Fang Yinuo successfully becomes pregnant, isn't it 10 months at the earliest when she is born?
Can Hehe wait so long?
These are all questions to consider, rather than breaking up two families on impulse and choosing to have a second child, aren't they?
Regarding the issue of having a second child, is it not necessary to rationally analyze it comprehensively?
Take a closer look, the biggest winner in this matter is Fang Yinuo.
There is no unprovoked hatred
First of all, the worst result, assuming that he cannot be saved, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu have another child, she will not be so sad, and she has tried her best, and she is also worthy of her daughter Hehe.
Look in a better direction. Fang Yinuo successfully conceived the second child, and Hehe was also successfully rescued. Then Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu not only broke the mirror and reunited, but also had two cute children.
In this case, they will certainly not divorce, after two marriages, they will better understand and understand each other's difficulties, and they will maintain a good marriage.
Therefore, Fang Yinuo is a win-win situation, and she wants far more than just to save her daughter. Her heart still loves Xiao Lu, although she does not say it, her heart is eager to reunite with Xiao Lu.
Clear-eyed people can see that she and Xie Tianhua are more touched and have no love. She was not happy in this marriage.
In the first marriage she had all kinds of decency and self-esteem, and in the second marriage, she was all kinds of compromises.
You're only unscrupulous in front of someone you love, aren't you?
If you loved Xie Tianhua back then, why did you choose Xiao Lu?
It turns out that Fang Yinuo absolutely still loves Xiao Lu. It's just that even she herself doesn't want to admit it.
This can be seen from her late-night conversation with her girlfriend at the beach. Fang Yinuo still loved Xiao Lu deeply, just as the so-called love is deep, how deep the hatred is.
Xiao Lu reappeared in her life, and she claimed to have begun to panic and be afraid.
If it has been put down as the mouth says, why panic?
The only explanation was that she had never really let go of Xiao Lu in her heart. All the indifference is because I can't put it down, it's all because of love.
She is also in love with Xiao Lu. The reason why Xiao Lu was not allowed to look at the children after the divorce was more of a kind of anger.
The two of them had too much tacit understanding. For example, after meeting Director Wen, the two people squatted in the doorway in the same posture, as if Xie Tianhua, the current husband, was the third party.
3 people love, there is always one person will be disappointed.
Fang Yinuo's selfishness is unquestionable. From her one sentence: I don't care if he is divorced or not. Fang Yinuo's three views were not correct, and he did not care about Dong Fan's feelings at all. Dong Fan and Hehe have nothing to do with each other, is she going to ask Dong Fan's consent?
Is it true that in order to save Hehe, the people around them must accompany the pain and discomfort? Taking advantage of Dong Fan's kindness, Fang Yinuo's point is too speechless.
The most angelic in the whole drama are Xie Tianhua and Dong Fan.
A wife who does not dislike himself has a daughter, and a husband who does not mind that he has a daughter. In real life, Dong Fan may have it, but there are almost no men like Xie Tianhua.
Love and marriage are exclusive, how can Dong Fan and Xie Tianhua be so generous and selfless? The two of them are so beautiful that people wonder if they live on the same plane as them.
Therefore, the decision to have a second child is not only to save the daughter. For Fang Yinuo, she is definitely the final big winner. Even if she can't save her daughter, she has won the marriage and family she wants. Only with Xiao Lu can she be happy.
People are selfish, which may be the real reason why she is so unscrupulous and determined to have a second child.
Many people say that Fang Yinuo, played by Ren Suxi, is very selfish and unpleasant.
Qin Hao said: Actors are not here to please, actors are truthful to confuse and struggle, to love and collide. He never protects himself and his characters, only digs deeper, because everyone has moments where light and darkness coexist.
Drama should reflect and sublimate life, so that the audience can look back and examine their own lives and not repeat the same mistakes.
Love is still the most filling salvation in a thousand holes.