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Although he has gone through more than 60 years of ups and downs and entered the last twilight of his life, whenever he recalls his deep attachment and persistent pursuit of Liu Xiaoqing when he was young, Chen Guojun's heart will surge with magnificent emotional entanglements.
The beautiful woman who once tugged at his soul and occupied all his thoughts still haunts him and leaves a deep imprint on his heart.
Liu Xiaoqing, who was in her prime at that time, her temperament was extraordinary, and her appearance was overwhelming, and she could make Chen Guojun fall in love with just one look.
Her light and charming posture, as gentle and moving as the flowing water of the years, actually made this tough and strong man fall into it and couldn't extricate himself.
Looking back on the past, Chen Guojun himself couldn't accurately answer what it was about Liu Xiaoqing that attracted him and made him willing to pay such a huge price.
Was it her star-bright eyes, or her ethereal figure, or her eloquent charm? All in all, everything about her seemed to have some kind of magical power, which instantly made Chen Guojun fall into a frenzy, and he could only chase endlessly.
However, even he himself knew that that fiery feelings were a thing of the past. Today's Chen Guojun has long forgotten those passionate and painful years.
Instead, it is an incomparable appreciation for the current plain but warm and happy life.
Indeed, those grievances and hatreds of the past have become unattainable, and now in retrospect, they are like a dreamlike story, quietly gone. Now he has faded from the sharp edge of his youth, and has become more mature and stable, and has a little more wisdom.
He understands that life is short, and he should cherish every moment in front of him and stop worrying about the attachments of the past.
After all, whether it is Liu Xiaoqing or that heartbreaking love, it is just a colorful episode on the road of his long life.
Looking back now, in addition to being full of emotion, there is nothing worth his persistent pursuit anymore Yes, everything that used to be has gone through vicissitudes, and only by permanently sealing them in a corner of his heart and living the current life is what Chen Guojun should really pursue.
1982 was a year of major changes in Chen Guojun's life. At that time, he received a well-written screenplay "Deep in the Heart", and fate opened a new chapter for him at this moment.
In the process of filming this movie, a faint fragrance came to his nose, and he unexpectedly met Liu Xiaoqing, who was graceful and charming.
The moment he met Liu Xiaoqing for the first time, Chen Guojun seemed to be drawn by some kind of force, and his eyes could no longer leave this beautiful woman.
She is wearing a simple and elegant long dress, and her elegant silhouette is bathed in the afternoon sun, like a fairy in the picture scroll exuding a charming halo, the whole picture is picturesque and unforgettable, although she was not as charming and charming as the photo presents, but that otherworldly, beautiful and elegant posture deeply touched Chen Guojun's heart.
Since then, he has been obsessed with this beautiful woman with both talents and appearances. Whether it is in front of the camera on the set or in the communication in his free time, Chen Guojun always can't help but pay attention to Liu Xiaoqing's side face and feel the fragrance of her words.
And Liu Xiaoqing's subtle and shy, girlish temperament like waiting to be released made Chen Guojun's heart emerge with an incomparably strong sense of pity and care.
The speed of things was like lightning and thunder, and in an instant, Chen Guojun did not hesitate to abandon his old marriage partner Zhao Yamin and his young son Chen He in order to be able to spend the rest of his life with Liu Xiaoqing.
In the face of his wife's pleas, he unswervingly chose divorce and threw himself into this hot and wild love without hesitation.
As a result, a film and television practitioner who was originally humble and low-key, for a relationship that may not be destined to be fulfilled, personally destroyed the once stable and happy family life.
He no longer has time to take care of the admonitions of relatives and friends, let alone the pain and helplessness of his wife and children, and his only belief is to spend every stage of his life with Liu Xiaoqing hand in hand until eternity.
The decision to divorce allowed Chen Guojun to completely break free from the shackles of the past, and he and Liu Xiaoqing began a sweet time of mutual support and mutual affection.
However, just as the blooming of flowers in spring also means the arrival of falling leaves in autumn, the road to love is also full of ups and downs.
In order to prepare for his first film "Ruthless Lover", Chen Guojun had to separate from Liu Xiaoqing in a short period of time and run around for financial support.
The two of them could only buy a sleeper ticket to save money, hugged each other tightly during the long and bumpy journey, and barely slept on the floor in a narrow space, while Liu Xiaoqing toured from city to city day and night, and at one point even participated in as many as nine performances in a row.
Whenever he sees Liu Xiaoqing, who is tired and his lips are as dry as a desert, Chen Guojun always feels a strong sense of guilt, and he thinks that it is precisely because he insists on himself and has never let go of his feelings that she has endured so much pressure and suffering in this relationship.
