When an honest man meets a woman he loves, he will find a way to have the other person, but he will not do anything out of the ordinary without the consent of the woman. In order not to miss each other, the best thing for him is to meet the other person's parents.
As long as the other parent agrees, then he will not be so worried. In fact, he is just to get a result, if the other parent does not agree, or the woman does not have the intention of this, then he does not have to waste time on you.
Honest man does not have so much flowers, he will not be like those bad men, even if your parents or you do not agree, he will find ways to get you, cook raw rice to maturity, and when the time comes, it is not him who is anxious.
So if you meet a man who can take the initiative to propose to you to see your parents, eighty percent of them are more reliable. At this time, if you still have concerns, you can first observe for a period of time, and don't rush to refuse or agree, so as not to miss or regret.
Why have I eaten several times, but I have not held my hand, but the other party has proposed to see my parents? The main reasons are the following three points.
1. Hurry to get married
It should be known that the mainland has always been in a state of more men and fewer women, and the phenomenon of son preference in the past was more serious, resulting in at least 10-20 of the 100 men now being unable to marry a wife. Now it is hard to meet a person I like, and I have eaten together several times, and the woman has not shown resistance in this process, so she must seize this opportunity.
Coupled with their own age is not small, children of the same age can play soy sauce, plus their parents are also more urgent, after consideration in all aspects, it is natural to seize this opportunity in front of them. If you don't take the initiative again, you will miss this girl, and regret will be useless. Therefore, in order to seize the opportunity, it is natural to propose the idea of meeting parents.
2. Test what you mean
When a man has a lover and a woman's intention, they will naturally talk about a relationship with the purpose of marriage. If only one of the parties has this idea and the other party does not, then this love cannot be negotiated. Even if it is talked about, the person who is ultimately hurt is still the one who gives feelings. Now the two sides have known each other for a short time, and after only a few meals, the boy has offered to meet his parents, which shows that he attaches great importance to this relationship.
Since he values the relationship, he will naturally care about your opinion, then he will test you. If you agree with him to meet your parents, then it also means that you approve of him, if you do not agree or are very rejected, presumably he also knows what you mean, and he will definitely retreat at this time. An honest boy will certainly not pestering you after being rejected.
3, afraid of others to grab
In this society with many wolves and few meats, it is very difficult to marry a wife. Only those who are rich and handsome do not have to worry about this problem, because they have money, and many women will take the initiative to approach them. And ordinary men like us, who have no money and average looks, it is relatively difficult to marry a wife. Therefore, once there is a strong marriage, it must be grasped well.
If you are not careful at this time, it is likely that you will be preempted by others. Just as the so-called opportunity is rare, know how to fight and it is possible to get rid of singleness, if you do not know how to fight, or even think that you are very good, then there will be no tears when you cry, you can only watch others get married, and you continue to live a "beautiful" life of bare sticks.
In the face of such a request, how to deal with it as a girl?
When a girl encounters this situation, if she does not know each other very well, even if she has a good feeling for him, she must not rush to agree at this time. You can observe it for a while, or test it with some methods. Or you can spend some time together, but you can't take the last step until you have a comprehensive understanding of him, and then decide whether you can go to see your parents according to your inner thoughts.
But you can't directly refuse, because the men on a blind date are relatively wooden, and if you reject him directly, it is very likely that he will feel that you are not satisfied with him, so he will give up directly. If you have a crush on him, you will miss this person. At this time you can give that vague answer, which neither promised him nor rejected him.
Write at the end
Usually, if a man and a girl have eaten a few meals and then propose to see their parents, then he must be in a hurry to get married. The main reason is nothing more than old age, urged by parents, and married by peers. Under various pressures, you will naturally be anxious.