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Looking back on the past, Zhao Mingming's heart involuntarily swelled with complex emotions. In the year 2000, which was destined to change the trajectory of her life, when the bell of the new century rang, she finally ushered in the most difficult moment - she and Yingning officially went through the divorce procedures, ending their 8-year marriage.
At that time, they chose to be self-reliant, refused to rely on the protection of the Ying family, and struggled to survive in a simple hut. Zhao Mingming adheres to his principles and will never use the relationship of the Ying family to pave the way for himself.
Relying on her own efforts and talents, she starred in "A Woman Is Not the Moon" as the heroine "Buckle", which is loved by the audience, and reached the peak of her career in one fell swoop.
However, the good times didn't last long, and during the precious time when Zhao Mingming was pregnant and gave birth, Yingning betrayed her and hid another relationship from her. When Zhao Mingming received a letter of resignation from her husband, her heart was completely broken.
This seems to indicate that the memories of their years together have also turned into nothingness, and everything has reached the point of no return.
Zhao Mingming didn't understand why Ying Ning chose to turn his back on her in the end, even though they had gone through so many hardships together. At this moment, she truly realized the inner world of her sister-in-law Song Dandan, and felt the helplessness and pain of being betrayed.
This failed marriage brought a heavy blow to Zhao Mingming's body and mind, and she couldn't believe that she would choose the wrong person and entrust her whole life to it.
In the bell of the new century in 2000, Zhao Mingming and Yingning officially went through the divorce procedures, ending their 8-year married life. Since then, she has chosen to retire behind the scenes, face the hardships of life alone, and devote herself wholeheartedly to the healthy growth of her daughter.
The trauma in his heart is too huge, Zhao Mingming can no longer trust anyone, and would rather live alone than try a new relationship again.
In 1998, Zhao Mingming and Yingning's lives changed dramatically. After a long struggle, they finally ushered in a new chapter in their lives.
This was supposed to be an exciting thing, but it became the bane of their married life.
This is undoubtedly the biggest betrayal and injury to Zhao Mingming. The good memories of them working together to create a brilliant career and tide over the wind and rain together seem to be gone up at this moment.
Zhao Mingming's heart was broken, she couldn't believe that she would choose the wrong person and entrust her whole life to it.
At this time, Zhao Mingming really understood the situation of his sister-in-law Song Dandan back then. It turns out that whether it is the Ying family or others, they are so unkind in the face of feelings, they can't understand the pain in the heart of the betrayed person at all.
And Zhao Mingming's pain may be worse than Song Dandan's, because she watched her carefully established marriage collapse like this.
This failed marriage dealt a heavy blow to Zhao Mingming. She couldn't help but feel remorse for her ignorance and naivety, why she would trust Yingning's promises and oaths so easily in the first place.
In the face of the great changes in his life, Zhao Mingming, who missed the peak of his career, can only face the hardships of life alone at the moment.
For the sake of his daughter's healthy growth, Zhao Mingming chose to retire behind the scenes without hesitation and concentrate on taking care of the child. But the trauma in her heart is so great that she can no longer trust anyone, and would rather live alone than try a new relationship again.
She deeply felt that she was like her sister-in-law Song Dandan, who was also hurt by the Ying family and lost the opportunity for a happy marriage and career.
Back in 1995, at the invitation of the famous director Mr. Zhang Guangqian, Zhao Mingming and Yingning co-starred in the TV series "Phalaenopsis". In this work, they played a pair of brother and sister - Bai Hui and Bai Xin.
The couple had a rare opportunity to show their acting skills together in front of the screen, full of endless joy and joy.
At that time, Zhao Mingming and Yingning had already written an enviable and glorious chapter in Beijing. Despite coming from such a prominent family as the Ying family, they chose the path of self-reliance and struggled to survive in a humble hut.
But even though they live in such a poor environment, they are still full of passion and fighting spirit, encouraging and supporting each other.
Zhao Mingming has become a hot star at that time with his excellent acting skills in "Women Are Not the Moon". However, instead of using the Ying family's connections to pave the way for herself, she stuck to her principles and worked hard to make a name for herself with her hard work and talent.
She knows that only by relying on her own strength to seek achievements can she truly gain the recognition and love of the widest audience.
At the same time, Yingning is also silently supporting his wife's career. He personally painted and renovated their cottage, turning the humble home into a welcoming family haven.
Looking at Yingning's busy figure, Zhao Mingming couldn't help but be moved to tears for his dedication. She knows that choosing Yingning is the most correct decision in her life.
With the emotional support of mutual motivation and mutual help, their lives gradually became better. Even though Yingning's third uncle had sternly pointed out that Zhao Mingming's achievements were not enough, she was not complacent because of this.