However, Liu Xiaoqing never showed any dissatisfaction or complaints to him, on the contrary, she always silently supported him with firm conviction and became the most solid pillar in his life journey.
After going through hardships, Chen Guojun finally ushered in the successful completion and official release of the film "Ruthless Lover", and he thought that he could live a plain and quiet life with his beloved from now on.
However, the tricks of fate are better than before, and the twists and turns that follow are like surging rivers A divorce certificate is like a sharp blade, severing the deep friendship between him and Liu Xiaoqing, Chen Guojun looked at the woman who had made him deeply obsessed in disbelief, easily betrayed their oath in front of his eyes, and spent the rest of his life hand in hand with director Jiang Wen.
The blood that was once full of blood seemed to be frozen at this moment, turning into a blunt knife in his heart that tore apart his heart. In the face of such a heavy blow, Chen Guojun's emotions were completely out of control, and he even proposed to go to the end of his life with Liu Xiaoqing.
Faced with this lover on the verge of collapse, Liu Xiaoqing was terrified, she was worried that Chen Guojun would do something irreparable, so she could only try her best to appease him first, and then quickly fled the scene.
In this way, endless pain came like a tidal wave, making Chen Guojun almost on the verge of madness. If Liu Xiaoqing hadn't changed his mind at a critical moment and patiently persuaded him to return to the right path, I am afraid that this tragedy would have ended in an unacceptable way.
In the end, after a painful inner struggle, the once-loving couple decided to go their separate ways and spend 27 years resolving the resentment in each other's hearts.
The breakdown of that marriage almost made Chen Guojun despair of love, but fate inadvertently opened a new chapter for him. In 1993, when he stepped into the door of Beijing Film Academy again with a sense of loss, a beautiful girl 16 years younger than him broke into his sight.
This girl named Fu Liyun is beautiful and elegant, and she is a young and promising actor. At first, Chen Guojun only regarded her as an ordinary student, but as time passed, Fu Liyun's unique charm gradually emerged, and people couldn't help but fall in love with her.
Her eyes, which are always slightly lowered, seem to hide an otherworldly charm, and people can't help but want to go deeper into them and find out.
It's so wonderful! The two burst into a romantic spark during the filming of a drama. Despite the huge age gap, who can resist the sincere outpouring of feelings? Chen Guojun was deeply attracted by Fu Liyun's elegant and serene charm, and Fu Liyun also deeply admired this experienced elder.
At this point, on a hot summer afternoon, Chen Guojun, who is more than half a hundred years old, entered the palace of marriage for the third time. This time, he is no longer as enthusiastic as he was in his youth, but faces life with a more calm and calm attitude.
When Fu Liyun wore a white and flawless wedding dress and walked slowly to the red carpet, Chen Guojun's eyes couldn't help but burst into tears. After going through the vicissitudes of life, he finally found the home of his soul.
Newlyweds are as sweet as honey, and Chen Guojun often forgets his actual age. Every day, he would quietly gaze at his wife's face, savoring the happiness that filled her face.
While Chen Guojun was engrossed in the creation of new works, Fu Liyun silently managed the trivial affairs of the family and became his most solid support.
One day in the third year of marriage, an ecstatic news came to their ears - they were about to usher in a new life! The arrival of a new life undoubtedly added more color to this warm little family.
Chen Guojun was so excited that he kissed and caressed his wife's belly affectionately, as if to pass on all the joy and expectation to the children he had not yet met.
At the same time, the relationship between him and his eldest son, Chen He, is gradually being repaired. Since Zhao Yamin left, Chen He has been taken care of by the relatives of both parents, and he is quite indifferent to Chen Guojun's feelings for his biological father.
However, as the years passed, Chen He gradually understood his father's hard work. Realizing his past negligence, Chen Guojun was determined to go all out to make up for his shortcomings in Chen He's growth process.
As expected, as the father and son spent more time together, the family relationship between them became stronger. Chen He unreservedly pinned his expectations for his future career on his father, and Chen Guojun also found the most outstanding mentor for him, patiently leading him steadily on the road of directing.
Today's Chen He has grown into a new star in the film industry that Chen Guojun has cultivated with all his might, and the deep friendship and tacit understanding between them can be called a good story in the film industry, and they have won the reputation of "father and son soldiers" in the industry.
Looking back on the past years, Chen Guojun deeply realized that it was precisely because of the unparalleled desire for Liu Xiaoqing in his youth that he would devote himself to his acting career without hesitation, and at that time, he had the grand dream of becoming an outstanding actor, but he suffered repeated setbacks in the journey of the film and television industry, and it was not until he played an inconspicuous small role in the movie "Medicine" that he gradually emerged.
