The moment Sun Haiyang hugged his son and cried, I cried too!
This is perhaps the warmest and longest reunion in the world!
14 years of separation, under the determination of the father not to abandon and not to give up, finally there is a result!
Although there is a result, is the result perfect?
This question will not be answered first, and the audience will continue to look down!
While we call for "severe punishment of human traffickers", let's first see what it is like for these two reunited fathers and sons to feel in their hearts!
First of all, look at this father Sun Haiyang, who has experienced vicissitudes and has been looking for children for half his life!
Now that I have finally found it, how can I not be happy?
Sun Haiyang held his son for a long time and did not dare to put it down, perhaps afraid that the moment he put it down, his son would disappear again!
This is the softest and happiest moment in a father's heart!
Let's look at my son again!
The son was lost from childhood, and when he returned, he became a teenager and resolutely surpassed his father!
Under the figure of Wei An, his father looked particularly small!
At the moment when their father and son met, the son seemed to be particularly uncomfortable, not with that sense of joy, but full of strangeness!
Don't blame this son for not understanding things here, and say some cool things next to him!
For example, "Fathers are crying to death with joy, how can it be like nothing else?" ”
We have to stand in the son's point of view and look at this problem!
From the beginning of his memory, the son grew up in the hands of his dearest "father" and was regarded as a pearl.
But suddenly one day, all the people in the world say that this "father" is not your "father", your "father" is another person!
And if you don't recognize the "father", you will get the blame of the whole society!
What would the son think at this point?
You can only shout "Daddy" to the "stranger"!
Is this cry of the son from the heart? I'm afraid not!
Because his heart is always his "adoptive father", not his "father"!
Looking at a stranger, but calling him "Daddy", what about the "Father" he grew up calling? Where should I put it?
Therefore, the son's heart is not only contradictory, but also more repulsive!
Will Sun Haiyang's son come home?
From the attitude of Sun Haiyang's son, we can see that he should not go home with his biological parents!
Because the "family affection" of more than ten years of getting along cannot be separated.
No matter what, "kissing grace" is not as good as "nurturing grace"!
Even this "nurturing grace" is not "bright"!
So from the perspective of the father and son, the ending is perfect and imperfect!
Perfectly, the son was finally found and the family was finally reunited!
What is imperfect is that the "father" becomes the "adoptive father" and the family is broken!
Therefore, it is not difficult to see that when many families find their separated children, the children will not follow them, but choose their adoptive father!
Because in the eyes of children, there is no good or evil, and they cannot feel the efforts of their biological parents, but only see the love of their adoptive fathers for him!
I don't want to break my "home"!
But is it wrong for the child to do this?
Of course not, it's the traffickers and buyers who are at fault!
Who is the most hateful of the traffickers and the buyers?
There's a saying that doesn't say, "Where didn't you buy it?" ”
So the ones who hate the most are not traffickers, but those who buy children!
Not only did he "steal" other people's children, but he also "stole" the hearts of children!
It makes people separate and painful!
Even if the child is found, is it still a "child" that was once there?
So while punishing traffickers, we must also punish those who buy children!
Please let the sale be the same sin, and give an account to all the families with separated children!
Do you think that buying and selling is the same crime? Feel free to leave a message in the comments section to discuss!