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Many men always rely on the love of their parents, their parents are eccentric, they constantly bully their brothers and sisters, like this person generally will not be liked, will only be hated.
Today for everyone to talk about, a self-righteous little uncle, said to the sister-in-law: "Sister-in-law, I am going to get married next week, give me your dowry room, this is what my mother said." The little uncle did not expect that the words were just finished, and he was directly scolded by his own brother: "Roll, you are not worthy."
Let's take a look at this story.
Ms. Zhang / 32 years old
I am 32 years old, my surname is Zhang, now I and my husband have been married for two years, before I married my husband, I thought I would not be happy, because my husband has a younger brother in the family, and before marriage to buy a house often subsidize his family, so at that time I was thinking, if I really married, will not be wronged, my husband will not be a phoenix man or a mother treasure man.
When I think about these questions, I also think about breaking up, but I just can't help it, after all, we have been in a relationship for several years, and we met in college, if we are like breaking up I really can't do it.
Then I chose to give it a try and see if I could be happy after marrying him.
Who knew that after getting married, I understood that the original husband really loved me, he had me in his mind, and he loved me and cared about me every day, not only did not subsidize his family, but also took the initiative to hand over the salary card to me, so my husband is a very responsible and clear man.
So with him, I have a very happy life, but the only thing that makes me feel unhappy is that I don't have a good in-laws, my in-laws don't like me very much, especially my little brother-in-law and my mother-in-law, they always yell at me, or they just order me to do this and that, and usually when I buy something and come back, they will take it.
There are also little uncles who often morally kidnap me and let me give money, and every time they bully me, they dare to bully me when my husband is not at home, because once they bullied me in front of my husband, and they were scolded by my husband, so they also knew that my husband loved me, so they could only take advantage of my husband's absence to secretly bully me, so that no one would help me, and when they bullied, they were more comfortable, and they also warned me, let me not tell my husband, otherwise I would have a worse life in the future.
For the sake of family harmony, whenever I was bullied by them, I did not tell my husband, because I did not want to embarrass my husband, nor did I want my husband to quarrel with their family, so I could only silently endure grievances.
But just because I have not bothered with them, they have become more and more excessive, once when I was pregnant, the little uncle actually in order not to let me give birth smoothly, he deliberately tripped me, let me accidentally miscarry, hurt me, after not having a child, he also told my husband that I accidentally fell down and lost the child.
At that time, I wanted to tell my husband the truth, but I was afraid that after telling the matter, their brothers would become enemies, if this is really the case, then the family will definitely make a lot of noise, so in the end I can only condone the little uncle to make things up.
Later, after my body recovered, I really couldn't stand it, I proposed to my husband to move to the dowry room, because I felt that living here was too humiliating, sooner or later I would be killed by a few of them, so I decided to move away better, and before I got married, my parents had already married a suite for me, the suite was always empty and not good, it was better to move out and stay away from them, so that I could avoid some grievances.
At that time, my husband saw that I suddenly proposed to move out, and kept asking me if something had happened, originally I did not want to tell my husband, I was wronged in this family, but he kept asking, and finally I was also good to say how I was bullied in this family?
My husband was not well after hearing this, because he always thought that I got along well with his family, because every time he came back, his family was very good to me and pretended to be very harmonious, so he thought that his family was not as excessive as before, and accepted me.
But who knows, when he is not there, he often secretly bullied me, and he immediately agreed to move out to live in order not to let me endure grievances anymore.
In this way, we both moved to the dowry room, after moving to the dowry room, the days were finally not so noisy, and no one bullied me anymore, originally I thought that this kind of clean day could be maintained forever, and the in-laws would not bother me again.
Unexpectedly, in order to be able to get herself married, the little uncle directly complained to her mother-in-law, let the mother-in-law buy a house for her, the mother-in-law did not think about it when she heard it, and said directly to the little uncle: "I have no money to buy, if you want to have a house to get married, you go to let your sister-in-law give the dowry room to you, you tell her that I asked for it, she did not dare not listen, and you have to get married as soon as possible, because you will get married next week, if you do not hurry to get the house, then you will not have a house to marry, and your wife will not marry you. So in order to be able to get married smoothly, you had better immediately run to her house and ask her to give you the house, she is so good that she absolutely does not dare to speak, nor does she dare to do anything to you. ”
After the little uncle heard his mother-in-law say this, he felt that it was very reasonable, and then he came to me and said to me with a straight face: "Sister-in-law, I am going to get married next week, you hurry to give me the house, this is my mother's request, so I hope you don't know how to be so ignorant, if you dare not give the house to me, when the time comes, my mother will come to make trouble, you don't regret it." ”
Hearing the little uncle say this, I decided not to put up with it anymore, and I didn't want to be that kind woman anymore, because I felt that the kinder people were, the more they were bullied, so I decided to refute it better and save myself from being wronged all the time.
As a result, just when I was about to refute it, my husband directly kicked the little uncle's stomach, kicked the little uncle down, and then picked up the small bench on the ground and smashed it against the little uncle, when the novel was in pain, he screamed, and the husband saw that the little uncle was in pain like this, and he was not distressed, but directly scolded: "Roll!" You don't deserve it, you bullied my wife for so long is not enough? Now that you still want to take over his house, who gave you the courage? Even if your mother agrees, I will not agree, because none of you are qualified, and from now on, who dares to be disrespectful to my wife? It is against me, and I will not let go of anyone who bullies my wife, even if it is my mother, I will not let go, because I know that it is my wife who has lived with me all my life, but you, so you cannot bully her. ”
After listening to my husband's words, I was moved to tears, although I knew that he had always loved me, but I never thought that he would talk to his family for me, so he really loved me in his heart, and I did not regret being with him.
Conclusion
Although there is no perfect thing in the world, when marrying someone, you must first find a husband who loves you, so that you can avoid being wronged in the future, so I hope that everyone will understand this, so that they will not be miserable.