In that era full of passion and challenges, Chen Guojun finally decided to give up his career as an actor and devote himself to the field of directing, digging into his inner artistic inspiration.
His deep affection for Liu Xiaoqing even made him hesitate to bear moral condemnation and abandon his wife and children just to spend the rest of his life with her, however, when their love was as hot as a flame, Liu Xiaoqing betrayed him, which made Chen Guojun fall into deep despair.
At the low point of his life, Chen Guojun firmly believed and decided to regroup. He went to Beijing Film Academy for further study, hoping to realize his self-worth on the road of directing.
In the long journey, he went through a lot of hardships, in order to shoot his first movie "Ruthless Lover", he and Liu Xiaoqing ran around to raise funds, and even the two of them could only buy a sleeper ticket to barely survive.
However, it is this incomparable dedication to his dream that allowed Chen Guojun to finally achieve a brilliant career as a director. Whether it is the TV series "The Woman Who Waded the Man's River", or the film "China Criminal Investigation No. 1 Case", "On the Songhua River", etc., the works directed by him have been well received and won the love of countless audiences and the recognition of the industry.
His name has long become a banner in the Chinese directorial industry.
Someone once said that life is like a dim lamp, emitting a faint light in a dark corner. However, Chen Guojun lit a raging flame in this dim lamp, which was hot and dazzling.
Now, he has entered the age of sixtieth, but the dedication to his dream is still as warm as ever, and what is even more gratifying is that his eldest son Chen He is also moving forward steadily on this road, inheriting his father's ideals and becoming the most satisfactory successor in his career.
Time flies, once upon a time, Chen Guojun, who was full of passion and obsession with love and dared to give everything, has now entered the last twilight of his life.
The disturbances and ups and downs of the past have gradually evolved into a picture of life as plain as water under the baptism of time.
Recalling those days that have long gone, Chen Guojun has learned to face the love, hatred, and hatred of the past. In his heart, the warm emotional entanglement with Liu Xiaoqing is just a small episode in the long journey of life, and there is no need to miss it too much, nor do you need to hate it deeply.
After all, life is too short to dwell on a past that has already faded. Today's Chen Guojun pays more attention to grasping every moment in front of him and enjoying the beautiful life of the moment with his heart, which is what he cherishes the most.
Admittedly, that unforgettable experience did consume a lot of his energy, and it almost fell into a trough in his youth. However, it is precisely because of this that he has strengthened his belief in moving forward bravely on the road of directing.
Now it seems that this setback has undoubtedly become an important turning point in Chen Guojun's life.
Looking back, Chen Guojun did not have any complaints. Because it was those arduous years that laid a solid foundation for his brilliant career in the future.
Whether it is the TV series "The Woman Who Waded the Man's River", or the movie "China Criminal Investigation Case No. 1", "On the Songhua River" and other excellent works, they are all from his careful creation.
These classics have won high praise from industry insiders and audiences, making Chen Guojun's name a shining business card of the Chinese directorial industry.
Today's Chen Guojun has lost the sharpness of his youth and has become a little more mature and steady. He is no longer obsessed with the grievances with Liu Xiaoqing, and he is even more unwilling to be labeled as "Liu Xiaoqing's ex-husband" by the outside world.
Because in his mind, the past is just an episode in the life of others, not the whole of his life.
That's right, today's Chen Guojun only hopes to spend the rest of his life quietly, taking care of his relatives and friends and the career he loves.
After years of hard work, his relationship with his eldest son Chen He has been restored to the same as before, and Chen He pinned his dream on his father and became his most powerful assistant in his career.
The tacit cooperation between them has also attracted much attention in the film and television industry.
For Chen Guojun today, the proudest thing is the happy family he and his wife Fu Liyun have created together, and the joy brought by the arrival of a new life.
Whenever his eyes fell on his wife's beautiful face, admiring the happiness flowing through her face, Chen Guojun was always surrounded by a deep sense of satisfaction.
Indeed, only at this moment, what we choose to cherish is the stable happiness of this world, rather than indulging in the love-hate entanglement that has dissipated.
Life is a long journey, time slips away in a hurry, and being able to stay with your loved ones and share the joy of family is undoubtedly the deepest gratitude to the sky. The former wanderer, now Chen Guojun, finally understood the profound meaning of this wise saying.
He is no longer obsessed with the past, but is determined to become a messenger of positive energy and inject more warmth and hope into the world.