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Text: Cold Snow Mountain
Edited by Hanxue Mountain
Preface
On the road of life, who has not experienced ups and downs? Who has not had an unforgettable love?
When we look back, do we still remember the high-spirited self we used to be?
The life story of actor Zhao Mingming may be the epitome of our life.
Let's step into her world and listen to the bittersweet past.
A beautiful girl, the road to acting started
In the early 70s of the last century, a beautiful baby girl fell to the ground in Shenyang.
This girl is the actor Zhao Mingming, who later became a household name.
Zhao Mingming has had outstanding looks since she was a child, with a pink-carved face and a pair of big eyes that can speak, making her always the most eye-catching presence in the crowd.
"Obviously she is so beautiful, she will definitely become a big star in the future!"
Although the young Zhao Mingming doesn't quite understand what a "star" is, looking at the glamorous actresses on TV, she has planted a seed of acting in her heart.
Zhao Mingming's parents are ordinary salarymen, although the family is not wealthy, they have always supported their daughter to pursue her dreams.
With the encouragement of his parents, Zhao Mingming began to learn dance and acting, and moved towards his dream step by step.
In 1988, Zhao Mingming was admitted to the university with excellent grades to study acting.
With her natural beauty and love for acting, she quickly became a popular figure on campus with many suitors.
However, among the many admirers, only the name Yingning was quietly imprinted in Zhao Mingming's heart.
Yingning was born in a scholarly family and is recognized as a talented person on campus.
He was gentle and elegant, and he quickly attracted Zhao Mingming's attention.
The two met at a campus event and began a romantic relationship.
Love sprouts, go to Beijing hand in hand
On the university campus, the love between Zhao Mingming and Yingning quietly sprouted.
Although the school explicitly forbade puppy love at that time, the two still came together without hesitation.
They agreed that they would become husband and wife after graduation, support each other, and work together.
In 1992, only 6 days after graduating from college, Zhao Mingming and Yingning received their marriage certificates.
After getting married, the two with acting dreams went to Beijing together and began a difficult life.
At that time, Beijing was the dream city in the hearts of countless young people.
Every day, a large number of young people with dreams pour in from all over the country, either who want to make a career here or find their own stage here.
Zhao Mingming and Yingning are one of the most ordinary pairs.
When I first arrived in Beijing, it was not easy.
To save money, they rented a modest bungalow on the rural-urban interface.
There was no furniture in the room except for a bed and a simple wardrobe.
In order to make ends meet, during the day, the two traveled around for various auditions and interviews;
In the evening, I huddled into a small rental house and discussed my future plans.
At that time, Zhao Mingming was already famous, and Yingning's career was still in its infancy.
In order to support his wife, Yingning acted as Zhao Mingming's agent.
This year, under the strong recommendation of Yingning, Zhao Mingming took over the role of "Buckle" in "Women Are Not the Moon".
With his superb acting skills, Zhao Mingming quickly emerged in the entertainment industry and became a hot new star.
The career is popular, and the marriage is cracked
With the rapid development of his career, Zhao Mingming has gradually become a household name.
However, her busy work made her and Yingning get together less and leave more, and the relationship between the two also underwent subtle changes.
Yingning watched his wife's career flourish, but she stood still, and her heart was inevitably lost.
Gradually, his attitude towards Zhao Mingming changed from the initial care to pickiness and indifference.
Faced with the change of her husband, Zhao Mingming, who was immersed in the peak of her career, did not have much energy to mend this precarious marriage.
As the saying goes, "drama is like life", Zhao Mingming on the stage is glamorous, and his smile and smile affect the hearts of thousands of audiences;
Zhao Mingming in the audience felt more and more cold and tired of marriage.
When she dreams back at midnight, she often remembers the sweet time when she was in love with Yingning.
At that time, Yingning was still the considerate man who would cook breakfast for her and come to the set to pick her up when she worked overtime until late at night.
And now, even if two people meet, they always have a cold war, and even talking well has become a luxury.
In 1997, under Yingning's strong recommendation again, Zhao Mingming took over the role of "Zhao Feiyan" in "Han Palace Feiyan".
