Excerpted from Xi Meng's article "Patience makes your loved ones suffer, is the greatest blessing you can give them!" "Your happiness, your happiness, your peace, your joy, your sense of security, your sense of abundance, your satisfaction of love,

Excerpted from Xi Meng's article "Patience makes your loved ones suffer, is the greatest blessing you can give them!" 》

"Your happiness, your joy, your peace, your joy, your sense of security, your sense of abundance, your satisfaction of love, all your desires for a good life that you desire to create, are all about you alone.

The source of many people's pain is the mistaken belief that there is someone who can make him (her) dependent and can bring him or her these things.

When you base your life on anyone else, you completely lose all the good you want.

When man's wisdom is opened, the world will no longer have any suffering.

All the pain you feel is just a feeling you feel, a sense of doubt and uncertainty about yourself, of life, of love that arises within you, and has nothing to do with the events that happened or with outsiders.

Because, that's the bitter feeling you have!

Life is nothing more than a journey of experience. Everyone has their own path to life.

Treat those you love with compassion and understanding, and even if you know that your loved one is suffering at this stage, you must allow and accept their soul to choose the path they want to take.

You can't interfere, and you can't stop the confrontation.

Because, this stems from a broader blueprint for life.

Your worries and worries will only cause more harm to the people you love.

All you can do is continue your journey, continue to shine, continue to live joyfully, continue to bring love into the world, continue to influence them little by little, be their role model.

Because you know very well in your heart that in order to receive greater love and blessings, no matter how much pain and suffering it is now, it is worth it!

Patience allows your loved ones to suffer and protects them with your light, which is your greatest blessing to them. ”

I think that any correct idea will always be presented in different articles, books, and videos, and will also give readers a sense of familiarity.

In the above text, I saw the concept expounded by Ms. Zhang Defen in "Meet the Unknown Self": "I am the root of everything", "Dear, there is no one else outside, only myself." ”

There are also ideas that have been unable to remember the source: "Life is a journey", "Love yourself, live yourself, and illuminate your children." "Excessive worry is a curse."

Yes, when I used to pin my happiness on my daughter, always expecting, always waiting, always relying on, I would unconsciously transmit a steady stream of pressure and anxiety to my daughter, making her overwhelmed and stressed.

But when I understood, "I am the root of everything", "the situation is made by the heart", "there is no one else outside, only myself", I felt that the helplessness of being powerless to control life disappeared, I became more powerful and confident, and it turned out that I could make myself happy. Then be happy, immediately, immediately, without delay for a minute.

It is God who changes oneself, and it is nerves that change others.

I was exhausted from trying to change my daughter. The changed daughter, furious. The relatives, who should have lived their own two separate beings and illuminated each other, became enemies caught up in hostility and hatred.

The year before, there was an earthquake in the neighboring area, and my daughter stayed up all night, saying that she would observe the earthquake and take her beloved cat and dog to escape in time. He also blatantly provoked that the victims of rescue did not include the mother.

Last year, after I began to learn about growth and change, especially the book "Meet the Unknown Self", which made me enlightened and enlightened, I felt that I had opened up a new world, and I had moved from a rough sheep's intestine path to a correct road.

Since then, I have stopped transforming my daughter, smiled, shut up, let go, lived myself well, continued to learn to grow and change, love my children unconditionally, illuminate my children, and lead my children.

Yesterday a friend called me and asked me, how was this time?

I said it was fun and happy every day.

Yes, life is to be born, to live, to live happily and happily every day. My goal for the rest of my life is to live every day healthy and happy. Make up for the joys of the first half of your life that were driven away by excessive pain, anxiety, and sorrow.

Thought-a-good, all things passed.

As the soul of a friend asked, "What did you come to Earth for?" Just to live so painfully every day? ”

Therefore, I am already on my own at the moment, and I can live a happy life. Why do you still have to force your children with a look of anxiety, recover quickly, go to school quickly, enter college, and find a good job? Not necessarily.

Living well, allowing and accepting my daughter can not be cured, can be slowly healed, can follow their own heart to choose the way of life they like, and can be brave to be themselves.

For parents who are worried that their children will have to suffer in life in the future, suffering is the inevitable end. Life is really hard, only self-transit. Do you think your child will not be bitter when he is admitted to a prestigious university?

Even if you suffer hardships, you must first have a healthy body and mind.

Physical and mental health is the best education and the most promising future.

As a child said to his mother, as long as he gets enough love from his parents, then he has enough strength to endure hardships, and he has the courage to move forward and not back down.

Therefore, the job of parents should be to love themselves, live well, love their children unconditionally, and illuminate their children!

Meet the unknown self