In 2000, after Zhao Mingming, who became popular because of a movie "Women Are Not the Moon", gave birth to a daughter with all his strength, the first thing her husband Yingning said was: "Divorce!" ”
When Zhao Mingming heard this, he couldn't believe it, and asked her husband hysterically: "Do you know what you are talking about!" Why? ”
And the indifferent husband at the moment did not answer, directly threw the divorce agreement on Zhao Mingming, who had just given birth, turned his head and left, and did not look at the child from beginning to end.
Thrown in the delivery room, Zhao Mingming never thought that his originally smooth life would end up like this because of a man.
First, at the peak, disappear
In 1997, Zhao Mingming became popular overnight with "Zhao Feiyan" in "Han Palace Feiyan" and became a big star known to every household.
When everyone thought that her acting career would rise to another level, she made an unexpected decision.
At an event meeting, Zhao Mingming announced to the public that he was quitting the entertainment industry.
Fans were very surprised and advised Zhao Mingming to continue to develop his acting career, and some even contacted Zhao Mingming and begged her to continue acting.
Even his mentor in college contacted Zhao Mingming and told her in a serious manner: "You must cherish your career and don't give up at will." Friends around her also advised her to think carefully.
But Zhao Mingming was very firm and said to everyone: "I have decided, there is no need to persuade me anymore." ”
Why Zhao Mingming chose Xiying has to start with her meeting Yingning, a man.
During college, Zhao Mingming attracted many admirers because of his beautiful appearance. The boys worshipped Zhao Mingming as the "goddess" in their hearts.
Every morning, there are always boys holding flowers and gifts in their hands, waiting for Zhao Mingming to appear downstairs in the dormitory. Many boys would also run directly to Zhao Mingming's dormitory to find her.
But Zhao Mingming disdained those admirers, and even felt very troubled by their behavior, but he suffered that there was no good way to refuse.
At this moment, Zhao Mingming noticed the unknown Ying Ning and found that he had been focusing on his own affairs, so he wanted to ask him for help.
In fact, at this time, Yingning had already liked Zhao Mingming, but he didn't show the dew, secretly protecting her and waiting for the opportunity to come.
Therefore, when Zhao Mingming asked him to help pretend to be his boyfriend, he was overjoyed and agreed without saying a word.
Later, a boy wanted to send flowers to Zhao Mingming. Zhao Mingming directly refused: "I won't accept it, I have a boyfriend, he is Yingning." ”
This news immediately exploded among the boys, and many boys in the school were sad for a long time and depressed all day.
Only Ying Ning secretly rejoiced alone, and the roommates also said that Ying Ning was so lucky to find such a beautiful girlfriend.
Under this excuse of pretending to be her boyfriend, Yingning went to the dormitory every day to find Zhao Mingming and brought her breakfast, snacks, and flowers in a different way.
Gradually, Zhao Mingming really liked this careful and silent boy.
One evening, Ying Ning sent Zhao Mingming back to the dormitory and quietly handed Zhao Mingming a small note. Zhao Mingming opened it and saw that it said, "I like you, obviously be my girlfriend."
Zhao Mingming did not hesitate, so the two sweetly fell in love.
Soon, the story spread throughout the school, and they became the school's leading figures.
At that time, it was forbidden to talk about love in school.
The leaders of the school found them and said in a stern voice: "You guys quickly break me up!" If you don't break up, you will be punished publicly! ”
But Zhao Mingming didn't stop at all, and even grabbed Yingning's hand and raised it in front of the leader, firmly resisting: "I don't!" I'm going to marry him, and we'll always be together! ”
The leader was so angry that he stomped his foot and slammed the thermos cup on the table, splashing the water inside.
The leaders of the school had no choice but to tell Zhao Mingming and Yingning's parents.
Hearing this news, Zhao Mingming's father rushed to school overnight, and after coming to school, he immediately slapped his daughter and said angrily: "You girl is not ashamed, hurry up and break me up!" ”
At this time, after Zhao Mingming was reprimanded by his father, the tears in his eyes fell down in large numbers, and he still said stubbornly: "I don't!" ”
Everyone thought that this would tear them apart, but it didn't!
Yingning's parents didn't want the two to be together, and under the pressure of school and parents, Yingning had already become a little shaken.
But Zhao Mingming's attitude made Yingning very moved, so Yingning promised Zhao Mingming: "I will be good to you for the rest of my life, and I will never betray you." ”
The stronger the external obstruction, the closer the two will hold. In this way, the two spent four years of college in love.
Four years of college passed in a flash, and on the sixth day after graduation, the two who had nothing ran to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a license to get married and officially became husband and wife.
It's a pity that this love story came to an unexpected ending.
Second, the most affectionate can not stay, gradually drifting away and speechless
In fact, after the two got married, they were very sweet for a long time, and her husband Yingning respected Zhao Mingming very much and supported her career.