In order to conform to the thin image of the character, Zhao Mingming completed the filming almost in a half-starved state, and finally broke the ceiling of his career again and became a well-known actress.
However, the rift in the marriage has long since appeared.
The couple, who gather less and leave more, drift apart in endless quarrels.
Yingning began to stay home frequently at night, and became less and less concerned about her family.
Zhao Mingming was vaguely aware of the change in her husband, but there was no evidence.
She began to wonder if the marriage could go ahead.
She was betrayed during pregnancy and divorced just after giving birth
In 2000, Zhao Mingming, who was at the peak of his career, announced his pregnancy under great expectations.
She temporarily left the film industry and concentrated on raising her baby at home, but Yingning was so busy that she couldn't find a trace, often leaving early and returning late, or even staying up all night.
It turned out that during Zhao Mingming's pregnancy, Yingning fell in love with another woman.
Facing his increasingly bloated wife, Yingning's heart no longer has the tenderness of the past.
For a woman, pregnancy is the most important moment in her life when she needs her husband's company.
However, at this time, Zhao Mingming could only go to the prenatal examination alone, and faced all kinds of discomfort during pregnancy alone.
She has tried to save Yingning's heart countless times, but every time she only gets Yingning's cold face and perfunctory.
Zhao Mingming couldn't understand why the man who once said that he would give her a piece of the sky could be so ruthless now.
Fate played a cruel joke on the woman.
Zhao Mingming had just given birth to a child, and Yingning couldn't wait to file for divorce.
Looking at his infant daughter, Zhao Mingming begged Yingning to change his mind.
However, a man with a changed heart is as cold as a wolf.
In the end, Zhao Mingming had to sign his name on the divorce agreement.
Looking at the gray sky outside the window of the ward, Zhao Mingming's heart was like falling into an ice cellar.
Once, she thought that she was married to love and would be able to get a complete home.
However, reality gave her a heavy slap in the face.
Before the child was a month old, she became a single mother.
At this time, Zhao Mingming didn't know how to face the future.
Play a single mother and laugh at life
After the divorce, Zhao Mingming raised his daughter alone.
In order to give her child a better life, she returned to work soon after giving birth.
Busy, she entrusted her daughter to her parents to take care of, and she kept running between the set and her family.
Without her husband's support, Zhao Mingming could often only sleep for a few hours, and her body also fell into a lot of problems.
But whenever he sees his daughter grow up day by day, Zhao Mingming feels that no matter how hard it is, it is worth it.
In order not to let his daughter feel inferior because of a single-parent family, Zhao Mingming did his best to give his daughter full of love.
She reads with her daughter, chats with her, and grows up with her.
Gradually, the daughter became sensible, not only with excellent academic performance, but also for the sake of her mother everywhere.
Every festival, her daughter always sends a greeting card made by herself, which makes Zhao Mingming moved.
More than 20 years have passed, and the baby in swaddling clothes has now grown into a slim girl.
The sensible daughter often accompanies Zhao Mingming, and the mother and daughter are inseparable.
And over the years, Zhao Mingming has never looked for another man.
In her opinion, nothing is more important than her daughter.
Life is like a marathon, and running to the end is the real victory.
Zhao Mingming used his strength and courage to finish the marathon.
She proved with her actions that women don't need to be dependent on men to live a wonderful life.
Her story has inspired countless women who have suffered setbacks in their love and careers, and made them understand that as long as they have a strong heart, no difficulty is invincible.
Today, Zhao Mingming is still active on the screen, using her enthusiasm and talent to perform one moving role after another.
She also often encourages women in interviews to be brave enough to pursue their dreams and not to easily pin their happiness on others.
Because, on the road of life, the most important thing is to find your true self.
epilogue
Life is like a journey, we will meet all kinds of people on the journey, we will reap the touch and happiness, but also inevitably taste sadness and tears.
Zhao Mingming's story teaches us that love can be charming, but sometimes it can also be fragile.
Only by maintaining an independent and self-reliant heart and laughing at the various encounters in life can we embrace our own happiness.