Sun Haiyang's high-profile recognition of relatives at the beginning, and his first acquaintance with this group in society - "family-looking family".
Most of the children in these groups have been stolen or snatched up, and they spend their entire lives searching for them.
Sun Haiyang's story is one of the prototypes of the movie "Dear", and Guo Gangtang is the prototype of the movie "Orphaned".
Sun Haiyang
Sun Haiyang was very lucky, his lost son Sun Zhuo was found, and he returned to Shenzhen with his biological parents, opening a long-overdue chapter of happiness.
Guo Gangtang was not as lucky as Sun Haiyang, his son was stolen at the age of 2 and found at the age of 26, but after being found, he did not live with his biological parents, but stayed in the adoptive family.
Many people will say, "Why didn't he go back to his biological parents?"
In fact, in the family looking for relatives, the real life of finding biological children is that most children will choose to return to their adoptive parents, because there are feelings, such as Xie Qingshuai, there are very few children like Sun Zhuo!
Therefore, compared with the return of Sun Zhuo and Xie Qingshuai, Guo Gangtang did not have Sun Haiyang, and Xie Kefeng was lucky, because his children did not live with him.
Guo Gangtang
At this moment, although Guo Gangtang hopes that his son can live with him, his son said: "It is true that the family raised him, and he wants to grow up where he grew up." ”
No matter how hopeful, as a father, he chose to respect his children, because children have their own thoughts, and he has not seen his children for more than 20 years, and there are many missing emotions that need to be repaired in the middle.
Guo Gangtang's child, Guo Zhen, is a teacher who now lives in Henan, occasionally taking advantage of holidays to reunite with his biological father, and his biological mother chats about family matters.
Occasionally, the two families will come and go.
At the same time, the traffickers Hu and Tang who abducted and trafficked Guo Zhen have also arrived at the case and started trial.
On December 27, the child trafficking case finally came to an end, and more than 60 million people were watching, one of the traffickers was given a suspended death sentence, and the other was sentenced to life imprisonment and deprived of political rights for life.
This result is much better than the trial result of Sun Zhuo's trafficker, Sun Haiyang's son, after all, Sun Zhuo has been abducted for more than ten years, and the trafficker has only been sentenced to more than five years in prison and is about to be released from prison, and this trafficker has a suspended death sentence and a life sentence, which will be relatively gratifying in comparison.
However, Guo Gangtang and many people who support families looking for relatives are not satisfied
What they would prefer to see is the death penalty imposed on traffickers, who are an important source of trafficking and the beginning of the suffering of countless families looking for their relatives.
Take the case of Guo Gangtang's son Guo Zhenzi as an example, Guo Gangtang rode a motorcycle and traveled around China, just to find his lost child, from youth to gray hair, with vicissitudes that do not belong at this age.
Look at Sun Haiyang again, when Sun Zhuo was lost, Sun Zhuo's mother kowtowed, hit the wall, and committed suicide several times. Sun Haiyang was questioned as crazy, sick, and secretly looking for his children like a thief, and almost lost his home.
These painful beginnings were brought about by human traffickers.
Therefore, when the results of Guo Zhen's case came out, Guo Gangtang's wife, who was an eyewitness, couldn't help crying anymore, shouting in her mouth, "Who knows the hardships of holding 24 years." ”
Even if someone was shooting opposite at that time, she no longer cared about her image and cried, while Guo Gangtang hugged his wife, and her gray hair was particularly dazzling.
In a previous interview, Guo Gangtang's father asked his son if he would attend, but his son refused on the grounds that he was afraid that he would not be able to accept the trial, the final exam, and the children had many classes.
Guo Gangtang said that he would continue to appeal, just waiting for the result.
Many people have made different remarks about this case:
Some people feel sorry for Guo Zhen's mother, because the child's person has returned, but the heart has not returned, and he has not lived with his biological parents.
Some people blame Guo Zhen
There are also calls for the death penalty without commutation, and for buying and selling for the same crime.
In short, everyone has their own opinion.
In fact, in this case, a trafficker was sentenced to death, and it was the first time I heard that Sun Haiyang's search for relatives was so big that he was only sentenced to five years in prison in the end.
In a sense, it's already a step forward.
From the perspective of Guo Gangtang's many parents looking for relatives, it is natural to hope that their children will return, but from the perspective of the children who are being found, it is equivalent to a second separation.
is like Sun Haiyang said, "Twelve years ago, he was taken away by a stranger and scolded by the stranger's father." Twelve years later, I called a stranger's parents. ”
For children, it is actually a pain.
Therefore, no matter which choice it is, respect is enough, and I believe that Guo Zhen will also understand the good intentions of his biological parents after becoming a parent.
Finally, may the world be free of crutches!