Instead, she chooses her scripts more carefully, choosing only those roles that have deep value to perform.
Such efforts have finally paid off, and Zhao Mingming's outstanding performance in "Phalaenopsis" has once again won the love and recognition of the audience. This unpretentious, but tenacious image of a rural girl seems to be the epitome of Zhao Mingming himself, which deeply touches the hearts of every audience.
Back on the campus of Jilin Art Institute in 1988, Zhao Mingming and Yingning seemed to be right in front of them when they first met. At that time, Zhao Mingming, a sophomore, was in the flowering season, with outstanding appearance and good looks, and was rated as the man of the year in the school by the school.
And Yingning, who was also born in an elite family, also has a very high reputation in the school, and the encounter between the two is like a trick of fate.
In that strictly disciplined art school, romantic relationships between students were strictly forbidden. However, when Yingning and Zhao Mingming's relationship was discovered by the school, they immediately became the focus of the teacher-student meeting, and were severely criticized and criticized again and again.
In the face of so much pressure, many people think that this relationship cannot be sustained. But it backfired, and the relationship between Yingning and Zhao Mingming became more and more stable under many obstacles, and it was difficult to separate.
In this case, the school also had to summon their families to try to stop the relationship with the help of parents.
For Yingning, he is also facing great difficulties and pressures. However, these pressures did not break him, but inspired him to work hard and turn the situation around.
In June 1992, Yingning and Zhao Mingming finally ushered in the end of their college careers. Although they were not outstanding academically, they resolutely decided to walk out of the school gate, plunged headlong into the Civil Affairs Bureau, and officially entered the palace of marriage.
Since then, the lovers have embarked on the road to Beijing and have gone all out to pursue their own acting careers. Yingning's family background reappeared, and the third uncle Yingruocheng and cousin Yingda were all celebrities in the industry at that time.
However, instead of relying on family connections, they insisted on their principles, refused the family's protection, and resolved to survive in a humble hut located in Xi'anmen.
Zhao Mingming even said that she didn't want her light to come from the identity of "Song Dandan's brother-in-law", but to rely on her unique charm to exude dazzling light.
She believes that women should have their own unique value, not just be subordinate to others.
It was with such persistence and courage that Zhao Mingming and Yingning finally wrote an enviable and glorious chapter in Beijing. Their stories undoubtedly bring endless courage and inspiration to all those who seek true love.
Time flies, and when 2013 comes again, Zhao Mingming's life has long been the same as it was back then. This year, the famous director Yingda once again directed the sequel to the TV series "Our Family", and he specially invited Zhao Mingming to play the role of a primary school teacher in the play.
This undoubtedly confirms that the relationship between Zhao Mingming and the Ying family has tended to reconcile, and there is no longer the same estrangement and suspicion as back then.
In the past years, Zhao Mingming was also an object that the Ying family could not understand and accept. After her marriage to Yingning broke down, Zhao Mingming chose to raise her daughter independently and retired from the background.
She never said anything negative about Yingning in front of her daughter, but often let her daughter go to live at her father's house, protecting Yingning's rights as a father.
Such tolerance and understanding have undoubtedly won the respect of the British family. After many years, Zhao Mingming has completely relieved the original pain and no longer harbors any resentment towards the Ying family.
Maybe it's because she herself has experienced the same pain and can better understand the emotional entanglements between relatives and friends.
That year, at the invitation of director Yingda, Zhao Mingming appeared in the public eye again. At that time, almost no one could recognize this former "sister" Zhao Mingming, because the changes of time had made her appearance change dramatically.
From the demeanor when he played the role of "Buckle" back then, to his slightly vicissitudes of life now, Zhao Mingming has undoubtedly experienced the vicissitudes and tribulations of life.
When asked why he chose to retire from the screen, Zhao Mingming said that it was due to his own health condition. But she also admitted that the loss and helplessness over the years have made her physically and mentally exhausted and need a period of rest.
"As soon as I relaxed, time passed at my fingertips...... she sighed.
In fact, Zhao Mingming originally had the opportunity to seize the opportunity and create more brilliant career achievements. However, she chose her family without hesitation and gave everything for her daughter.
Although she eventually suffered a heavy blow of betrayal and divorce, fortunately, her daughter eventually grew up to be an excellent person. At the age of 18, she was given the opportunity to study abroad, which made Zhao Mingming sincerely gratified.
At this point, Zhao Mingming finally has more leisure time of his own. The friends around her matched her again, but she politely declined, saying: "I have raised the child by myself, and now I really don't need to add any more trouble." "
She still deeply remembers the trauma of being betrayed at the beginning, and is reluctant to try a new relationship again.