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Text: Cold Snow Mountain
Edited by Hanxue Mountain
Preface
Emotional experiences are often the most complex in a person's life.
How many people can not be trapped by love and not hurt by love?
Chen Guojun's emotional road has been bumpy and rugged, with ups and downs, he has experienced vigorous love, and he has also endured huge emotional trauma.
So, what kind of love-hate entanglement does he have in this relationship? Let's walk into the story of Chen Guojun together.
The beginning of his career as an actor
In 1953, Chen Guojun was born in a military family in Changchun City, Jilin Province.
His father was a literary and artistic soldier in the army, and under the influence of his ears and eyes, Chen Guojun has formed an indissoluble bond with literature and art since he was a child.
His father often took him to participate in the army's theatrical performances, and Chen Guojun showed extraordinary acting talent at a young age, which aroused the applause of the audience.
However, when he was young, he was not interested in acting, but longed for a military career.
After graduating from high school, Chen Guojun enlisted in the army as he wished, and by virtue of his excellent quality, he became the technical backbone of the reconnaissance company.
The twist of fate happened by chance.
Wang Xiucai, who was an actor at Changchun Film Studio at the time, was amazed by Chen Guojun's acting talent when he performed in the army.
He was discerning and thought that Chen Guojun was very talented as an actor, and strongly recommended him to join Changchun Film Studio.
After some careful consideration, Chen Guojun decided to give up the good future of the army and devote himself to acting career.
In 1975, 22-year-old Chen Guojun started his career as an actor.
There, he starred in many films, including the well-known "Sword and Tiger Shadow", "Blood Fertile China" and so on.
With his dedicated work attitude and excellent acting skills, he quickly made a name for himself in the film industry and his career was on the right track.
Meet his beloved wife Zhao Yamin
In Changying Studio, Chen Guojun met Zhao Yamin, a girl from Shanxi.
The two young people are both newcomers, learning together and helping each other.
Although Zhao Yamin came from an ordinary background, with her own hard work and perseverance, she entered Changying Studio through layers of selection.
Her arrival made Chen Guojun see the independent and self-reliant side of women.
With the help of the people around them, they quickly fell in love.
In 1979, Chen Guojun and Zhao Yamin tied the knot, and the following year, their son Chen He fell to the ground.
After marriage, Zhao Yamin devoted herself to the family, took care of her husband and son, and kept the house in order.
And Chen Guojun, who is ambitious, focuses on filming to make money to support his family.
The two respect each other like guests and love each other.
In 1980, with the role of "Xia Yu" in the movie "Medicine", Chen Guojun became famous and became a hot young actor.
In the face of her husband's success, Zhao Yamin was not jealous, but gave him the greatest support and encouragement.
Under her careful care, Chen Guojun devoted himself to his acting career and achieved fruitful results.
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However, life's trials often come unexpectedly.
After becoming popular, Chen Guojun gradually felt bored with the dull married life.
When he met Liu Xiaoqing, a film superstar in his prime, he could no longer resist the throbbing in his heart.
Liu Xiaoqing not only has the beauty of the country and the city, but also has a convincing talent.
Her smile firmly attracted Chen Guojun's attention.
The two sparked love during the filming of the movie "Deep in the Heart", and Chen Guojun desperately chose Liu Xiaoqing and divorced Zhao Yamin by agreement.
Liu Xiaoqing's charm made Chen Guojun fascinated and crazy about love.
He left his wife and children behind and went to Liu Xiaoqing's side.
In order to be with his beloved woman forever, he did not hesitate to spend all his savings to hold a grand wedding for the two.
However, there is no such thing as a free lunch.
Soon after marriage, the predicament of reality plunged Chen Guojun into a trough.
He decided not to be an actor anymore and wanted to change careers to become a director.
In order to raise funds, the couple had to "go around" to perform.
Although Liu Xiaoqing was physically tired, she never complained, but silently supported her husband's dream.
When she was in a difficult situation, Liu Xiaoqing never gave up on her husband, which sublimated Chen Guojun's love for her to the extreme.
It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, and when he was devoting himself to his career, the news of his wife's "cheating" came.
Chen Guojun was heartbroken and even wanted to die with Liu Xiaoqing.
