1. The difficult years of single mothers, looking back on the time when dreams came true
In the early spring of 1997, in the delivery room of the bustling Shenyang Central Hospital, a young and brave mother held her newborn baby daughter in her arms, her face full of happiness and satisfaction.
This mother is the famous actress Zhao Mingming, who has been praised as the "first beauty in ancient costumes". She is naturally beautiful, and she has been highly anticipated by the villagers since she was a child, hoping that she will one day shine on the bright screen.
However, just as Zhao Mingming was immersed in the joy of being a first-time mother, a sudden bad news shattered her dream like a thunderbolt in the clear sky. Her husband Yingning unexpectedly filed a shocking and unacceptable request for divorce after she had just experienced the pain of childbirth.
"I have no enthusiasm for this marriage. This newborn daughter is more of a heavy burden to me. The reason why I say these things now is because I really didn't know how to say them.
Ying Ning's straightforward words, like a sharp sword, pierced deep into Zhao Mingming's heart.
In an instant, the bright smile on her face instantly froze, replaced by endless helplessness, confusion, and bitterness. Zhao Mingming looked at the man in front of her in disbelief, she thought that she had finally found a bridge to happiness, but she didn't expect that at the most critical moment in her life, he would leave her so cruelly.
Recalling his arduous journey along the way, Zhao Mingming couldn't help but burst into tears. From her grand ambition to become an outstanding actor when she was a child, to the realization of her dream step by step with her outstanding talent and beautiful appearance, she has put in countless efforts and sweat, and finally ascended to the highest hall of honor of "the first beauty in ancient costumes".
However, just when her career climbed to the peak, she had to make a difficult choice between love and career - for the sake of Yingning, she resolutely gave up the acting career she loved, chose to return to her family, and started a new chapter in her life.
Second, Zhao Mingming's tortuous journey into the showbiz until he achieved brilliance
Zhao Mingming's desire to become a good actor can be traced back to the good times when she was still studying on campus. In 1988, with her excellent academic performance, she was admitted to the acting major as she wished, and since then she has embarked on a journey to acting.
In that wonderful sophomore year, Zhao Mingming magically ushered in her first opportunity to work as an actor, and she was honored to be selected into a high-profile iron man crew.
Despite the remarkable achievements and great success of this series, for Zhao Mingming, who is new to the entertainment industry, it is still not a real breakthrough and improvement, however, she did not feel depressed or lost because of this, on the contrary, she bravely chose to delve into the depths of performing arts more firmly and diligently.
The long-awaited year 1992 quietly came, and Zhao Mingming made a splash with her outstanding performance in the TV series "A Woman Is Not the Moon" with the role of "Buckle"! In the play, she vividly portrayed the tragic fate of a woman in distress, and her simple and unpretentious but touching acting skills made her quickly become famous and famous across the country overnight.
Since then, she has officially embarked on a dazzling acting career and has become a hot new generation of actors.
In the following years, Zhao Mingming starred in many popular film and television works, and her career soared into the sky like a rocket, thriving. Until 1997, she successfully created the classic role of "Zhao Feiyan" in the most important costume masterpiece in her life, "Han Palace Feiyan", which made her acting career reach an unprecedented peak.
Playing the role of "Zhao Feiyan" undoubtedly shows the unique charm of Zhao Mingming, an actor, vividly and vividly in front of the world. She is dressed in gorgeous court costumes, graceful dancing and superb acting skills, which can make the audience fascinated and fall in love with it at every moment.
This outstanding performance has made her a popular peak idol praised by the audience as "the first beauty in ancient costumes".
(The romantic journey of Yingning and Zhao Mingming who met and fell in love)
Just when Zhao Mingming's career was in full swing and the journey was smooth, she and her former campus lover Yingning finally became married and entered the palace of marriage. Yingning was born in a famous family, not only has extensive network resources in the entertainment industry, but also brilliantly assumes the responsibility of Zhao Mingming's agent.
For a time, this loving couple like a golden boy and a girl became the focus of envy of everyone.
Their acquaintance is also a good story to talk about. In college, Zhao Mingming was a campus goddess known to everyone, she was heroic and charming.
Although Yingning's family background is superior, but in the face of such a beautiful and moving her, she still can't resist the fire of love in her heart After some twists and turns, the two finally kicked off their love with a youth drama of "pretending to be boyfriend and girlfriend", and spent the rest of their lives together.
3. After Zhao Mingming quit the showbiz and returned to his family, his married life was in trouble
Just as Zhao Mingming's career was soaring and he won the honorary title of "The First Beauty in Ancient Costumes", his marital status fell into many difficulties. Her husband, Yingning, is deeply disturbed by her increasingly remarkable career achievements, and her heart overflows with unspeakable jealousy.
As a man from a prominent family like Yingning, he couldn't accept the situation of being under the light of his wife for a long time. As Zhao Mingming's reputation became more prominent, Yingning's pressure from his family and society also intensified.
Everyone praised Zhao Mingming as "the first beauty in ancient costumes", but he himself was just a "soft rice man" who relied on his wife to survive.
