Mention the word father, in the child's heart, the first thing that comes to mind must be a sense of security, the top pillar of the family, and the strongest backing of his own, but in the eyes of Liu Ling's (pseudonym) son, the father is the negative person who often does not go home and always makes the mother sad and cry, because it has not seen the father for a long time, and he cannot say what the father should be.
The thing is this, Liu Ling's son, the class held a grateful parents activity, is to let the children take turns on the stage to talk about the love of their parents for themselves, what things have been done to make themselves remember, the original intention is to let the children experience the love and dedication of parents to their children, learn to be grateful to their parents, the result is Liu Ling's son on the stage, no matter how the teacher and classmates guide, he is not a word, after class the teacher feels that this child may have a problem with the parents, he called Liu Ling and told Liu Ling about the child's problems, Liu Ling came to the school, listened to the beginning and end of the matter and asked the child, "Everyone said, why don't you say it, because of this matter, do you still call me?" How did your father and I treat you so hard to say? But Liu Ling's son blurted out, "What did you do to me, you tell me every day that my father went with that fox, don't let us be so cruel, I don't have a father!" The child ran away after he finished speaking, and Liu Ling was also stunned.
In Liu Ling's opinion, she and his father worked hard to raise him so big, eat and wear the best, other people's children have what he has, let him say something about their good is it so difficult? But I didn't expect to hear such a word from the child's mouth, Liu Lingling reacted for a while, it turned out that unconsciously she and the child's father had already caused such a big impact on the child, and they never cared, if it wasn't for this teacher calling her over, maybe she still couldn't find out.
It turned out that in the past two years, Liu Ling's husband had a good relationship outside, Liu Ling had cried, made trouble, and even went to find the woman when she just knew, but still failed to separate them, Immersed in this situation, Liu Ling, could not help but complain to her son again and again, complaining about the child's father's indifference, ruthlessness, irresponsibility, and this kind of words, passed to the son means that his father is not suitable for a qualified good father with a sense of responsibility, and all his negative emotions are passed on to the son unconsciously by her, so in the heart of the son, She is a mother like a resentful woman, her husband is naturally a cold and ruthless father without a sense of responsibility, Liu Ling, who wants to understand this, broke out in a cold sweat, and she almost ruined her son because of her confusion.
Back home, Liu Ling did not complain about her husband as usual, but made her son's favorite dish like a friend and talked to her son once, saying that it was because of her negligence, blindly accusing her husband of being wrong, in fact, there were her mistakes, and told her son about the benefits of her husband, which showed that although the husband had a problem with her feelings, he still loved him, promised not to pass these negative emotions to him again, and the son let go of the happy knot and talked to her in his heart, he said, Mom, I know you are sad, I also know that dad is wrong Don't be sad, don't look for him anymore, I'll be without a father, and when I grow up, I'll be filial to you. Liu Ling listened to her son's words and cried and didn't know what else to say, it turned out that the child understood everything!
Once there is an extramarital affair in marriage, the most directly hurt are children, and most of the children whose parents divorce are inferior, withdrawn, or extreme. And those families who want to divorce, may wish to think that if there is no love, it is impossible to form a family in the first place, since there is love, what makes you forget the original intention and renege on the original vows! There is also responsibility and affection in marriage, do not ruin the child's childhood because of the impulsiveness of adults, so that they cannot experience the correct meaning of parents.