Beijing is rich in film and television resources and has more opportunities than anywhere else. Zhao Mingming took the initiative to tell her husband that he wanted to go to Beijing to work hard in the future.
So, Yingning gave up her job in her hometown and accompanied her wife to Beijing to work hard.
Zhao Mingming was acting outside, and Ying Ning was her agent and helped her arrange everything.
Zhao Mingming's first play "Women Are Not the Moon" after graduation made her popular, and later acted in more and more plays and became a popular female star.
At that time, Ying Ning just stayed at home and helped Zhao Mingming deal with some trivial matters, and did not achieve much.
In order for his brother not to be said to eat soft rice, his younger brother Yingda called Zhao Mingming to star in his TV series "I Love My Home".
It's just that no one expected that Zhao Mingming, who starred in "I Love My Home", and his sister-in-law Song Dandan had the same final ending.
Later, "Han Palace Feiyan" exploded, and Zhao Mingming's position in the entertainment industry went to a higher level.
The pace of the two people gradually became more and more inconsistent, and the contradictions became more and more, and they would always quarrel over some small things.
Ying Ning even complained to the media about his wife, "She is too busy with work to be home." I went abroad some time ago, and I haven't been home for most of the year. If it goes on like this, it will be discussed by the family. ”
After the explosion, many jobs followed, the two always got together less and separated more, and her husband's complaints made Zhao Mingming begin to reflect on herself, and she felt that she had snubbed Yingning.
In order to save the relationship between husband and wife, Zhao Mingming decided to stop acting work during the rising period of his career and give birth to a child for his husband.
But when Zhao Mingming dropped everything and returned to the family, the person who ignored the family all day became a husband.
When Zhao Mingming was pregnant, Yingning saw that the people around her had successful careers and told Zhao Mingming that she also wanted to make movies and become a director like her cousin Yingda.
She recognized her husband's talent very much, and always felt that his husband should have greater achievements, so she was very supportive, and without saying a word, she took out all her savings to start a business for her husband.
But since then, Ying Ning has always left early and returned late, sometimes drunk, and slept all the time after returning home, without asking about his wife, who is pregnant with Liujia.
Zhao Mingming also noticed her husband's abnormality, he became more and more indifferent to himself, but in order to maintain the whole family, she only treated her husband as if he was busy with work and never asked much.
Zhao Mingming has always wanted to fill the cracks in the relationship between the two with a child and keep her husband by his side.
But what she didn't know was that her husband had contact with various women during his re-entrepreneurship, and they would make him happy more than Zhao Mingming, and Yingning already had someone else in his heart at this time.
That day, Zhao Mingming, who was sweating profusely and weak, was pushed out of the delivery room, and she saw her husband waiting at the door, and she was still looking forward to her husband's joy when he saw his daughter.
However, her husband Yingning was very indifferent, and without asking a word, he dumped the divorce agreement on her, and he didn't even look at the child.
Around the same time, Yingning's cousin Yingda also divorced Song Dandan.
At that time, Yingda served as the director to shoot "I Love My Home", and Song Dandan, as an actor, also exploded, and then the two rushed for work and rarely had emotional exchanges.
At this time, Yingda and Liang Huan, the screenwriter of "I Love My Home", got closer and closer, and the two talked about everything.
Song Dandan, who found out that her husband was cheating, was unwilling to continue the marriage and filed for divorce, but Yingda did not agree. Song Dandan had to cheat and asked Yingda for a divorce.
In the end, the two finally ended up divorced
He and his sister-in-law Song Dandan were tragically betrayed by their husbands and their marriages were not smooth. This made Zhao Mingming's concept of love hit hard, and she no longer believed in love.
She often held her young daughter and cried secretly, and she couldn't understand why those men who had sworn a mountain alliance would change their hearts.
Third, things are people and non-people, and beauty is late
When Ying Ning filed for divorce, she had already cheated on others. Soon after the divorce, he married his second wife, and he had long forgotten Zhao Mingming, who had shared happiness and suffering.
And Zhao Mingming never stepped into the siege of marriage again, and raised his daughter alone for 23 years.
After the divorce, she didn't even say that Yingning was not at all bad, she only hoped that both parties could be fine, and her daughter could grow up unaffected.
After many years, the protagonists of "I Love My Home" gathered again by chance, and Zhao Mingming was much older than the naked eye in the past.
However, the eyes are still clear and bright, and the smile is still gentle and moving, worthy of being a "generation of goddesses".
The editor feels that it is always difficult for others to explain emotional matters, and only the parties know the reason.
If she hadn't become popular, maybe it would have been a different ending.
But it is worth affirming that the stubborn "button" and the beautiful "Zhao Feiyan" did make a deep impression.
Now 53 years old, Zhao Mingming has long been a late beauty, and it is difficult to see her works again, which is regrettable.
Does anyone remember the former costume beauty Zhao Mingming?