These gossips sounded tantamount to a great insult to Yingning, and he began to vent his anger to Zhao Mingming frequently, causing the conflict between the husband and wife to continue to intensify. Yingning always accuses Zhao Mingming of focusing only on work and ignoring her family, while Zhao Mingming thinks that Yingning fails to understand the hardships she faces as an actress.
In order to save this precarious marriage, Zhao Mingming made a heart-wrenching decision: she resolutely quit her job, quit the entertainment industry completely, and devoted all her energy to family life.
Zhao Mingming firmly believes that as long as she returns to the family and takes on the responsibility of housework, the conflict between husband and wife can be easily resolved.
However, the reality is far harsher than Zhao Mingming expected. She thought that she would be able to win Yingning's understanding and respect by giving up her career, but she never expected that Yingning's indifference and alienation from her would still be the same.
He always regarded Zhao Mingming as an idler with nothing to do, and turned a blind eye to her hard work. What's worse is that Yingning often prevaricates Zhao Mingming on the grounds that she is busy with work, and her care and greetings are also perfunctory.
Zhao Mingming was in pain, she had sacrificed all her career prospects for the sake of this family and Yingning. However, even so, Ying Ning did not have any gratitude, but became more and more cold to her.
The old love came to naught in an instant, and Zhao Mingming couldn't see any glimmer of hope.
Soon after Zhao Mingming fully devoted herself to family life, she was pleasantly surprised to find out that she was pregnant! She was full of joy looking forward to the birth of this newborn baby, hoping that it could inject new vitality into her marriage and change the emotional temperature that was gradually cooling.
However, the world is unpredictable, and Yingning has not shown the joy and expectation that he should have.
On the contrary, Yingning's care for Zhao Mingming and the fetus in his womb gradually drifted away, and his attitude became indifferent and perfunctory. Whenever Zhao Mingming longed for Yingning's care and greetings, Yingning always used his busy work as an excuse to prevaricate.
Sometimes, he would even lash out at Zhao Mingming, blaming her for being idle and unable to understand the pressure he was under in the workplace.
Zhao Mingming felt extremely painful, she thought that sacrificing her career to return to her family could be exchanged for Yingning's attention and respect, but the truth was that even if she devoted herself to family life, Yingning still turned a blind eye to her efforts.
During her pregnancy, Zhao Mingming was lonely and helpless, lacking her husband's companionship and care every day, so she could only silently endure physical and mental torture.
When Zhao Mingming thought that this marriage was irretrievable, she finally welcomed a healthy and lovely daughter. For her as a first-time mother, the arrival of her daughter is undoubtedly the greatest happiness.
However, just when Zhao Mingming had just given birth and had not had time to rest from the delivery room for a while, Yingning announced the decision to divorce her like a bolt from the blue.
"I've lost all enthusiasm for this marriage. This newborn daughter is just a burden for me. I'm telling you now because I never knew how to say it.
Ying Ning's words were cold and ruthless, like a basin of cold water, completely extinguishing the remaining hope in Zhao Mingming's heart.
From acquaintance to marriage, Zhao Mingming has paid too much for this feeling. She originally thought that the crystallization of childbirth love could arouse Yingning's cherishing of her, but she never thought that Yingning would leave her so resolutely at the moment when she needed love the most.
Zhao Mingming fell into unprecedented despair, his smile froze on his face, and tears slipped quietly.
In such a situation, Zhao Mingming, who was once known as the "first beauty in ancient costumes", was ruthlessly abandoned by her husband Yingning, and through this change, she has transformed into a beautiful but independent single mother.
However, after the divorce, Yingning quickly found new happiness and started the journey of life again.
Soon after, Yingning met a talented translator, Wang Qiong, during a workplace. The two hit it off at first sight, and their understanding and pursuit of life reached a high degree of compatibility.
In a short period of time, Yingning and this outsider entered the palace of marriage and opened a new chapter in life.
Since then, he has lived a low-key and happy life, which is in sharp contrast to Zhao Mingming's difficult circumstances in the past.
However, Zhao Mingming suffered an unprecedented blow, and her inner world was completely in chaos. The hard work she has put into this marriage over the years has come to naught in an instant, and her decision to give up her career for the sake of Yingning now seems more like her irreparable regret.
You gave up your bright star for him and were willing to be a virtuous and kind wife, but he gradually turned away from you, and finally turned his back on your unwavering courage. Zhao Mingming was heartbroken, and her appearance gradually withered under the baptism of tears.
The pain caused by the divorce is like a fuse, igniting Zhao Mingming's long-standing pain. She began to reminisce frequently about the glory days of her thriving career, and regretted her decision to give up everything in order to return to her family.
Indeed, it was with her superb acting skills and charming dancing that she became a popular idol of "the first beauty in ancient costumes". Every time it appears, it has attracted the attention of countless people and won widespread praise.
However, for the sake of Yingning, she did not hesitate to give up her entire career prospects, only hoping to live an ordinary life.
However, Yingning turned a blind eye to her efforts and finally chose to leave her. Zhao Mingming's heart was full of sadness, and she began to question whether she had taken the wrong path from the beginning and whether she had sacrificed too much.
Perhaps, she should have continued to struggle without any worries and showed her own brilliance.