Eventually, in the midst of endless bickering and torment, the loving couple chose to part ways.
After the divorce, both wrote books about the marriage and uncovered each other's scars.
For a time, Chen Guojun was infamous and became a street rat that everyone shouted and beaten.
Meet true love Fu Liyun again
Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what the next one will taste like.
After the divorce, Chen Guojun met his true love again - Fu Liyun, a 16-year-old Beiying student who was younger than him.
Compared with the vigorous with Liu Xiaoqing, the love with Fu Liyun is plain and warm.
Although Fu Liyun is young, she is empathetic and considerate.
Under her care, Chen Guojun regained confidence and walked out of the haze of emotion.
The two soon entered the marriage hall and gave birth to their second son, Chen Yonglin.
With the support of Fu Liyun, Chen Guojun's career took off again.
The films he directed, such as "A Policeman's Story" and "Anti-Drug Hero", have achieved good results.
However, Liu Xiaoqing's "heart knot" has always been difficult to unravel.
For decades, this "wealthy love" has been a gap that is difficult for the two of them to cross, and the relationship between the two has dropped to a freezing point.
Even if they meet unexpectedly in public, they will choose to turn a blind eye and be stingy with even a simple greeting.
Ice release of previous suspicions: reconciliation with Liu Xiaoqing
Good medicine is bitter, and loyalty is against the ear.
Fu Liyun saw through her husband's knot, not only did not mind, but encouraged him to resolve the grievances with his ex-wife.
In her opinion, husbands and wives should be honest with each other and open their hearts.
Chen Guojun finally mustered up the courage to reunite with Liu Xiaoqing in a certain show.
I haven't seen each other for many years, both of them are no longer young, and their faces in their prime are also stained with traces of time.
"You are the most important and only person in my life that I have ever loved with all my heart. Chen Guojun's affectionate confession melted the ice in Liu Xiaoqing's heart.
She couldn't control her emotions anymore, and tears burst into her eyes.
The two hugged and shed tears, released their previous suspicions, and got back together.
Love is a thing of the past, but the intertwining of love and hate in the past is finally imprinted in each other's hearts and is indelible.
This relationship is the most shining memory of their lives, and it is also the most unforgettable lesson.
Fatherhood: Accompany your sons as they grow up
Chen Guojun's emotional experience has been full of ups and downs, but he has never forgotten who he is as a father.
No matter how guilty he feels about his ex-wife Zhao Yamin, he always tries his best to play the role of a good father.
After divorcing Liu Xiaoqing, he not only gave his son Chen He living expenses, but also often visited, accompanied, and gave his father love.
In addition to his busy work, he also found time to pick up his son to live by his side.
Over time, Chen He got rid of the shadow of his parents' divorce, and his mentality became more and more cheerful and optimistic.
Chen He thrived under the careful care of his parents and inherited his father's artistic talent.
He likes to follow behind his father and watch him command Ruoding on the set.
Whenever his son comes to the crew to visit the class, Chen Guojun will guide him carefully, teach him to solve his doubts, and guide him.
Under the influence of his father, Chen He aspired to become an excellent director.
He studied hard, studied hard, and finally made his dream come true.
Today, Chen He has grown into an excellent director, making this "deserter-born" father proud.
Every time he mentions his son's achievements, Chen Guojun will dance with his eyebrows and talk endlessly.
For his youngest son Chen Yonglin, Chen Guojun is even more loving.
He often takes his son out to play and tells him the truth of life.
Under his father's earnest teachings, Chen Yonglin developed an honest and kind character and became a sunny and cheerful boy.
Chen Guojun hopes that his sons can find happiness and live the life they want.
He often said that in life, the most precious thing in life is family and friendship, as long as you have these two, it is the greatest wealth.
epilogue
Chen Guojun's ups and downs in life can be called an emotional drama.
He was originally a grass citizen, but he embarked on the road of acting by mistake, tasted the sweetness of love, and also endured emotional pain.
In the first half of his life, he was up and down in the sea of love, hurt the people around him, and was also hurt by love; in the second half of his life, he gained a happy family and learned tolerance and relief.
His life is a love-hate movement, with ups and downs, joys and sorrows.